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To The Person Who Broke My Heart And Shattered My Hopes: Thank You

thank you for breaking me

This goes to you – the person who broke my heart into countless tiny pieces. The person who ruined my hopes. And for that – THANK YOU.

Thank you for breaking me since now I’m whole again.

I know this might sound funny to you, but I’m really grateful to you for treating me so badly since now I know what way I deserve to be treated. I deserve a man that will accept me and cherish me for who I am. I deserve a man that will embrace my weaknesses and imperfections.

I deserve a man who will treat me with kindness, patience, and compassion. A man who will treat me with respect and dignity. A man who will always be there for me. A man that will love me truly, wholeheartedly, and unconditionally.

Thank you for breaking my trust in you as well. Thank you for being unfaithful to me. Thank you for lying to me – countless times. Because now I know that your unfaithfulness was never my fault. Now I know that it wasn’t me who wasn’t good enough for you. Rather, it was the other way around.

Thank you for not being there for me when I needed you most. It taught me how to love and take care of myself. It taught me that I should never prioritize the needs and wishes of others over my own. It taught me that there are people out there who are only interested in taking advantage of me.

Thank you for making me feel weak and unworthy. Now I am aware of my worth more than ever. Now I am aware of my strength and qualities. Now I believe in myself. Now I know I can achieve anything I set my mind to.


I’m also grateful to you for not loving me. Now I love myself the way no one ever will. I love my annoying habits, my quirks, my whims, my insecurities, my mistakes, my fears, my wounds – the ones you hated.

And last but not least, thank you for showing me what a one-sided, messy relationship looks like. Thank you for teaching me what selfishness and disrespect mean. Thank you for breaking me into pieces only so I could find the strength and pluck up enough courage to pick myself up and heal my wounds – the wounds you inflicted on my heart and soul.

Thank you for shattering my hopes and destroying everything I believed was true and pure. Because this helped me become the person I am today. This helped me become stronger and wiser.

Thank you!