It’s a common belief among people that independent women are some kind of a myth. However, strong independent women are very real, very prosperous and successful, and loads of fun to be with.
One of the most frequent mistakes people make is misinterpreting strong women and assuming that they don’t want love or companionship.
Let me tell you, that’s far, far from the truth. You can say we don’t need a man to justify our life but it takes just the right type of person that can be comfortable with our lifestyle.
Dear Gentlemen, to all of you out there, if you met a tough, “nobody’s wife” kind of a woman, buckle up buddies, take a deep breath, you’re in for a quite a ride. Here are some useful tips in order to get to know them better.
1. WE APPRECIATE OUR PRIVACY
If there’s something we value the most, it’s our God-given “alone time”. And believe it or not, we’re going to need our own personal space more often.
No, it doesn’t mean we are mad or don’t want to talk to you. Just imagine that our personal time is a sacred noninterruptible Zen zone. We need to be alone in order to recharge, so don’t expect us to be available at every moment of the day.
2. WE HAVE STANDARDS
We are very clear about future goals and visions and what we strive to accomplish in life. So of course, we expect similar ambitions in you.
Independent women are known to have a strong sense of morality and an impeccable set of values. She won’t feel satisfied pursuing a relationship if your values are in conflict with hers.
3. WE ARE NOT AFRAID OF BEING ALONE
Don’t take this too personally, but we had a life even before you. And as selfish as this sounds, sometimes you’re not invited. Strong, independent women like to be self-sufficient.
They are the type of women that you might see enjoying a cup of coffee at the local café, traveling alone or just taking that midnight stroll in the park. All of this is freedom.
4. WE LOOOVE AFFECTION
And I mean it. After all, we function like every other human being. At the end of the day, we still want a big hug and a few kisses. Independence will never outshine the desire to feel loved and adored.
5. WE ARE STUBBORN
I’m sure you’ve noticed by now, but we are very relentless when it comes down to ourselves. It’s just, we’ve taken a great control over our whole life and decisions.
6. WE ARE NOT NEEDY
Neediness is definitely not a part of their characteristics chart. At times you may wonder if you are needed in their worlds. You are. Just maybe not in the way you expected.
Strong women don’t need you in order to make their lives complete. Desperation is bad quality, especially when it comes to desperately needing another human being. It’s just not our thing.
7. WE DON’T PLAY IMMATURE GAMES
It’s either black or white.Your call. Strong women recognize when things are not working and will immediately take action in to correct the course.
But, if your dating a lady with a tough, i-can-do-it attitude don’t expect her to be in for the games. That’s just plain childish.
8. WE LOVE THE IDEA OF HAPPILY EVER AFTER, BUT ONLY WITH THE RIGHT PERSON
Strong women are faithful. They expect only commitment and honesty from you, and they are more than willing to return it with the same fiery passion.
That’s because she knows precisely what she wants from life and holds on to it tight whenever she gets it. If you are everything she wants, you, my friend, are lucky!
9. WE WILL ALWAYS LOVE OURSELVES MORE
Not in the narcissistic kind of way but more in the self- appreciation kind of a way. Every one of us has only themselves to depend on. And we need to focus on that particular relationship and make sure it’s constantly nourished and well taken care of.
10. WE KNOW WHAT WE WANT AND KNOW HOW TO GET IT
We are highly motivated and extremely determined when it comes to our goals and objectives. Strong independent women know what they’re capable of and aren’t afraid to take on various career challenges that come their way. Everything is a challenge. Bring it on!
11. WE EARN OUR OWN FUTURE
We are responsible for all of our actions and outcomes, and we make our own future!
Source: James M Sama
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