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10 Definite Signs Your Man Is So Into You


When it comes to men and the way they behave in relationships, there’s a general misconception that it’s very hard to figure out their feelings and whether they’re serious about you because they’re not usually vocal about their feelings.

But, as I said – this is just a misconception. Because the truth is that when it comes to expressing their feelings, men are not complicated at all. When a man falls deeply in love, his actions speak louder than his words.

When a man falls for you hard, his feelings make him act in certain ways. He doesn’t have to tell you, “I love you” five times a day for you to understand that he’s crazy about you.

Because all of a sudden, the look in his eyes and the warmth of his touch say more than his words ever could. All of a sudden, the energy that he radiates when he’s around you reveals that you occupy a special place in his heart.

So, if you find yourself wondering whether your man is in love with you, here are 10 sure signs that he is so into you:

1. He spends the majority of his free time with you.

You know a guy is so into you when he goes out of his way to rearrange his schedule so that he can spend more time with you.

When a man is madly in love with you, he can never get tired of you. Instead, he enjoys being around you. And it doesn’t matter if he has to cancel plans with his buddies over text to hang out with you – it is the precious time he spends with you that means the most to him.

2. He treats you like a lady.

He treats you with kindness and compassion. He treats you with respect and dignity. He showers you with affection, sweet words, and compliments. He doesn’t wait for your birthday to come to buy you flowers or your favorite box of chocolates. He holds the door open for you. He simply acts like a real gentleman around you.

3. He constantly talks about you to his family and friends.

You know how you can’t shut up about him to your besties? Well, guess what? Men talk to their pals too.

You may think that guys are reserved and cold when it comes to expressing their emotions, but the truth is that when a man is dearly in love with you, he won’t shut up about you to his family and buddies.

4. He wears his heart on his sleeve.

He is not ashamed to show how he feels about you. He’s not afraid to tell you those three powerful words, I love you. Because he knows that you two are destined to be together. He knows you two are meant for each other.

And knowing that God, faith, the universe, or you name it, brought you two together helps him wear his heart on his sleeve and undress his soul in front of you.

5. He fully commits to you.

When a man is deeply and madly in love with you, he doesn’t hesitate to fully commit to you. He imagines you as a part of his future. He lets you know that you mean the world to him and that he’s ready to devote his entire life to loving you and making you happy.

6. He notices every little thing about you.

When a guy is head over heels in love with you, he notices things about you that others fail to see. He notices the way you move your lips when you smile. He notices the way you tie up your hair in a ponytail.

He notices all those parts of your character that you desperately want other people to notice and embrace. Because this man loves every little thing about you, including your weaknesses and imperfections.

7. Your happiness means the world to him.

He doesn’t hesitate to sacrifice his needs and desires for your happiness. He is not afraid to leave his comfort zone and do things he’s never done before if he knows that this will contribute to your happiness in some way.

You can see that your happiness matters the most to him in the way he looks at you and comforts you when you’re feeling down in the dumps. You can see this in the things he does for you when you’re going through a rough time in life. You can see this in the way he boosts your confidence when you’re feeling weak and doubting your worth.

8. He is proud of you.

When a man is honestly and wholeheartedly in love with you, he feels proud of you. He’s proud of everything you are and everything you do. He enjoys talking about you to his friends and family and telling them how blessed he is for having such a beautiful, smart, and amazing person as you are in his life.

9. You’re the one he calls first whenever something important happens to him.

Because you mean the world to him. Because he’s more than pleased to share his interests, goals, achievements, successes, as well as problems with you. Because he wants to share his life with you.

10. Other women don’t interest him.

When a man is genuinely in love with you, he only has eyes for you. He doesn’t flirt with other women, nor does he notice when other women hit on him. Because in his heart, there’s a place for only one woman –you.