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12 Reasons Why Your Awesome Aunt Is One Of The Most Important People In Your Life


Aunt – a three-letter word that describes someone who is one of the most important people in our lives. Someone who has a powerful, profound, and positive effect on our lives.

Aunts are these amazing women that take on the role of second mothers. They show you love, understand you, and teach you values like a mom. They keep your secrets and are always on your side like a sister. They give you their support and believe in you like a best friend.

Aunts are these sweet, compassionate, loving beings that guide you through life and see you through rose-colored glasses.

They show others how proud of you they are when you are not around and point out your flaws and mistakes in front of you. They laugh at your jokes and they laugh with you when you do silly things.

Aunts are these lovely, caring beings that are always ready to jump in and spend time with you or help you when you’re going through tough times. They are your personal cheerleader. Your safe haven. Your treasure.

Here are 12 reasons why your aunt is one of the most important people in your life:

1. She is the person you call when you need help.

What makes aunts so special is the fact that they’ll never let their nephews and nieces deal with their problems on their own. And I believe you’ve already realized how unselfish, caring, and supportive your aunt is.

She’s always willing to offer you some wise piece of advice and great solutions to your problems.  Yes, she’s your greatest help and support.

2. She was your partner in crime while growing up.

She covered up your silly behavior. She let you get away with things you would have got punished for. She let you into family secrets that, of course, you weren’t supposed to know. And she always sneaked you cookie or things that you were not supposed to have.

3. She is the one you look up to.

You admire her kind nature, her strength, her resilience, her unselfishness, her charisma, her positive energy. You admire her ability to act like a mother or a teacher one day and like a little kid the next. You admire the way she handles any obstacle and problem life sends her way. You admire her pure, big heart because there’s love in it for everyone.

4. She’s always on your side in front of your parents.

Whenever you’re feeling like it’s you against the entire world, your aunt is always there to stand up for you. She knows your soul and the way you think. She knows everything about you. Therefore, she always sticks up for you when your parents or anyone else criticize you.

5. She is the one you confide in.

Isn’t it amazing when you have someone with whom you can share your worries, deepest fears, insecurities, and problems? Isn’t it great when you can tell somebody your darkest secrets and also know that they’ll never use them against you? Well, your aunt is someone you can always confide in because your secrets are always safe with her.

6. She encouraged you to explore the world and live life your way.

She wanted you and encouraged you to become your own person. She encouraged you to broaden your knowledge of the world, gain new experiences and perceptions on life. She encouraged you to do the things you wanted and explore the world as you saw it.  

7. She helped you understand your parents.

Yes, when you’re a child, parents sometimes appear difficult to love. But she knows that when they disagree with you and even when they appear too controlling, they behave that way because they genuinely love and care about you.

She knows they always want the best for you and they’ll never let you go astray. Therefore, when you were a kid, she told you things about their past so that you can understand them better.  

8. She knows all your best friends.

Not only does she know your best friends, but she gets along well with them too. Your friends like her and enjoy being in her company because of her liveliness, kindness, and sense of humor. She doesn’t bother to join your ladies nights occasionally and have fun with you like she’s one of your besties.

9. She knows how to make you smile.

She’s the one you go to when you feel like no one understands you, not even your friends. Nothing makes her feel sadder than when she sees you’re worried or unhappy and therefore she tries her best to help you solve your problems and put a smile on your face.

It’s amazing how she always knows what to say to comfort you, remove your worries, and make you smile.  

10. She is your person.

She’s your best friend. She’s the one you think of first when you need a crying shoulder, a wise piece of advice, a comforting hug, or just someone to share jokes and laugh with all day long.

She’s known you all your life and she knows everything about you. Therefore, the bond between you is so strong and it can never be broken.

11. She still spoils you.

Regardless of your age, you’ll always be her little baby. She still showers you with kisses and compliments like she did when you were a kid. And when she comes to visit you, she never comes empty-handed. She makes every day feel like it’s your birthday.

12. She loves you wholeheartedly and unconditionally.

Regardless of whether she has children or not or how close she is to your parents, she loves you selflessly and with all her heart. She loves you for who you are. She knows all your annoying habits, quirks, whims, and insecurities and she’s seen you at your worst, and she loves and appreciates you as such.

Aunts are like second moms and I believe I don’t need to explain what a special place daughters and sons occupy in their mom’s heart.