When it comes to chemistry, there is no middle ground. Either you have chemistry, or you don’t. And chemistry really works in strange and mysterious ways.
Some people can have everything in common, they can share the same values and beliefs, but they can’t feel a connection to one another.
While on the other hand, two people from different backgrounds that have nothing in common can be so attracted to each other and the chemistry between them can be so high that they can’t fight it.
Below is a list of 12 signs that show you and your partner share a mind-blowing chemistry.
Honesty is essential in a relationship. Both partners need to be honest with each other if they want their relationship to succeed. When there is honesty between you two you just know that what you have is something special and worthy.
Consistency is a big sign that both you and your partner are on the same page. If your partner is not consistent and you feel like you can’t count on them, then they are not valuing your time and certainly – they don’t value you. And you can’t have mind-blowing chemistry without valuing each other.
If you are not able to effectively communicate with your partner, then Houston, we have a problem! A relationship without communication is a relationship that you don’t want to be in. Partners that have amazing chemistry are those who are able to talk their problems through. Because nothing good comes with fighting all the time.
Chemistry is not about attraction only. Sometimes chemistry is being aware that you and your partner are two separate beings and that you both need your space.
There can’t be love without respect, and there cannot be a relationship and chemistry when there is no respect among the partners. So, you have to give respect in order to receive respect and have the chemistry you’ve always wanted.
6. COMMON INTERESTS
You need to have something in common with your partner, even if it is a little thing. This builds the foundation for a special connection between you two that further leads to mind-blowing chemistry and attraction.
Sure, you can be in a relationship where there is a lack of trust and have a great chemistry, but stop for a moment and ask yourself: Is a relationship without trustworthy of my time? Because real relationships and real chemistry require a lot of trust.
8. BUILDING A FUTURE TOGETHER
When you and your partner work towards building a life together, then you know you have chemistry. And really, what’s the point in being in a relationship with someone with whom you can’t see a future?
You both support each other. You know that you are never alone because you can always count on your partner to have your back. This support and the feeling of stability is what creates a long-lasting chemistry.
10. SHARING EXPERIENCES
When you and your partner share chemistry, you also share many experiences together. Some of the experiences were good, some were bad, but what matters is that you managed to overcome the bad ones and make your relationship even stronger.
Chemistry boils down to a mixture of many emotions. One such emotion is deeply caring for one another. When you feel that your partner cares for you, and you care for them as well, you can be sure that your relationship is something special.
12. YOU ARE HAPPY TOGETHER
No relationship is worthy of your time and energy if you are not happy. You must keep the spark alive between you and your partner if you want to maintain the chemistry between you. Happiness is the thing that keeps partners together after all.
Mary Wright is a professional writer with more than 10 years of incessant practice. Her topics of interest gravitate around the fields of the human mind and the interpersonal relationships of people.