Soulmate. Someone whose soul speaks the same language as yours. Someone who challenges you, awakens you, and touches different parts of you to make your soul transcend to a new-found and higher level of consciousness.
Some say that you only need to wait to find our soulmate. But, how can you be sure that you’ve really found your soulmate?
You can meet your soulmate many times throughout our life. However, if you are not able to decipher the signs whether it’s the right person in the right time, you may not experience the full potential of a wonderful relationship with someone who knows your soul.
So, here are 8 tell-tale signs that you may have finally found your soulmate.
1. They Bring Out The Best In You
You both challenge each other, but you do it in a way that you gently inspire and push the other toward growing to their higher selves. You can look at the challenges as stepping stones toward a more balanced and whole version of yourself.
And this is all because your soulmate believes in you and when you are with them you become a better person. And, of course, you do the same for them.
2. You Are Calm And Happy
Many people falsely believe that the relationship is the right one if it feels intense, passionate, and explosive. When you meet your soulmate, you’ll understand why this is not true.
Your soulmate is someone who would bring peace and happiness to your life because the truth is, life is hard enough as it is, so you should be with someone who will make your life better and not bitter.
3. You Can Both Be Silent
“I closed my mouth and spoke to you in a hundred silent ways.” ~ Rumi
There is one place where souls meet past the hectic life, rushed conversations, sex, and shared hobbies – and it is in silence.
When you sit next to someone and you are comfortable with not saying anything, but just enjoying each other’s presence – you have found a very special soul that is connected to your soul on a deep level. And your meeting place is in the profound and peaceful silence.
4. You See Arguments And Disagreements As Chances To Grow
With your soulmate, any conflict turns into a potential for positive change and growth. You both see your arguments and disagreements as growing experiences instead of reasons for splitting up.
You explain instead of fighting, you resolve instead of repeating the problems all over again, and you come together instead of separating and putting up walls between you.
5. You Support Each Other
Your soulmate is someone who supports your aspirations and dreams. It’s someone who believes in you and wants to see you achieve all your goals because they want to see you happy.
They will hold your hand and fight your battles with you. They are the best teammates and the greatest cheerleaders you’ll ever have.
6. You Feel Safe Around Them
A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself — to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.” ~ Leo F. Buscaglia
When you are with your soulmate, you feel at home. You feel secure and safe. You finally understand the saying that home is not a place but a person.
7. You Fight For The Relationship
No relationship is perfect and free from conflicts – even when you are in a relationship with your soulmate. No roads are paved with roses, and this is true for relationships as well.
However, when you are with your soulmate, you fight for your relationship. You resolve any issue that pops up: from financial problems and illnesses to family struggles and parenting issues. When you are meant to be, you’ll make it work.
8. You Just Feel It In Your Gut
When you are with your soulmate, it just feels right. Listen to your gut feeling and intuition for they are the speakers of your soul.
This is why this person is called your SOUL mate – you can’t find logic to explain why they are your soulmates. You just feel it deep in your heart.
Mary Wright is a professional writer with more than 10 years of incessant practice. Her topics of interest gravitate around the fields of the human mind and the interpersonal relationships of people.If you have a general question or comment please fill out the form and we will get back to you as soon as possible https://curiousmindmagazine.com/contact-us/ .