Soulmate. Someone whose soul speaks the same language as yours. Someone who challenges you, awakens you, and touches different parts of you to make your soul transcend to a new-found and higher level of consciousness.
Some say that you only need to wait to find our soulmate.
How To Know When You Found Your Soulmate?
You can meet your soulmate many times throughout our life. However, if you are not able to decipher the signs whether it’s the right person in the right time, you may not experience the full potential of a wonderful relationship with someone who knows your soul.
So, here are 21 tell-tale signs that you may have finally found your soulmate:
1. They Bring Out The Best In You
You both challenge each other, but you do it in a way that you gently inspire and push the other toward growing to their higher selves. You can look at the challenges as stepping stones toward a more balanced and whole version of yourself.
And this is all because your soulmate believes in you and when you are with them you become a better person. And, of course, you do the same for them.
2. You Are Calm And Happy
Many people falsely believe that the relationship is the right one if it feels intense, passionate, and explosive. When you meet your soulmate, you’ll understand why this is not true.
Your soulmate is someone who would bring peace and happiness to your life because the truth is, life is hard enough as it is, so you should be with someone who will make your life better and not bitter.
3. You Can Both Be Silent
“I closed my mouth and spoke to you in a hundred silent ways.” ~ Rumi
There is one place where souls meet past the hectic life, rushed conversations, sex, and shared hobbies – and it is in silence.
When you sit next to someone and you are comfortable with not saying anything, but just enjoying each other’s presence – you have found a very special soul that is connected to your soul on a deep level. And your meeting place is in the profound and peaceful silence.
4. You See Arguments And Disagreements As Chances To Grow
With your soulmate, any conflict turns into a potential for positive change and growth. You both see your arguments and disagreements as growing experiences instead of reasons for splitting up.
You explain instead of fighting, you resolve instead of repeating the problems all over again, and you come together instead of separating and putting up walls between you.
5. You Support Each Other
Your soulmate is someone who supports your aspirations and dreams. It’s someone who believes in you and wants to see you achieve all your goals because they want to see you happy.
They will hold your hand and fight your battles with you. They are the best teammates and the greatest cheerleaders you’ll ever have.
6. You Feel Safe Around Them
A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself — to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.” ~ Leo F. Buscaglia
When you are with your soulmate, you feel at home. You feel secure and safe. You finally understand the saying that home is not a place but a person.
7. You Fight For The Relationship
No relationship is perfect and free from conflicts – even when you are in a relationship with your soulmate. No roads are paved with roses, and this is true for relationships as well.
However, when you are with your soulmate, you fight for your relationship. You resolve any issue that pops up: from financial problems and illnesses to family struggles and parenting issues. When you are meant to be, you’ll make it work.
8. You Just Feel It In Your Gut
When you are with your soulmate, it just feels right. Listen to your gut feeling and intuition for they are the speakers of your soul.
This is why this person is called your SOUL mate – you can’t find logic to explain why they are your soulmates. You just feel it deep in your heart.
You just feel it deep in your heart. There is no jealousy, no toxic mind games.
9. You Recognize That They Came In Your Life To Teach You An Important Lesson
Because your partner is your yin to your yang, you often may get the feeling that you complement each other. Likewise, you are there to help each other learn, grow, and improve your life’s quality.
If you’ve spent your entire life as a pessimist, your partner can teach you how to find the light in everything. If they are indecisive or lack action, maybe you can teach them how to change that about themselves because crossing the obstacles you never thought you could is what a soulmate means, after all.
10. You Share The Same Goals And Visions In Life
This goes beyond the same career paths or political, religious, and cultural standpoints.
When you both agree on what qualities you respect in a person, what you want out of a relationship, whether or not you want to start a family, where you want to do it, and how, you can say that you and your partner are not just each other’s romantic interest, rather, you are soulmate friends… soulmate companions.
Obviously, there will be disagreements and compromises over those disagreements, but you should agree on the big stuff.
11. Your Partner Takes Away Your Stress And Anxiety
They have a way of calming the storm inside of you. Just a hug makes it all go away. They hold your hand and you immediately feel better. Talking to them about your worries and anxieties blows every giant problem away.
12. You Feel Like You’ve Known Each Other Far Longer Than You Actually Do
You are dating for a few months only, but it feels like you know each other for years. You feel comfortable, happy, appreciated, and understood. There are no cringe moments in the relationship. Silence is cozy and everything comes naturally – every handholding, every touch, every conversation.
You are not forcing anything; things are just unfolding naturally with a sturdy pace that makes both of you feel comfortable.
13. You Understand Your Emotional Languages
You can be with someone who has a different love language than you, you just need to understand their ways of expressing that love. Partners that are disconnected from each other often struggle to understand each other’s signs of affection and care, which leads to disputes and dissatisfaction.
14. You Feel Each Other’s Pain
The pain can be emotional or physical. You not only understand it, but you feel it on your skin. It hurts you seeing each other hurt and you are willing to do anything to decrease that pain or discomfort.
You know each other too well; you know what bothers and annoys you, and you help each other get past those emotional or social triggers.
15. Apologizing Is Not Hard
This is what makes all of us human. Sometimes, our egos blow up in our faces when we have to apologize or say sorry, but not with your soulmate around. When you two do something that hurts or offends you, apologizing is merely a pebble on the road.
You genuinely care about each other and you don’t want to push things under the carpet, so instead of being toxic, you deal with things right then and there.
16. You Agree About Important Things
People that know you may ask whether you’ve ever had a row or how come you are always happy and content. It’s because you are a naturally good fit. You have the same values, the same worldview, the same understanding of life that your overall communication goes swimmingly.
From lifestyle and pets preference to home décor and fashion sense, you agree about most things.
17. You Challenge Each Other
Your soulmate should bring out the best in you, and that means pushing you to become better every day. You motivate each other to reach your goals, to try a little harder every time you fail instead of quit and walk away. Your relationship is all about personal development.
For example, he wants to become a renowned dental technician, while you want to become a famous writer. To do that, you both need to put in the hours of work. Instead of being jealous, you support each other and you grow.
18. You Can Be Intense With Each Other
To some, it may be exhausting to talk about something for hours, but no to you. You get each other’s souls and you can stay up for hours talking about something you are both passionate about.
Different opinions are not criticized, but welcomed. If you stay up in the middle of the night just to talk and cuddle, it could be because your partner is also your soulmate.
19. You have the same mindset.
You and your partner have gotten into a conversation about life, the past, your future plans, and you realized that throughout the years (while not even being together), you have had the same lines of thought, the same mindset, and reactions to things.
At that moment, it becomes all the more obvious: you two were meant to be, and it was all just a matter of timing.
20. Your Differences Don’t Annoy You
You know your differences and you’ve learned to embrace them and even regard them as something you can both benefit from.
You met each other when the timing was right for both; you feel so connected, so eager for one another that differences barely form one tiny piece of the puzzle.
Soulmate Zodiac Signs
For someone to say they found their soulmate, many factors need to have overlapped. That includes personality traits, similar life experiences, education, lifestyle, and personal preferences, but surely, soulmate zodiac can help too. For a more accurate evaluation, your ascendants need to be taken into consideration.
But we know what you may be thinking about, and yes, there is an exception to every rule. We know that. Duuh, right? You are not just some soulmate test away from finding the male/female version of you because it’s never that easy, but while your zodiac sign may not be the only precursor of your potential soulmate, it does play a role.
It maps out your tendencies, your reactions, your emotional responses, the core values you seek out in people, your qualities, and your shortcomings, so in a way, it serves as a guide to who your ideal partner could be.
Find the potential soulmate partners for your horoscope sign below:
Aries: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, and Gemini.
Taurus: Scorpio, Cancer, Capricorn, and Virgo.
Gemini: Aries, Leo, Libra, and Aquarius.
Cancer: Scorpio, Taurus, Pisces, and Virgo.
Leo: Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius, and Aries.
Virgo: Scorpio, Capricorn, and Taurus.
Libra: Gemini, Aquarius, Sagittarius, and Leo.
Scorpio: Pisces, Cancer, Virgo, Capricorn, and Taurus.
Sagittarius: Leo, Aquarius, Aries, and Libra.
Capricorn: Taurus, Virgo, and Scorpio.
Aquarius: Libra, Aries, Gemini, and Sagittarius.
Pisces: Cancer, Scorpio, and Taurus.
Mary Wright is a professional writer with more than 10 years of incessant practice. Her topics of interest gravitate around the fields of the human mind and the interpersonal relationships of people.If you have a general question or comment please fill out the form and we will get back to you as soon as possible https://curiousmindmagazine.com/contact-us/ .