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An Open Letter To The Man That Will Love Me Next


Dear man that will love me next,

Wherever you are and whoever you are, I don’t know when or how faith will cause our paths to cross, but I feel like I have to bare my soul to you and tell you something.

I am not the kind of person that is after mediocre love. I am not the kind of person that desires mediocre, one-sided relationships.

No. Unlike most people, I am the type of person who loves fully. I love deeply. Intensely. Selflessly. Unconditionally. Wholly.

So, know that loving me won’t be easy, but trust me, it’ll be worth it.

I have often been told that I am a difficult woman to love, but that’s only because my way of loving was too much for some people.  Some guys didn’t know how to deal with the intensity of my love. Some guys were too afraid to accept my heart and everything I was willing to offer to them. And some guys were intimidated by my courage to go the extra mile and risk everything so as to be with them.

Now, I know – those were my mistakes.  I shouldn’t have given my heart to others so freely. I shouldn’t have placed my faith in guys who didn’t deserve me.

Yes, I allowed selfish, manipulative guys to hurt me and break my heart.

And that’s the reason why I am guarded now. I don’t easily trust people. It takes me time to open up and be the person that I really am in front of other people. But, you see, the one thing which has never changed, and I can guarantee that it never will, is the fact that I love genuinely.

I love from the bottom of my heart. I love with every part of me.

My love has no boundaries.

That’s why I need you to be patient with me.

Because it’ll take some time for me to open up to you, to begin trusting you, to share my insecurities and fears with you, and to let you see my imperfections. But, we’ll gradually get there. I’ll gradually give myself to you at all levels. And if this is the same thing that you want, then I promise you that we will make that happen.


Because I want you. I want us to be together. I want faith to lead us and help us build our future together. I want us to experience the love poets write poems about. I want us to experience the pure happiness, excitement, and serenity only true love can offer.

I want us to feel loved and appreciated.  Because you and I deserve this. We deserve to love each other in ways we never knew possible. We deserve to love each other fully. Wholeheartedly. Unconditionally. Endlessly.