Congratulations, you lost a girl who loved you from the bottom of her heart. A girl who loved you selflessly and unconditionally. A girl whom you meant the world to.
How could you allow yourself to lose a girl to whom your happiness mattered more than hers? A girl that was willing to walk through fire to be with you?
This girl only needed one reason to stay. She just needed to know that you felt about her the way she felt about you. She needed to know that she was important to you. She needed to know that she occupied a special place in your heart. She needed to know that you believed you two were meant for each other, just like she did.
You were everything she ever wanted.
She wanted to be a part of your life. She didn’t care about your past or your flaws and failures because she always looked for the good in you.
She wanted to be there for you when times got tough. She wanted to support and lift you up when you were at your lowest. She wanted to make you happy and proud of her. She planned her future with you.
She just wanted to freely love you and be loved by you.
All you had to do was treat her right.
She never asked for something that you couldn’t give her. She never forced you to be someone you were not.
The only thing she needed from you was to love her. You needed to respect and treat her the way she deserved. You needed to show her that she was your greatest priority. Your best choice.
You needed to show her that you cared about how she felt. You needed to let her know that she could always count on you for your help and support. That you’d never leave her deal with her problems alone.
You just needed to show her that she mattered to you and put the smallest amount of effort to make her stay.
Did she ask for too much? No, I don’t think so.
She deserved all this and much more. Because she sincerely and unselfishly loved you. Because she treated you with kindness, respect, and compassion. Because making you feel happy and fulfilled became her main goal.
Because she is like a rarest jewel on the bottom of the ocean that only a few are lucky enough to find it. And you were one of them. Yet, you failed to see the beauty of it.
Because she is ‘once-in-a-lifetime’ girl.
You never made her your choice. She was always one of your options.
You were everything to her. You were her greatest priority, her love, her hope, her best choice.
To you, she was just one of the many options you kept open. You always kept looking around for other possibilities. You believed you deserved better.
The only time she was good enough for you was when she boosted your ego. When she made you feel smart, attractive, important. When she played the role – girlfriend of convenience.
You failed to realize that the best thing that could ever happen to you was right there – right next to you.
How could you possibly think that you could find someone better than her, than the ‘once-in-a-lifetime’ girl?
You didn’t value her.
You didn’t appreciate her fight for you.You didn’t value her efforts to make you happy. You expected her to love you unconditionally while you didn’t give her anything in return. You took her for granted. You thought no matter what you said or did, she’d always stay by your side. But, you were wrong. So wrong.
She got tired of fighting for someone who didn’t care about losing her.
She got tired of fighting for someone who gave up on her long time ago. Someone who didn’t deserve her attention and love. Someone who didn’t know how or didn’t want to appreciate her.
She got tired of being hurt by the man who was supposed to love her. She got tired of healing her wounds every time you made her feel unworthy. She got tired of enduring your indifference which felt like a razor knife cutting her heart open.
She let you into her life and you destroyed her.
She wanted to stay but you made her go.
You played hot and cold. You showered her with kindness, warmth, and love one moment and froze her out and left her wondering what happened the next.
Did she do anything wrong? Did you lose interest in her? Did you ever really love her?
You made her question her own logic and sanity. You left her wondering if all that was only in her head. You left her no other choice but to think that all those “kind and romantic” acts you did for her were nothing else but an act.
Congratulations, you lost a ‘once-in-a-lifetime’ girl!
You lost a girl who loved you unconditionally. A girl who was not afraid of letting her love for you destroy her.
You lost a girl who would’ve made you the happiest person in the world if you had just let her.
You lost your biggest support, your best friend. Your missing half.
You lost a girl that any other man would be the happiest to have. A girl you’ll never ever find again.
You lost her when you showed you couldn’t care less about her. When you put the blame on her for all your misfortunes. When you made her feel guilty of things that were never her fault. When you didn’t pay attention to her. When you made her feel invisible like a ghost.
But, wait! After all, there is one good thing you did for her. You let her go and now she feels free. Now, she’s herself again. Now, she can find someone who will be able to realize her worth the moment he meets her, not only after losing her. And for that – congratulations!
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