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Don’t Settle For A Person Who Comes Back – You Deserve To Be With Someone Who Never Leaves


I used to be the kind of person who is happy about welcoming people back in their life. I used to wait for the day they realize they are miserable without me. I used to be so kind and loving, even to people who clearly didn’t deserve my love.

I used to give second chances for free.  

But it wasn’t until I got hurt that I realized the bitter truth.

You shouldn’t settle for a person who comes back. You shouldn’t welcome those who’ve left you broken. You shouldn’t bring back those old, painful memories. You shouldn’t open that book. There’s a reason why you closed it. Leave it that way.

Don’t you think that instead of waiting for them to come back after everything they’ve done to you, you should just close that chapter and move on with your life?

It is the best thing you can do for yourself.

Waiting for someone to change and come back to you is simply not worth it. I’ve made that mistake more than once.

And if there’s something I learned about people is that if they do it once, they will definitely do it again. You cannot change someone who doesn’t want to be changed.

So, please. Don’t make the same mistakes. Don’t settle for someone who comes back.

You deserve so much more than you think. You deserve the whole wide world. You deserve to feel real love in all its intensity. You deserve to be loved genuinely and passionately.

You deserve to be with someone who won’t run for the hills whenever you display your love and express your deepest emotions. Someone who won’t be afraid of the way you love them. Someone who won’t be terrified of committing. Someone who will love you with every bit of their heart.

You deserve someone who won’t leave you at the first sign of weakness. Someone who won’t give up on you the minute they see your flaws. Someone who won’t avoid your tears, but rather a person who will be happy to be there for you and reveal every secret part of your soul. Someone who will be brave to explore your world, no matter how dark it gets.


You deserve to be with someone who will get out of their way to make things work between you two. Someone who will put their best efforts to keep the spark alive forever. Someone who will keep choosing you, every day all over again. Someone who will stay by your side even if it gets too hard and stormy to move forward.

You deserve to be with someone who won’t be discouraged by those obstacles along the way. Someone who won’t let life overwhelm them. Someone who won’t let others meddle with their life. Someone who will take your hand and walk confidently through the hailstorm, no matter how much the hail hurts.

You, my darling, deserve someone who will be ready and willing to give themselves to you. A person who will believe in you regardless of what others say. A person who will remind you of your strengths when you’re too weak to carry on. A genuine human being who will love you like you’ve never been loved before. A person who will show you that unconditional, pure love is real.