Don’t Settle For Just Any Guy: Settle For The One Who Imagines His Future With You

This goes to you – the woman whose heart has been broken many times.

Trust me – I know how you feel. I know you’re still trying to erase the trace his kisses left on your lips. You’re still trying to erase him from your memory and your heart.

I know you still hope that time will soon erase every wound he inflicted on your soul.

I know you still think about him. You still dream of him. You still try to figure out whether all of it was your fault or his.

You still wonder why he couldn’t see you in his future, why he didn’t love you, why it was you whose heart he had to steal, why you weren’t good enough for him. Hundreds of whys hover over your head. Hundreds of questions keep you awake at night.

But, let me tell you the truth: He never saw you in his future. He never imagined himself standing at the altar next to you. He never imagined growing old beside you. Why?

No, it was not because you weren’t good enough for him, pretty enough for him, or smart enough for him. It was because he wasn’t worthy of your love. He wasn’t worthy of your attention.

He didn’t deserve you.

He didn’t deserve your trust. Your patience. Your kindness. Your compassion. Your empathetic soul. Your efforts.

Therefore, instead of wallowing in self-pity and reviving memories of someone who wasn’t worthy of your love, let this be a valuable lesson to you. Let this teach you that you should never settle for fickle, immature, manipulative, selfish men. Let this teach you that you shouldn’t settle for just any man, but rather wait for the man that imagines his future with you.

Don’t settle for just any man – settle for the one who chooses you every day. The one who goes out of his way to put a smile on your face. The one who feels the happiest when you’re happy. The one who is not afraid to make compromises and sacrifice his needs and desires for your happiness. Someone who enjoys waking up next to you.

Don’t settle for just any man – settle for the man who loves you with every part of him. The man who loves you honestly. Selflessly. Deeply. Wholeheartedly. Passionately. Unconditionally. The man who keeps you in his heart no matter where he is and what he is doing. The man who only has eyes for you. The man whom you mean the world to.

Don’t settle for just any man – settle for the man who accepts you and cherishes you for who you are. The man who knows all your annoying habits, vulnerable sides, insecurities, and fears, but who also knows that your weaknesses and imperfections don’t define who you are. He knows that they’re just a small part of you – a part that makes you different and more interesting and beautiful than other women.

Don’t settle for just any man – settle for the one who doesn’t leave at the first sign of trouble. The one who doesn’t walk away when the first worries and problems begin to appear in your relationship. The one who is not afraid to work through your relationship problems together with you. The one who is willing to invest time and energy in your relationship.

Don’t settle for just any man – settle for the one who wants to keep you in his life forever. The one who is not afraid to walk through fire or fight monsters if that’s what he needs to do to keep you by his side forever. The one whose only fear is losing you.

Don’t settle for just any man – settle for the one who gets excited about spending the rest of his life with you. The one who wants to fall asleep and wake up next to you until the rest of his life. The one who craves your presence. The one who craves your touch, the warmth of your lips, and your smell. The one who wants you in his life now. Tomorrow. Forever.