You probably have seen romantic movies in which a woman stays faithful and waits for her boyfriend to build his career, or to figure out what he wants in life (is it a marriage with her, or he prefers to stay single) until he finally realizes that he loves her and chooses her, and they live happily ever after.
It would be nice if things were like this in real life. But we are not living in a romantic comedy. Today, when a woman is done, man – she is done!
See the thing with us women is that we give you way too many chances. We are strong believers in your abilities and what you can become, and we want to be next to you when that happens. This is why many women decide to stay in terrible relationships with men that don’t treat them as they deserve.
But, enough is enough, and when a woman is done, she is done.
Once a woman sees that her life is actually better without you in it, sucking her energy and wasting her time – her window is closed for you. There is no turning back. No amount of transforming and bettering yourself, your career, your lifestyle, and your attitude can bring her back.
You will probably try to feed your ego and justify your behavior saying something along the lines of ‘if she can’t handle me at my worst, she doesn’t deserve me at my best.”
The truth is that no sane person can feel obligated to stay and deal with your bullsh*t. No one deserves a life full of drama, stress, and pain. And no one can imprison another human being into waiting for them to figure out what they want in life.
She, rejecting you means that she finally chose to stand up and take care of herself even though her decision to leave might hurt your feelings. But remember, it was your actions that made her decision.
You will regret losing the woman who loved you when you were at your lowest point in life. The woman who believed in you and supported you when you had little faith in yourself. The woman who stood by your side through all your bullsh*t.
You will regret losing her because the other woman who you’ll meet when you are at your best and loves you at your highest point in life could easily turn away when she sees you are not so perfect as she thought you were.
In these moments you will realize that you once had a woman who accepted you and who did everything for you without you even asking her to. A woman who endured all your storms hoping that you will change. A woman who loved your dark side, but you let her go.
Mary Wright is a professional writer with more than 10 years of incessant practice. Her topics of interest gravitate around the fields of the human mind and the interpersonal relationships of people.If you have a general question or comment please fill out the form and we will get back to you as soon as possible https://curiousmindmagazine.com/contact-us/ .