Here’s The Harsh Truth: They Are Just Not In Love With You

If someone is truly in love with you, you will know it. You’ll feel it in your heart. You’ll feel it in the depths of your being.

So, if you happen to doubt that the person you’re in love with loves you as much as they claim to, don’t ignore your inner voices. Although it’s hard and painful, it is always better to admit that your partner doesn’t reciprocate your love than to live in denial and allow them to string you along.

If you’re having trouble determining if the person you’re in love with loves you too, the answer is perfectly clear – THEY AREN’T IN LOVE WITH YOU!

Here are some bitter truths about love I wish I had known before falling in love:

If they tell you ‘I love you’ during or shortly after the first date (unless it’s love at first sight), they’re not into you.

If they don’t call to ask how you are or just to hear your voice, they’re not into you.

If it takes them days to reply to your messages or they don’t reply at all, they’re not into you.

If they forget your birthday and then come up with a bunch of lame excuses, you can bet they’re not into you.

If they leave you on read but continue to update their statuses on the social media, they’re not interested in you.

If they don’t bother to remember the dates and things that are important to you, they’re not into you.

If they don’t tell you things about them, they’re not interested in you.

If they don’t care about your feelings, opinions, ideas, and desires, they’re not into you.

If they don’t respect your decisions and opinions, they’re not interested in you.

If they’re not there when times get rough for you, they’re not into you.

If they don’t want to meet your friends and introduce you to theirs as well, they’re not into you.

If they frequently talk about their ex, it only shows that they still have some unresolved issues lingering in their head. So, yeah, they’re definitely not interested in you.

If they try to keep things casual between you and insist on keeping their “single” status, they’re not into you.

If they don’t let you go near their phone, yeah, something is going on there. It ’s likely they’re hiding something from you. I’m not saying they should give you their Facebook password or an access to all their accounts, but if you have that feeling that they’re doing something behind your back, well, you better trust it. Chances are they’re not interested in you.

If they only speak to you when they want to have sex with you, they’re not into you.

If they only see you as their fu*k – buddy and/or they don’t want other people to know that you’re together, they’re not interested in you.

 If they don’t want to fully commit to you, they’re not into you.

If they tell you they aren’t ready for a relationship, they’re not into you. Don’t waste your time trying to convince them otherwise.

If they make you wonder whether they love you or not, what other proof do you need? – THEY ARE NOT INTO YOU!

Okay, I think this is enough. If by any chance, you still need convincing, why don’t you think of what real life is about?

So, let’s see.

Life is making time to fulfill all your daily responsibilities. It’s worrying about whether you’ll finish your tasks at work on time. It’s working your as* off in order to earn money to pay your bills. It’s giving your best to make sure your loved ones, be that your parents, kids, or partner, have a good life and don’t miss anything.

Life is about constant working on yourself so as to grow personally and professionally. It’s about trying to overcome your insecurities, fears, and problems. It’s dealing with failures and heartbreak. It’s enduring the pain of losing your loved ones.

If you take all of this into consideration, would you still waste your time and give your heart to someone who is not interested in you? Yeah, I think we both know the answer.