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If He’s Truly The Right Person For You, These 9 Things Will Never Scare Him Off


I know. It’s difficult to find the right person for you in a world full of fickle, selfish, manipulative, and dishonest people. It’s really tiring to even look for that one person who will accept and cherish you exactly the way you are and who will show you what true, deep, once-in-a-lifetime kind of love feels like.

Yes, I know all of this. Because I’ve already been through it myself. I know what it’s like when you’re in a relationship with a guy who isn’t sure what it is that he wants from you. A guy who makes you doubt his feelings for you. A guy who is not on the same page as you about the future of your relationship.

Yes, I’ve experienced all of this firsthand. But, you know what?

Just when I thought I was ready to give up on love and let faith guide me through my love life, I met a man who showed me that true love does exist. A man who was interested in understanding my insecurities and fears. A man who showed me that he wasn’t intimidated by my annoying habits and whims. A man who showed me that he embraced and loved every part of me, including my vulnerability, indecisiveness, impetuousness, and craziness.

Therefore, ladies, trust me when I say that if he’s the right person for you, nothing you do will scare him away. If he’s truly the one for you, he’ll never be intimidated by the following 9 things:

1. Your emotional self.

When you’re in a relationship with the right man for you, you’ll never have to feel ashamed when you get emotional around him. You’ll never have to pretend that you’re okay when you’re actually feeling like your whole world is crumbling in front of you.

Instead, you’ll feel free and comfortable showing him your real, deep, most hidden emotions. And he – he’ll appreciate your vulnerability and ensure you know there’s nothing wrong with showing your vulnerable sides.

2. Your family.

The right man for you might not like or get along with every member of your family, (and there’s nothing wrong with that), but he’ll do his best to respect them. He’ll try to find a way to make both you and him as well as the family member feel comfortable and pleasant when you’re spending time together.

And he’ll do that not because he feels obliged, but because he loves you enough to know how important your family is to you and how much you enjoy spending time with them.

3. Disagreements and arguments.

The right man isn’t going to ghost you or walk away from you after your first argument. Instead, he’s going to make sure you find a way together to talk out and successfully solve your relationship problems. He’s going to be mature and responsible enough to admit to and put right his mistakes.

And most importantly, he’s not going to lay the blame at your door whenever something goes wrong between you two and he’s not going to use a petty fight as an excuse to break up with you.

4. Your physical appearance.

When you’re with the right man, you aren’t going to have to spend hours doing your makeup in front of your mirror and choosing what to wear before you go out with him. Because he’ll still think that you’re pretty when you have a bad hair day, or when your eyes are swollen from sleeping, or when you look like a real mess. He’ll think you’re pretty and desirable even when you feel like you are not.

5. Your expectations.

The right man will be proud to have a lady with high expectations beside him. He’s never going to accuse you of being high-maintenance, picky, or too difficult to deal with. Instead, he’s going to love the fact that you know your worth and how you deserve to be treated, and he’ll make sure he lives up to your expectations.

6. Trust issues.

When you’re with the right man, you’ll never have to worry that he’ll fly off the handle every time you ask him when he’s going to come home from work or why it took him so long to respond to your call.

Because he’s going to understand that you’re still carrying emotional baggage from your previous relationships. He’ll understand that you still need time to cure your wounds and overcome the insecurities and fears your past relationships caused you to have. What’s more, he’ll be glad to help you get rid of them.

7. Your career and goals in life.

The right man isn’t going to be intimidated by your goals. Instead, he’ll encourage you to set high goals and pursue your dreams no matter how unrealistic they might seem. He’ll be aware of your qualities, intellectual capacity, and strength and he’ll make sure you know you can achieve anything that you set your mind to.

8. Waiting for you to be physically intimate with him.

The right man will have no problem waiting for you for a while before you feel ready and comfortable being physically intimate with him.  He’ll let you take your time because he’ll love you for more than your body.  

9. Commitment.

If you’re with the right man for you, know that he’ll never play those childish hard-to-get games with you or string you along. Instead, he’ll be more than glad to put a label on your relationship and fully commit to you because you’re the person that he loves truly and deeply and wants to spend the rest of his life with.