I feel like if one more person says that my knight in silver armor will eventually find me, I’m going to lose it.
Look, it’s truly nice to fantasize about your Prince Charming, but reality doesn’t work that way. No one is going to come to your bed, give you a kiss and suddenly wake you up from your misery. No one is going to knock on your door and immediately make you the happiest person alive.
I’m pretty sure life doesn’t work that way. I’m sorry Disney. You were the most favorite part of my childhood, you taught me to always believe in love, but those unrealistic presentations of how our dream person should look like are simply too much.
I don’t want a knight in a shining armor, I’m not even looking for a Prince Charming that will sweep me off my feet and take me to Neverland.
I just want a guy who won’t be afraid to love me. Someone who would feel free to open his heart and let me love him with all of my being. Someone who will reveal to me every little secret that his mind carries. Someone who won’t make me wonder whether he’s into me or not. Someone who will be clear about his intentions.
I want a guy who will be 100% honest. A man who will be comfortable and confident enough to tell me the truth, even if it hurts too f*cking much. Someone who won’t let me waste my time on something that’s going nowhere. Someone who will never dare to sugarcoat the truth for me. Someone who would rather make me cry by telling me the truth than keep lying to my face.
I want a man who will care for me more than the physical stuff. Someone who will appreciate chemistry as much as I do. Someone who will keep those sparks alive. Someone who will make sure the fire between us burns brighter and brighter each day. More importantly, I want someone who will love me more than anything even after those butterflies are long gone.
I want a man who will know exactly where he stands. Someone who has a clear vision of where he’s headed in life. Someone who will motivate me to work even harder. A person who will inspire me to grow. A man who will support me every step of the way.
I want a man who will simply want to be with me, someone who will actually want me. I don’t need a make-believe relationship. I don’t want to settle. I want to grow and challenge myself. I want to be chosen each and every day all over again. I want to be loved completely, intensely, madly, fiercely.
So, tell me… Is that too much to ask?
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