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It Takes A Real Man To Love And Be Loved By A Strong And Independent Alpha Woman

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Alpha women are tough, independent, and confident. We are perfectly aware of our strength and qualities. We know our worth.

We are bold and driven. We speak our minds and we’re not afraid to stand up for ourselves. We know what we want and deserve in life and how to get it.

We live life to the fullest.

But when it comes to love and dating, we have a big heart and a soft soul.

That’s why if you’re not ready to be loved hard, don’t date me.

If you’re not ready to handle the intensity of my love, don’t start a relationship with me.

If you are not ready to truly love me the way I am, don’t try to win my heart.

Because I am the kind of woman who will accept and cherish you exactly the way you are. I’ll believe in you even when no one else will. I’ll embrace your weaknesses and insecurities and I’ll never judge you or criticize you for them. I’ll never make you feel weak or unimportant.

I’ll encourage you to work on and improve yourself at every level. I’ll commit myself to helping you become the best version of yourself.

I’ll give you my heart.

But, I also want you to know that dating me means dating someone who tells it like it is. Because I don’t beat around the bush and I don’t sugarcoat ugly, harsh truths to make them appear more pleasant than they really are.

I am straightforward and I’ll always let you know what I’m thinking. I’ll never hide my needs and desires from you. I’ll never hide my opinions from you no matter how different they are from your own.

If you are not ready to commit to me, then don’t make me waste my energy on you.

If you are not ready to love me wholeheartedly and unconditionally, don’t make me waste my love on you.

Because when I love, I love hard. I love deeply. I love selflessly. I love genuinely.

If you are not ready to build a healthy, deep, harmonious, and strong relationship with me, then don’t date me. Because I’ll never settle for a one-sided, poor relationship.

I’ll never settle for a guy who doesn’t reciprocate my feelings and efforts.

I’ll never settle for a guy who wants to explore “other options.” A guy who has no problem flirting with other women when I am not around. A guy who is not sure about me.

Instead, I want a man that knows what he wants. A man that is sure about me and our relationship. A man who only has eyes for me. A man who values trust and loyalty. A man who chooses me every day.

I want a man who is willing to make compromises and sacrifices for the sake of our relationship. A man who is not afraid to go the extra mile to make me happy.

I want a man who has the willingness and strength to work things out when the first problems begin appearing in our relationship. A man who doesn’t walk away at the first sign of trouble.

I want a man who will be glad to dive into an ocean of love and passion headfirst and who won’t be afraid to drown in it. A man who will care about me. A man who will love me intensely.

I want a man who won’t be afraid to walk through fire to make me feel protected. A man whose only fear will be losing me. A man who will fight for me with every fiber of his being.

And if you’re not ready to do these things, then don’t date me. Don’t try to win my heart. Don’t fight for me at all.