“Everyone says love hurts, but that is not true. Loneliness hurts. Rejection hurts. Losing someone hurts. Envy hurts. Everyone gets these things confused with love. But in reality love is the only thing in this world that covers up all pain and makes someone feel wonderful again” – Liam Neeson.
Loving doesn’t hurt, not if you do it right. Loving because someone else thinks you should is not right. Neither is loving someone because society tells you to. If you love because of reasons like this, it’s better not to love at all.
When you love right, you know it. You give all of you for that person. You show that you care. Because that person is important for you. That person means everything to you and you want to see them happy. And loved.
It’s that love that doesn’t limit you, but it inspires you. It’s the love that you are not afraid to show in front of the others, even if that means making out in public. So what if people criticize you?
It’s love that doesn’t tire you and doesn’t get boring even after years. But it’s up to you to keep it alive. To light the fire when you see that it’s burning out.
Both of you deserve to be loved the right way. To flirt and be intimate. Everyone deserves to be accepted and to be listened to. To have support by someone.
Nobody is perfect, but love also means apologizing and forgiving. Love is investing into the relationship, but that way you always receive more than you expected.
Love is going on dates, even if you already know everything about each other and have nothing new to talk about. Going on fun dates, unusual dates and casual dates. Because spending quality time with your loved one is one of the best experiences you will have in your life. It’s something you cherish and remember always.
If you love a person, don’t keep that to yourself. Tell them every day. They need to know it. That will strengthen your connection and make your relationship more authentic.
If you love someone, don’t be afraid to talk to them. No matter how difficult the subject might seem, they will be there for you to hear you. As you need to be for them.
If you love someone show it! Kiss and hold hands whenever you can. Find time to see them and hear all about their day.
Love them deeply and find a way to show that affection regularly. Take them to romantic dinners and walk with them under the stars. Stay alone on the beach and wait for the sunrise together.
Love them wholeheartedly because this way both of you will grow and become the best version of yourself. This way, you’re becoming a better person for them and for yourself.
Love them sincerely and you will have the love that you’ve read about in books. This way, you will not be afraid or ashamed of anything. You will feel free to explore and be happy.
When you love someone this way, you enjoy each other every minute. You love them when they are sexy in bed, wet in the rain or sweaty after a hike. And they reciprocate that love to you.
When you love someone this way, it doesn’t matter if they are dressed up or sick in bed. They are beautiful either way.
You should love only if it’s love that you’re willing to invest in. Love that is romantic, enjoyable, deep, sometimes maybe even dramatic.
If you love this way, you’re willing to give everything and expect nothing in return because having them by your side is enough for you.
If you love this way, nothing can stop you on your way – family, society, the world.
If you love this way, you know it’s worth it.
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