When it comes to dating, I truly believe that when one relationship is healthy, strong, and happy, there’re no buts. I truly believe that when two individuals are genuinely and deeply in love with each other, they don’t question their partner’s feelings for them. They don’t wonder where their relationship is headed. They don’t wonder whether they’re meant to be together.
Are you wondering how I know this?
Well, I have to admit that I’ve had a couple of relationships which taught me some lessons about love. Yes, I’ve learned some valuable lessons about love and the world of modern dating the hard way. Why?
Because I was the kind of girl that used to give her heart, soul, and mind to men. Yes, that’s right. I used to wear my heart on my sleeve and fearlessly undress my soul in my relationships. I used to fight with every fiber of my being for those I loved from the bottom of my heart. And I also believed that people could change.
Call me naïve, immature, or stupid, but when I love someone, I love them deeply, intensely, selflessly, and unconditionally. That’s why I don’t regret being in these messy, failed relationships. Because no matter how difficult and painful experiences they were, they all taught me something – they taught me how I deserve to be treated. They taught me what kind of person deserves a place in my heart.
Therefore, this one is for every woman out there who needs to realize that he doesn’t deserve her. This one is for those that doubt their self-worth and don’t think they’re good enough. This one is for those that need to hear that he’s just not worth it.
Yes, he’s not worth your attention. Your support. Your affection. Your tears. Your effort.
Therefore, stop believing that he’ll change one day. Stop believing that if he understands how much you love and care about him, he’ll start looking at you in a different way and liking you more.
Because the truth is that some people don’t want to be changed or fixed– they consider themselves perfect the way they are.
Stop making excuses for his false promises, lame excuses, and lies. Stop tolerating and justifying his crappy behavior. He’s not worth it.
Stop allowing him to disappoint you every time you give him a new chance to make things right between you. Stop allowing him to play with your feelings and take you for granted.
Stop waiting for him to look at you the way you look at him – with eyes full of warmth and affection. Stop waiting for him to treat you the way you treat him – with kindness, compassion, respect, and dignity. Stop waiting for him to love you the way you love him – selflessly, wholeheartedly, and unconditionally.
Stop waiting for him to realize who you really are. Stop waiting for him to see your strength and qualities. Stop waiting for him to look beyond your outward beauty and see the beauty of your soul. Stop waiting for him to realize how worthy you are.
Stop allowing him to destroy your faith in love. Stop thinking that love always has to be hard, messy, and painful. Stop thinking that you’re not meant to be loved. Stop thinking that true love is something you can only dream of.
Stop letting him string you along. He’s not worth it. He doesn’t deserve you.
Yes, darling, you deserve to be with someone way better than him. You deserve someone who will never make you question his love for you and where you stand in his life. You deserve someone who will choose you every day and show you that you stand very high on his list of priorities.
You deserve someone who will treat you and love you the way you deserve. Someone who will always be there for you when you need him. Someone who will stick with you through thick and thin. Someone who will be willing to fight for you. Someone who will never make you doubt your worth.
You deserve someone who won’t have to lose you first so as to realize what an amazing person he’s had by his side.
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