If you have been in an unhealthy, troubled relationship, then you know exactly what kind of person doesn’t deserve a place in your heart.
If you’ve had this kind of experience, don’t blame yourself. Don’t feel sorry for yourself. Don’t regret wasting your time and feelings on the wrong person. Because you didn’t waste anything. Rather, you were taught a valuable lesson.
The troubled, toxic relationship was a valuable lesson – a lesson that you had to learn the hard way. It was a lesson that taught you what kind of people you need to stay away from in your life. It was a lesson which taught you that not everyone who swears that loves you and cares about you truly means it.
It was a lesson which taught you that your love won’t always be reciprocated. That there are people who don’t deserve your attention and feelings. That there are people who are not worth your sadness and tears. That love can sometimes be hard and painful.
You see, when you end a toxic relationship, you are left doubting your self-worth. You are left thinking that you don’t deserve to love and be loved. You are left thinking that love was never meant for you.
As time passes, you start reconnecting with friends who you may have distanced yourself from or who your ex-partner didn’t think were good enough for you or simply wanted to isolate you from.
So, by reconnecting with your friends, you’re also reconnecting with your old self. You begin to feel livelier and more enthusiastic. You even begin to date again, yet nothing serious. It is a great feeling when you change your hairstyle or just change anything about your appearance and for once, some guy out there notices that. It is an amazing feeling when a man gives you his attention, tries to flirt with you, and makes you feel desirable.
The attention you are receiving is helping you rebuild your confidence. It’s helping you see all those things about yourself that you forgot even existed in your last relationship.
Yet, you still don’t feel like you’re the person you were before the toxic man entered your life. You feel like your past is still haunting you and like you’ll never manage to liberate yourself from the heavy baggage you’re carrying on your shoulders.
And all this prevents you from seeing one important truth – the truth that a man is going to enter your life and accept you and cherish you the way you are. He won’t judge you for your past choices and mistakes. Instead, he’ll understand your pain.
He’ll know that it won’t be easy for him to gain your trust. He’ll know that it’ll take you time before you feel free and comfortable to open up to him. But, he won’t rush you. He’ll give you all the time you need to start trusting him.
This man will show you that you’re more than good enough. He’ll try to erase all the hurtful words you were told in your last relationship. He’ll try to heal all your wounds.
This man will make you feel safe and protected. You won’t have to worry whether he’ll fly off the handle if you say or do something wrong. You won’t have to feel like you’re walking on eggshells around him.
This man will remind you of your strength and qualities. He’ll remind you of your worth and grandeur.
This man will wear his heart on his sleeve. He’ll never make you doubt his love for you or where you stand in his life. He’ll never feed your hope with lies, excuses, and grandiose promises. Instead, he’ll always be honest with you.
This man will love you and care about you in ways no one ever has. He’ll love you deeply, immensely, wholeheartedly, and unconditionally.
This man won’t have to promise that he’ll protect and take care of your heart forever because you’ll already know that – you’ll feel it in the depths of your being.
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