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We Don’t Meet Anyone By Chance: People Enter Our Lives For A Reason

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We don’t meet anyone by accident. People are meant to enter our lives for a reason.

No matter where you are headed on the journey called life, you cross paths with people that come from different educational, religious, professional, and socio-economic backgrounds every day. And regardless of how long they stay in your life, these people don’t enter your life by chance. Instead, they cross your path for a reason.

Some people walk into your life to encourage you to pursue your dreams and goals and teach you how to work on and improve yourself. And other people cross your path to teach you that sometimes life can get very difficult and that no one is immune to sadness, fear, anger, and emotional pain.

Nevertheless, they all add value to your life and teach you important lessons about it.

Here are 7 synchronistic encounters that prove that we don’t meet anyone by chance:

1. The ones that remind you.

Have you ever felt like you’ve lost the purpose of your life? Well, these people come into your life to help you return to the right path to your success and happiness. They remind and encourage you to work hard towards your goals and avoid all distractions that could make you deviate from the right path.

They usually share the same interests with you and they’re always there to remind you of your abilities and strength and to motivate you to keep progressing. These people usually stay with you for a temporary period, but their effect on your life lasts forever.

2. The ones that push you to grow.

These people are like teachers who come into your life to teach you things you’ve never thought about before. Oftentimes, they teach you difficult lessons so as to help you further your personal and professional growth. They help you choose the right direction to become the best version of yourself.

3. The ones who awaken you.

There are people who don’t stay long in your life but they still have a deep impact on you. This kind of people helps you to fulfill your passions and dreams. They motivate you to never give up. 

They encourage you to find new ways and take steps to reach your goals, no matter how high they are. They inspire you to never stop dreaming.

4. The ones who inspire you to practice the art of gratitude.

These people enter your life to make you become more aware of and grateful for everything you have in life. They make you feel more grateful to those who truly love you and care about you for everything they do for you.

They make you appreciate your successes and achievements more. They make you feel more grateful for every opportunity you receive in life to work on yourself, pursue your goals, and nurture your relationships, both romantic and otherwise.

5. The ones who break your heart.

These people cross your path to show you the ugly, painful side of life firsthand. They break your heart. They betray your trust. They shatter your hope.

In this way, they teach you things about yourself that you never knew existed. They encourage you to find your inner strength to heal your emotional wounds and move on with your life. They make you believe that you have what it takes to overcome any pain life may send your way.

6. The ones who hold space.

These people stay the shortest in your life. You meet them every day and as soon as they cross your path, you forget about them. These are the people you meet at parties, on the bus, in the mall, or simply on the streets. You can have a small talk with them about everyday stuff, but you never make a deep and meaningful connection with them.

7. The ones who stay.

Whether it’s a family member, a friend, or your partner, these people are difficult to find, but they’re the most valuable people you’ll ever meet. These are the people who stay by your side and lift you up when you’re at your lowest.

They encourage you to do things you never thought you would be able to do. They usually share the same interests and goals with you and they always want the best for you.

In order for you to find these people, you have to be patient. But, once you find them, they’ll stay with you for good and you’ll see that they are definitely worth every second of the time you spent waiting for them.


We Don’t Meet Anyone By Chance: People Enter Our Lives For A Reason