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7 Signs That She Is Cheating On You

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Cheating is an incredibly painful thing. Especially for the person that has been cheated on.

This is why some people choose to live in oblivion rather than face the painful truth that their partner is cheating on them and having to end the relationship. (1)

So, gentlemen, how do you know when your girlfriend or your wife is cheating on you?

7 signs that she is cheating on you: 

1. She starts being secretive about her private things.

Suddenly, she spends more time alone and wants to have more space for herself in the relationship. This is not wrong per se, but if you suddenly notice that she hides her phone or that she smiles whenever she gets a text message – it is a sign that there may be some other guy in the picture.

2. She mentions a new friend out of the blue.

Also, there is nothing wrong with her making new friends, but this particular friend suddenly becomes very close to her. She seems to spend a way too much time with him, so there is a possibility that things could go wrong in your relationship when he becomes more informed about her day than you.

3. She starts acting distant and disinterested.

Physical, as well as emotional connection and intimacy, become nonexistent. And every time you ask her what’s wrong she becomes ambiguous and won’t give you a straight answer. Maybe some other man has captured her attention, who knows. (2)

4. She seems like she couldn’t care less whether you see each other or not.

Suddenly her schedule is so busy, that she can’t make time for you. Let’s say that work days don’t count, but if she is not available on weekends also – something is wrong there.

5. She begins to see problems even where there aren’t any.

This is a typical behavior of a person who wants out of the relationship, so they start finding faults and problems to justify and convince themselves that the best for both of you is to split ways.

6. She starts realizing that you two aren’t as compatible as she thought you were.

Suddenly she can’t seem to find a connection between you two, and she starts telling you that even though you love each other, you are not having the same interests and values. Maybe some other man does?

7. And probably the biggest revelation sign of every cheater is when they accuse you of cheating.

Specifically, when you have done nothing of the sort to make her feel suspicious. This is a classic projection of the guilt feelings that she experiences -she starts projecting her infidelity to you.