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I’m Sorry To Break It To You – But If He Really Loved You, He’d Make Sure You Know It


The brutal truth is that if he really loved you, he’d make sure you know it.

Therefore, stop making excuses for him and justifying his behavior.

If he felt about you the way you feel about him, he wouldn’t make you doubt his love for you. He wouldn’t leave you waiting for the little crumbs of love he throws your way.

If he truly cared about you, he’d act like it.

You need to stop spending all your time and energy on a man who doesn’t give you anything in return. A man who doesn’t even deserve a tiny bit of your attention.

You need to stop giving your heart and soul to a man who doesn’t know what to do with them. A man who doesn’t know your worth. A man who doesn’t know how to love.

You need to stop fighting for a man who has given up on you a long time ago. A man who has never truly loved you.


Because you always do this and every time, you end up feeling more hurt, more desperate, and more lost.

Every time, you wonder why he doesn’t feel about you the way you feel about him. Why he doesn’t love you the way you love him.

You wonder how he can’t feel butterflies in his stomach as you do when he’s around.

You try hard to get the answers and, still, nothing makes sense to you.

It’s hard. I know it’s hard.

It’s hard to admit to yourself that the person you thought you were going to be with forever has never been interested in you the way you thought he was.

It’s hard to accept the fact that the person you planned to spend your life with has never imagined you as a part of his future.

But you know, it’s always better to accept the truth, no matter how harsh and painful it is, than to lie to yourself. Or even worse – let another person lie to you and make a fool of you.

It’s better to let go of someone who doesn’t deserve you than fool yourself believing in a love that doesn’t exist.  

So, stop!

Stop hoping that he’ll change.

Stop allowing him to treat you like you don’t exist. Like you’re a ghost.

Stop begging for his attention and love – he’s not worth it.

A man who doesn’t appreciate the amazing things he has in life and who doesn’t know the meaning of love is not worth your time, efforts, and sacrifice.

He’s not worth your tears.

He’s not worth your love.

You deserve someone way better than him.

So, stop chasing after him.

Stop settling for less than what you deserve.

Stop focusing on him and look deep down into your soul. There, you’ll find your strength and all the good things you have in your life that are truly worth fighting for.

There, you’ll find your worth.

Stop waiting for him to start loving you.

I know it’s easier to fantasize and believe in miracles than look truth in the face and accept your pain, but this does you no good. It just prevents you from growing and reaching your happiness.

It prevents you from living the life you deserve.

It turns you into a slave of someone who doesn’t deserve you.

I know you’re tired of getting your heart broken time and time again. You’re tired of torturing yourself over someone who doesn’t love and will never love you.

So, stop it. You don’t have to do this.

Pluck up enough strength and walk away. You owe this to yourself.

You deserve someone better …

And you will find him.