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I’m Tired Of Playing Games: You Either Want To Be With Me Or You Don’t

I’m Tired Of Playing Games: You Either Want To Be With Me Or You Don’t

I’m the type of person that loves honestly, unconditionally, and deeply. I’m not someone that settles for casual things. Someone that is interested in playing games. Someone that settles for mediocre or one-sided relationships.

The only type of relationship that I want is one in which I’ll never have to doubt my partner’s feelings for me. One in which I’ll know that my love is reciprocated. One in which I’ll be treated the way I deserve to be treated. One in which I’ll never have to deal with mind games and mediocre love.

You see, when it comes to love and relationships, for me, it is very simple: You either want to be with me or you don’t. This is not difficult to understand, is it?

The truth is that when you are truly and profoundly in love with someone, you don’t string them along. You don’t play that childish, irritating hard-to-get game. You don’t make them pursue you. You don’t make them question your feelings for them.

And this is exactly how I’ve been feeling for a while now. This is exactly how your behavior has made me feel.

Yes, you’re the type of person who wants to be pursued. You’re the type of person who wants to be begged for attention and love.

Being in a relationship with you is being high on the warmth of your attention one minute and being frozen out and left wondering what happened the next. It’s feeling grateful for having such a kind, compassionate, loving person in my life one moment and wondering whether I made the right choice the next.

But, you know what?

I’m tired. I’m tired of playing games. I’m tired of allowing you to mess with my heart and my mind. I’m tired of you playing hot and cold all the time.

I need more from you than just grandiose promises and great stories. I need more than, “Let faith directs the course of our relationship.” Or “Honey, aren’t you happy with the way things are between us now?” Because no, I am not.

I’m not happy with the way our relationship is now. I’m just tired of hearing your excuses and false promises. I’m tired of waiting for you to decide what direction our relationship should take.

I’m tired of looking for answers to the questions that are constantly bombarding my mind: What if you disappoint me? What if you give up on me? What if you break my heart and shatter my dreams?

I’m tired of waiting for you to love me the way I love you.

I’m tired of waiting for you to commit to me.

I know – we can’t know what tomorrow may bring. But, I don’t want us to close our hearts to the risk of getting hurt. I don’t want us to jeopardize our relationship before it even starts to turn into something beautiful and profound. I don’t want us to lose what we have out of fear of getting hurt.

Because loving someone truly and deeply means being willing to take the risk. It means being willing to risk getting your heart broken.

I am ready to take the risk. I’m ready to let go of my fears. And the real question is: Are you willing and ready to do the same thing?

Well, my love, I truly hope you are. Since I have no intention of waiting anymore. I have waited for much longer than I should have.  

Yes, I am willing to take the risk, but I’m not willing to play your games again. I don’t want to deal with those questions and doubts again.

Therefore, my darling, if you feel about me the way I feel about you and if you want to be with me, show me that. Show me that you’re only mine. Show me that we are in this together. Show me that you love me and that you want me to always be a part of your life.

I’m Tired Of Playing Games: You Either Want To Be With Me Or You Don’t