We can all reach a point in life when we have a hard time letting go of someone who we think we love.
If you are reading this, and you have someone special in your life that is not treating you the way you deserve to be treated – please, make yourself a favor and let them go.
Because, if you cling to someone who doesn’t treat you right and seems to not really care about you, it inflicts a lot more damage to your well-being than you might think.
You deserve someone who will make you happy every single day, not someone who could not bother to ask you how your day went.
If you hold onto the wrong person for a long time you might miss meeting the right one.
Don’t get me wrong, it’s just I know how hard it can be to leave a toxic relationship. But, you can leave it, and you’ll be better off I guarantee you.
I understand that you are now probably thinking that they will change, that you will wake up one day and your relationship will become miraculously perfect. It won’t. People don’t change unless they innately want to change, and they really see a problem in their behavior.
But right now, if you feel they are not making an effort, why stay in this kind of relationship? Why waste your time?
I suppose you have probably given everything that you can for the sake of your relationship. And you have to ask yourself what have you gained. Giving your heart to someone who disrespects you and takes you for granted is the most dangerous thing that you can do to yourself.
Because, there may be someone else out there who is ready to treat you the right way, someone who would be amazing to you. Someone who will respect you and treat you with nothing but kindness and love. Someone with whom you won’t be walking on eggshells scared that you’ll upset them, and they’ll leave you.
Wasting your time with a wrong person means taking you more time to meet the right one. Your toxic partner will leave you eventually, and you’ll be left not only with the pain that comes after every breakup but also with the regret of you not ending it sooner.
Don’t hold yourself back. Don’t waste your precious time with a person who is not making you happy. You have a choice. You can leave and find your happiness somewhere else.
Reclaim your worth and walk away. Love will find you when you are ready. The first step is to find happiness within yourself.
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Mary Wright is a professional writer with more than 10 years of incessant practice. Her topics of interest gravitate around the fields of the human mind and the interpersonal relationships of people.If you have a general question or comment please fill out the form and we will get back to you as soon as possible https://curiousmindmagazine.com/contact-us/ .