Don’t Allow Yourself To Be Just An Option To The Someone Who Doesn’t Prioritize You

Have you ever fallen for a man who never intended to catch you? Have you ever given your heart to a man who acted like he couldn’t care less about it?

Have you ever prioritized a man who treated you like a girlfriend of convenience? Have you ever loved a man so deeply, fiercely, and unconditionally that you lost yourself to him?

Well, if you have, then you know how deeply this can hurt. You know how being in a relationship with this kind of man can make you doubt your self-worth and rack your brains wondering why he doesn’t love you the way you love him.

You know how being with this kind of person can make you feel betrayed, humiliated, and desperate. But most importantly, you know how an experience like this can leave deep scars on your heart and mind.

The truth is that this guy took advantage of all the love you were showering him with. He took advantage of your kindness.

But let me tell you something: You don’t deserve to be in one-sided relationships. You don’t deserve to suffer from unrequited love.

You are better than that.

Don’t be someone’s option.

Don’t let them consume your energy and love. Don’t allow yourself to think about why they’re not responding to your calls and messages. Don’t allow yourself to worry about where they might  be when they don’t come home to you.

Don’t allow yourself to fall in love with a man who doesn’t care about you.

A man who always has more important things to do than be with you.

Don’t allow yourself to be there for a man who is only good to you when he needs something from you. When he needs you to make him feel good about himself. When he needs your help to deal with his insecurities and fragile ego. When he needs to have fun.

You don’t deserve to be with a man who only comes to you when he feels lonely. Instead, you deserve a man who will enjoy spending every moment with you and who will terribly miss you when you’re not around.

You deserve a man who is going to stay by your side on your bad days. A man who will be there for you when times get rough for you. A man who will hold your hand and tell you: “Don’t worry, honey, everything will be all right. I’m with you.”

You deserve a man who will know what to say when you feel sad and disappointed to make you laugh and cheer you up.

You deserve a man who will make your heart skip a beat and make you feel warm on the inside. A man who won’t forget to ask you how your day went. A man who will tell you to call him when you get home because he wants to know you’re safe.

You deserve a man who is going to give you all of himself and enjoy waking up next to you in the morning.

You deserve a man who won’t leave you to deal with your problems on your own. A man who will do his best to help you overcome your deepest fears and insecurities. A man whose main priority will be to make you happy every single day.

You deserve a man who won’t try to fix you or lose his temper when your anxious thoughts, faults, quirks, and annoying habits come to the surface. Instead, he’ll be supportive and patient with you.

You deserve a man who is going to support you and tell you he believes in you when you talk to him about the highest goals and wildest dreams you want to fulfill.

You’re not an option.

You’re not a second choice. You’re not a pastime.

You’re an amazing, kind-hearted woman and you deserve a man who will be aware of and appreciate that.

You’re not “too emotional,” or “clingy,” or “needy.” You don’t love too much – you love in unique ways. You love hard. Honestly. Deeply. Passionately. Wholeheartedly.

You don’t need to change anything about yourself to make someone like you. Because the person who knows who you really are will love you even more.

You’re perfect just the way you are.

So, don’t allow yourself to fight for a man who is not willing to put even the slightest effort in the relationship.

Don’t allow yourself to waste your time and energy on a man who doesn’t deserve a bit of your attention. Because you can love and care about someone so much, but if they always play hot and cold and treat you like an option, then it means it’s time for you to let go of them.

Since holding on to them is preventing yourself from finding someone who will know how to love and cherish you the way you deserve.

Someone who will love you with the same intensity and passion as you do. Someone who will make you feel like you’re the most loved, appreciated, and important person in the world. Someone who will go out of his way to make you feel safe and protected. Someone who will make you feel special every single day.

You deserve a man who will be aware of your worth and put you on the top of his list of priorities. A man who will be ready to catch you when you fall for him.