When you are the woman that is always there for those around her – you have a deep, waste ocean of feelings within you. You’re not scared to plunge into it and drown for those that are too afraid to swim.
When you are the woman that is always there for those around her, you never stop giving. You give pieces of your heart and soul to others to make them happy.
But, when you are the woman that is always there for those around her, you also hurt. You feel emotional pain. You worry. You feel confused. You wonder whether you’ll be given the love that you so selflessly and unconditionally give to others. You wonder whether one day, someone will come to you and ask you, “How are you feeling?” “How are you healing?”
And since this never happens, you look deep within yourself to find your inner strength and courage to heal your wounds and mend your broken heart. You look for hope in the depths of your soul. You tell yourself that you don’t need anyone to heal your wounds. You don’t need anyone to stay by your side and hold your hand while you try to save yourself.
Because you’re your own savior. You’re a warrior who is not afraid to lose a battle or two because you know that you have what it takes to win an entire war.
Yet, sometimes you need someone to be there for you.
Sometimes the woman who always lets others rely on her when they need help needs to have someone she can rely on. Sometimes the woman who reminds everyone around her of their worth needs someone to remind her of her own.
Sometimes the woman who appreciates everyone around her needs to know that she’s appreciated. Sometimes the woman who has the biggest smile hides the greatest sorrow behind her laugh and cheerful face.
So, if you are the woman that is always there for everyone, know that you have a heart of gold. You have a heart which is pure and deep. You have a heart which is rare. You have a character which is an inspiration to many.
Also know that there are strength and power within you which enable you to overcome any challenge, problem, and pain life sends your way. They enable you to prevent any harsh truth, hurtful word, or bad action from destroying your self-esteem and taking your happiness away.
Last but not least, know that you aren’t obligated to carry other people’s problems and pains on your shoulders. Remind yourself that your heart, body, and soul need to rest. Remind yourself that from time to time, you need to invest the energy and love you so selflessly give to others in yourself.
Remind yourself that you don’t always have to be tough and resilient. Remind yourself that you have the right to cry, be vulnerable, and ask for help.
Remind yourself that you don’t always have to be the one that saves herself.
Because you deserve to be saved by someone else once in a while.
Riley Cooper is a professional writer who writes informative and creative articles on topics related to various fields of study. Written with love and enthusiasm, her articles inspire readers to broaden their knowledge of the world, think and get ready to act. If you have a general question or comment please fill out the form and we will get back to you as soon as possible https://curiousmindmagazine.com/contact-us/
