Whether you think of yourself as high maintenance or not, or you think you are just not the goofy romantic type – it doesn’t matter. Nothing will matter with the right guy because he will love the real you despite your flaws.
The truth is, sometimes we all feel a little lost and insecure, and the world just seems like a scary place to live in. So, when you find a guy who is there for you through your storms – keep him.
Here is a list of 13 revealing signs that your boyfriend is definitely a keeper.
1. HE FINDS YOU BEAUTIFUL WITH OR WITHOUT MAKE-UP
Everyone can be beautiful with the right make-up. Every flaw we have can be easily brushed off with just a single stroke of a brush. However, the man who really loves you will love you without make-up.
Even though he finds you attractive with your make-up on, he will find you the most beautiful when you are all natural because he is in love with all your little imperfections and flaws that you hate.
2. YOUR WEIGHT IS JUST A NUMBER TO HIM
They say that true beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. So, when your guy loves you truly, he doesn’t care whether you are overweight or underweight. He finds you attractive in any shape.
He sees only the beauty of your heart, your charisma, and the clarity of your mind – and these are the things that he is interested in and he respects you for.
3. HE ALWAYS HAS YOUR BACK EVEN WHEN YOU ARE UNEMPLOYED
Having to share your life with someone is not an easy task, especially when the raising of kids is involved. The situation becomes much more difficult when the woman happens to be unemployed for various reasons.
However, no matter what your reasons are, you are not scared because you know you can always count on your loving boyfriend for support.
4. YOU AGING DOESN’T BOTHER HIM
Even if you start to wrinkle up, or you have deep scars on your skin that you consider your weaknesses – they won’t matter to the right guy.
The right guy will love your skin imperfections because he will see them as symbols of all the hard times you’ve endured that made you the person you are today. And this is the person he loves. After all, age is just a number: it doesn’t matter to him, so it shouldn’t bother you.
5. HE DOESN’T LEAVE YOU WHEN YOU ARE FEELING DOWN
The right guy will sense when you are feeling down. And, he will not dismiss your feelings. Rather, he would cook you a nice dinner and will try his best to calm you down. Because, the truth is, it is not easy to handle someone who is at their worst.
But the guy who loves you unconditionally will put up with you and instead of leaving, he will stay and will do everything to make you feel better.
6. HE FORGIVES YOUR MISTAKES
Whether intentionally or unintentionally – we all make mistakes. Sometimes we even find it difficult to forgive ourselves, let expect someone else to forgive us.
However, the right guy knows that everyone is guilty of making mistakes, and no one is perfect. So, he will forgive your mistakes and make you forgive yourself too.
7. HE GIVES YOU SPACE FOR YOURSELF
Sometimes we all find ourselves overwhelmed by everyday casualties that we need to take a break and distance ourselves from people altogether.
Your partner will not judge you for your isolation – rather, he will support you and encourage you to take all the time you need to decompress. You, distancing yourself from him won’t make his feelings any less intense.
8. HE HELPS YOU TO DEAL WITH YOUR PAST
Having a guy who fights your demons from the past with you is not an everyday occurrence. It is a sign that he really loves you and he sees his future with you in it.
Moreover, he will help you to overcome your issues from your troubled past without judging. He will listen to you, and he will make you see your scars as signs of immense strength.
9. HE DOESN’T MIND YOUR ATTITUDE AND CHANGE OF MOODS
No matter how tolerant and laid-back you are, sometimes people can really get on your nerves. Sometimes, you can get on their nerves because you can’t control your temper.
However, your changing moods will not have an impact on your guy – because he will (or he will try) to understand you every time. He will love you even in times when you are not so lovable. And that’s a guy you should keep.
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Mary Wright is a professional writer with more than 10 years of incessant practice. Her topics of interest gravitate around the fields of the human mind and the interpersonal relationships of people.If you have a general question or comment please fill out the form and we will get back to you as soon as possible https://curiousmindmagazine.com/contact-us/ .
