It seems that nowadays we tend to obsess and overthink more than we should. We are annoyed by trivialities. We let other things that are not in our power to control us. We care way too much about what others think of us.
This needs to change! NOW!
Stop stressing over things that you can’t change. Don’t give away your f*cks to something that you shouldn’t be bothered with in the first place.
If you, too, are someone who cares too much and gives way too many f*cks – read on these 7 things that you should try doing.
1. FOCUS ON YOUR OWN SH*T
Don’t allow yourself to get involved in someone else’s petty sh*t. Learn how to deal with your own sh*it instead, and don’t get caught up in pointless drama. Focus only on living your own life and don’t bother with how other people are living theirs.
2. DON’T LET OTHERS GET TO YOU
Don’t let others bring you down. They will try to get to you – but don’t let them. Only insecure people and people who find you superior and intimidating will go to great lengths to pull you down.
3. ACCEPT THAT SOME THINGS ARE JUST COMPLETE NONSENSE
The sooner you realize this, the better. You have to learn how to distinguish the important things from the unimportant ones to liberate yourself. The truth is, some things are so trivial and so sh*tty that you must accept them and move on. This is true for experiences as well as people.
4. IF YOU DON’T WANT TO DO IT – DON’T DO IT
As simple as that. You don’t have to do anything that you don’t want to – except maybe only a small number of things that you need to survive. You have the right to remove yourself from any other thing, circumstance, or person that is making you unhappy and miserable.
5. IF YOU CAN’T CHANGE SOMETHING – MOVE ON
There is no point in dwelling on things that you cannot control. You need to face them, accept them as they are, and then move on with your life because they have no purpose to give you.
6. KNOW YOUR WORTH
You are a wonderful human being and you do deserve amazing things in this life. Don’t settle for less. Don’t let anyone discourage you and tell you differently. You must always know your worth!
7. BE WHO YOU WANT TO BE
You, and only you, can define yourself. Don’t let anyone else have that kind of power over you. Never allow anyone to tell you that your dreams and goals are ridiculous and unworthy of chasing. Do what you want to do. After all, you only live once, so make the best of it.
SO, STAY UNF*CKWITHABLE NO MATTER WHAT! AND REMEMBER TO ALWAYS BE TRUE TO YOURSELF.
Mary Wright is a professional writer with more than 10 years of incessant practice. Her topics of interest gravitate around the fields of the human mind and the interpersonal relationships of people.