I want to be with someone who is willing to really put himself out there and make an effort. I don’t want to be with someone who neglects me, who treats me as an option or a backup plan. I don’t want to be with someone who will string me along.
I want to be with someone who can’t wait to spend time with me, and not with someone who finds excuses and is always too busy or too tired to see me.
I want to be with someone who would proudly introduce me as his girlfriend. I don’t want to be someone’s ‘friend’ only because he doesn’t want to be tied down yet and still wants to explore his options.
I want to be with someone who texts me ‘good morning’ and ‘goodnight’, someone who responds immediately to my texts, and not someone who keeps me waiting for hours or even for days.
I want to be with someone who will bring me home to meet his parents. I don’t want to be with someone who will intentionally keep me at a distance because he doesn’t want to become too close to me and he is concerned with our relationship getting too serious.
I want to be with someone who is my best friend. Someone who runs to me first whenever they have good or bad news. I don’t want to be with someone who closes himself off and never talks about himself, his problems, and his emotions.
I want to be someone’s first thought in the morning, and not someone’s booty call after midnight when he is lonely and wasted.
I want to be with someone who counts down the minutes until he gets to see me, and not someone who can easily cancel plans in the last moment without giving a second thought because something more interesting came up.
I want to be with someone who plans our dates weeks in advance, and not with someone who texts me at the last minute, asking me to go out and grab a drink or go at his place and watch Netflix.
I want to with someone who is comfortable talking about the future, and not with someone who is not even sure about next month or next year because he doesn’t know if I would be in his life for that long.
I want to be with a person who will kiss me on the forehead, and not only on the neck. I want someone who is not afraid to look me in the eyes because he wants to be truly intimate with me.
I want to be with someone who changes his relationship status for me. With someone who immediately deletes all his dating apps because he found me, and he is not looking to find someone else because he already has everything he needs.
I want to be with someone who when he looks at me, he sees me as someone that he wants to spend his life with. Someone who makes me look forward to moving in together, getting married, and having children.
I want to be with someone that loves and cares about me deeply, and not with someone who can easily give up on us.
I want to be someone’s only one – not just one of his many.
I want to be someone’s first priority, not someone’s second choice.
Mary Wright is a professional writer with more than 10 years of incessant practice. Her topics of interest gravitate around the fields of the human mind and the interpersonal relationships of people.If you have a general question or comment please fill out the form and we will get back to you as soon as possible https://curiousmindmagazine.com/contact-us/ .