It’s hard not to fail in love with a psychopath. Their love for you is grandiose. Psychopaths have everything to make you fall on your knees. You feel over the moon, protected in their arms…until they get under your skin.
Then, you get blind. So blind that you trust them with your whole heart. And you drink that poison immediately. These manipulative wolves in a charming sheep’s clothing harm your spirit and leave burning scars.
Still, you can’t get over that relationship. Still, you can’t move on. You lose yourself in that process of forgetting. You become their victim and that’s painful.
So, why does it take so long to get over a relationship with a psychopath? – A million-dollar question.
YOU BELIEVED THEIR WORDS
Yes, you believed every sweet word coming out of their mouth. But, that’s love: sincere, mysterious, wholehearted, giving. It is supposed to be like that.
You trusted them. You served your heart on their plate. What did they do? They shot through your heart.
It takes a long time to get over a relationship with a psychopath because your love was real, and it was a relationship after all. Dealing with a breakup or divorce hurts. It takes time for your spirit to recover.
YOU BECAME ADDICTED TO THE MAGIC OF THEIR LOVE
Your psychopath partner was showering you with compliments, gifts, flattering words of admiration. They were gentle, passionate, caring, respectful, a true mirror of yourself.
Ah, love, so magical, so powerful! You gave yourself completely. In fact, they wanted to reserve their place and reign with your heart and mind. And they did it.
It takes a long time to get over a relationship with a psychopath because you got addicted. You became their object. Once you face the loss, you lose your identity. You feel unloved and worthless, fearful and depressed. It takes time to get back on the right track.
YOU SHARED YOUR DEEPEST SECRETS WITH THEM
You became an open book. All your insecurities, fears, past pains were written there. And you waited for them to read it aloud.
They used all your flaws to feed their own purposes. They played mind games. They attacked you where it hurts the most. Moreover, they blamed everything bad they did on you.
It takes a long time to get over a relationship with a psychopath because you got emotionally and mentally destroyed. It takes time to heal your wounds.
YOU GOT STUCK IN THEIR VICIOUS CIRCLE OF LIES
For God’s sake, your psychopath partner did everything to get you back. Thousands of messages, calls, tears, following you in each corner. Millions of masks falling in front of your feet.
They lied to you and you accepted that vicious circle of nothing more than lies.
It takes a long time to get over a relationship with a psychopath because their lies made you feel terrible. It takes time to get your true emotions back. To be able to empathize, feel, trust people again.
YOU BELIEVED THEY WILL CHANGE
You believed with your whole heart and soul. You dreamed about that. You thought people can change.
People do change sometimes, psychopaths don’t. They’re already poisoned with a drug there is no cure for. And that’s where all your hopes diminished, drowned in a whirlpool.
That’s why it takes a long time to get over a relationship with a psychopath. It takes time to trust people again. And that hurts even more.
It takes a great time to get out of that black hole. It takes a great time to feel like a human again. Those who never experienced such pain will not understand you. But, you can get over that toxic relationship.
You will experience love, light…you will experience a new life.
You can do it. You have that strength. You are the strength.
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