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Top 3 divorce types in California

By
Elizabeth Williams

A divorce or a Legal Separation? Uncontested or Contested type of divorce procedure? An annulment or a Cooling-off period? As a rule, we do not know 100% what the differences among all these notions are. In general, couples have divorce proceedings only once, so anyway they will be pioneers of their marriage termination and will undoubtedly face several items challenging to solve. If you hesitate what divorce type to choose, we will give you a full guide of the most common sorts of a divorce procedure and explain your main rules of each divorce. Let us do it immediately!

1. Divorce (both Contested and Uncontested).

If a divorce is a Contested one, it means that you do not have any agreement with your wife or husband and you are not ready to have a dialogue with her/him at all. The controversial issues can relate to any sphere of your everyday life, for instance, a division of common property or child custody. A Contested Divorce also means a proceeding itself is much longer than an Uncontested divorce and far more expensive.

The price for Contested Divorce is much higher than for Uncontested due to its more difficult structure, various processes, the legal help of the lawyer, etc. In California as well as in the whole USA, an Uncontested divorce is much more popular, and of high demand, because we are dealing with civilized people, nobody wants to argue with the spouse, fight for every corner of the common property and so on.

As a rule, a Contested divorce lasts more than one year, and an Uncontested one lasts 3-6 months. It depends on the case, and it is a highly individual process. There are several residency requirements for the California citizens willing to end their relations legally. In general, they are not somewhat strict, you will have an opportunity to get the divorce provided you live in California more than one year, or your spouse did it, moreover in California it is also required to terminate the marriage at the same county you did a registration.

All the divorce documents you can prepare for an Uncontested divorce by yourself or with the help of the attorney. Furthermore, you can use services specializing in developing forms and materials that are affordable and highly qualified enough within two days or something like that. In California, it is a high number of such organizations so that you can choose the most suitable one precisely for you!

2. A legal separation.

It is not yet a divorce and it is a so-called preparation for it that can last six months or a bit more. You might live separately with your spouse, and you both care for your common children, shared property, debts, etc. Both spouses are still married, so in California, it is strictly forbidden to get married once again while you are still married another person.

Moreover, in California, it is also illegal to cohabitate with somebody while you are married and currently to have a legal separation. The breaking will cost you lots of money, so you should follow the rules you get. To get a legal separation, you also need to fulfill several rules and follow recommendations of the county court; however, this type of marriage termination is not so time-consuming for instance a Contested divorce and will not take a significant amount of time!

3. An annulment of marriage. If you were made to marry somebody or your wedding was a fraud, or nowadays your spouse is incurably ill, you can ask the county court of California to commit an annulment of marriage. It is an uncommon thing especially in the modern world, although in 2018 there took place several occasions of a marriage cancellation. When the judge gives you the decree of annulment, it fairly means that your spouse has never existed in your life before.

Typical children will get the joint child custody, however, all the property you had before the annulment is only yours, and nobody can have any rights for it! As a rule, an annulment is somewhat not typical for the American society, despite all the issues a regular divorce is much more preferable instead, but precedents of the cancellation can be vivid as well in our time, so before filing for dissolution, read the rules of it in especially your county attentively!

As a rule, all the cases are different, and you can have an opportunity to choose ant type of the divorce processes mentioned above, you may have advice from the legal side or by yourself, however you should always a kind of divorce being somewhat profitable for you, without any inconveniences that can be crucial in any case. Believe in yourself and your desire for a better life, and everything will be good!

Here’s Why Sensitive People Have The Most Beautiful, Unique Souls

By
Riley Cooper

Sensitive people have the purest, most beautiful, and unique souls. They feel things on a way deeper level than others. They make deep, intense, and meaningful bonds with other people. They connect with others on a deep emotional, mental, and spiritual level.

They’re one of a kind.

Sensitive people are highly intuitive and insightful. They don’t take anything at face value but look for a deeper meaning behind things.

They search for the truth.

Sensitive people may sometimes appear weak and more vulnerable than others. But that’s just how they look on the outside. Because on the inside, they’re strong, brave, and resilient. They’re way stronger than others.

Why?

Because they’ve experienced things no one’s ever had. They’ve felt in ways, no one’s ever had. They’ve shed tears and they’ve been hurt and disappointed by others time and time again. But this hasn’t stopped them from believing in the good in people, forgiving, and, most importantly, loving.

Sensitive people don’t respond to pain with pain, to lies with lies, or to hatred with hatred. In their pure, beautiful souls, there’s no space for such things.

They can get lied to, manipulated, and hurt by someone, even by someone they love and care about, and yet, they’ll never give them a taste of their own medicine.

Instead, they counteract every lie, manipulation, and pain with patience, compassion, and dignity.

Why?

No, it’s not because they’re weak or naïve or weird. It’s because that’s the way their mind and heart work. Their heart is big enough to gather all the love and kindness that exist in the world and it’s brave enough to endure the worst kinds of pain.

Their body is strong enough to carry all the burden in the world. And their soul is deep and strong enough to receive a thousand wounds.

Sensitive people are the greatest help and support one can ever have in their life. They’re the best crying shoulder. The most comforting hug. The best listening ear. The most loyal fan. The most supportive friend. The most committed and loving partner.

They’re a rare gem. A true blessing.

They can hear your unsaid thoughts, feel your most hidden feelings, sense your deepest insecurities and fears, and reach the parts of your soul that no one has ever reached.

They can feel broken inside, but that won’t stop them from helping others overcome their problems and struggles.

They can go through deep pain, but that won’t prevent them from being there for someone going through rough times and doing their best to alleviate their worries and ease their pain.

And when it comes to love, sensitive people love deeply. Intensely. Honestly. Wholeheartedly. Unconditionally.

Sensitive people are the genuine, unique people our world needs. They’re the force which transforms chaos into order, loss into gain, dark into light, positivity into negativity.

Top 7 Habits Highly Grateful And Genuine People Have

By
Riley Cooper

Regardless of your definition of happiness and success, we all always want to achieve more happiness and success, be it personal or professional. However, that insatiable desire for more can make us blind to what we already have in life, and, undoubtedly, should appreciate and be grateful for.

The great Greek stoic philosopher Epictetus once said: “He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has.”

But, how many of you can proudly and from the bottom of your heart say: “Yes, I’m aware of all the things I have in my life. I’m aware of all the amazing people that bring happiness, joy, peace, and light into my life. I’m aware of the people without whom my life wouldn’t be whole and complete. And I show how grateful I am for having them in my life?”

Well, if you can say this, then you’re on the right track –  just keep expressing your gratitude. But, if you can’t, then, my friend, you should stop for a second and take a break from your everyday responsibilities and problems and look around you to see all the blessings you’re surrounded with.

But know that you’re not alone. We’re all guilty of forgetting about the importance of gratitude. While it’s easy to feel and express gratitude on our good days and when things go in our favor, when life throws us curve balls, most of us neglect and even completely forget about all the things in our lives we should be thankful for.

And, yes, it’s true, gratitude doesn’t make your problems, heartbreaks, and regrets magically disappear. But gratitude gives you an opportunity to psychologically survive difficult, painful times more easily and feel happier and more fulfilled in the good times.

In what follows, there’s a list of top 7 habits of  highly grateful and sincere people:

1. They take the time to smell the roses.

And not just the roses, but the freshly baked bread or the first morning coffee. They take the time to savor every single experience in their lives. No matter how unimportant or boring some experience might appear to others, they pay attention to and appreciate everything.

Whether it’s food, nature, material things, or people, they make sure they appreciate them because they know they won’t be able to enjoy them forever.

2. They’re grateful to people too.

Saying ‘thank you’ to the sun or trees will certainly make you feel good and more positive and may also cause you to consider your impact on the environment, but things can’t feel your gratitude. On the other hand, people can. They glow in gratitude.

Saying ‘thank you’ to your family, partner, friends, or colleagues strengthens and adds deep meaning to your bond and makes them feel happier and appreciated.

So, next time when someone helps you, make sure you acknowledge their help and effort and tell them ‘thank you.’ This will mean a lot to them and it’ll make you more aware of all the amazing people you have in your life and the good things that happen to you.

3. They forgive others.

There is no space for gratitude in the hearts of those people who hold grudges against others. Instead of feeling resentment and bitterness and creating all kinds of revenge plots against the person who harmed them, highly grateful and genuine people acknowledge the wrong deed and their pain and let it go.

They don’t allow past sorrows and disappointments to linger on in their present and future. So, make sure you forgive others for not being or behaving like you had wanted and hoped they would.

4. They take the good things in their lives as gifts and not as birthrights.

Has it ever occurred to you what the opposite of thankfulness is? It is entitlement. The attitude that you deserve everything that you have in your life by birthright. A person who is entitled thinks that others owe them something because they are very special, and therefore they don’t need to express gratitude to anyone.

But the truth is that no one is completely self-sufficient. We need love and support and we need to feel that we are respected and valued, and for that – we need friends, family, partners, and pets.  

5. They are specific when expressing gratitude.

Highly grateful people don’t say ‘thank you’ just because. Instead, they pay attention to the way someone helped them, or did them a favor, or made them feel good and loved, and they acknowledge the intentions of the person they’re thankful to and the benefit they received.

Therefore, a highly grateful person will never say just ‘thank you,’ but they’ll try to make their expression of thankfulness more authentic and say something like: “Thank you for X you make when I’m hungry even when you’re tired and for all the comforting hugs you give me when I’m down in the dumps so that I’ll feel better.”

6. They think about death from time to time.

You wonder why? Well, try to visualize the sudden disappearance of someone very close and important to you, or even your own death. Wouldn’t this make you feel more grateful for having them in your life and appreciating more everything that you currently have in your life as well?

I’m sure it would. The thing is that most of us make the same mistake. We tend to think that just by living with our family or hanging out with our friends without showing them how thankful we are for having them in our lives and for everything they do for us is enough.

But it isn’t. By thinking and behaving this way, we only end up taking our loved ones for granted and missing the opportunity to let them know how much we love and appreciate them.

7. They’re grateful for the bad things as well.

It’s easy to be grateful to someone who helped you in one way or another. But what about being grateful to the person who did you wrong or hurt your feelings, such as the boss who fired you, or that boyfriend/girlfriend who broke up with you?

Well, a highly grateful and genuine person is thankful to such people as well. Why? Because instead of denying those negative experiences and obstacles, they acknowledge and turn them into opportunities. Instead of as failures, they see them as valuable lessons.

How, you’re wondering? That’s simple too. People who practice gratitude know that if they really want, they can find a reason to be thankful even to those who have done them wrong. Thus, you can thank your ex for ending a relationship that was going nowhere or the boss that laid you off for causing you to take on new challenges.

How to Pack a Suitcase in Thirty Minutes

By
Elizabeth Williams

For some people, packing a suitcase is the least favourite part of their travel experience. Packing requires patience and organization and let’s face it, most of us aren’t really interested in exercising these virtues. All we want is to hit the road and travel!

Are you looking for practical ways to make packing less tedious and boring than it already is? Then this article is for you. Just follow these steps and you will soon become an expert in packing a suitcase in thirty minutes or less.

  1. Choose the Right Suitcase 

The first step in packing is to choose the right size of suitcase. Before choosing the right size, you should consider:

  • The length of your trip – longer trips mean more clothes and toiletries to make your travel comfortable.
  • The purpose of your trip – people generally pack light for business trips and pack heavier for holiday and touring trips.
  • The mode of travel – air travel demands you pack light, unless you are willing to pay for the extra baggage. Road trips give you more liberty to pack as much as you can.

2. Pack Light

A brilliant way to save time during packing is to pack light. As much as possible, try to cut down on items. To do this, make a list of items you wish to pack. List the items according to the duration of your trip, purpose of your trip and mode of travel.

Next, scale down the items. You can do this by creating a list of preference. Start out with a list of twenty items to pack then scale down to a list of ten.  

As you scale, ask yourself, “ if this item is stolen during the trip, can I function without it?”

3. Organize your Wardrobe

Organize your wardrobe before packing. To do this, arrange all the clothes and underwear you intend to wear during the trip. To pack light, mix and match outfits. Repeating clothes during a trip isn’t a bad idea, especially if you know how to mix and match.

Neutral pants and skirts are great to mix with just about any colour and design of shirts and tops.

A maximum of three shoes is ideal for a trip: a casual shoe, a formal shoe and a comfortable pair.

To cut down on bulk, pack minimum underwear, particularly breathable wash and wear fabric that dries easily.

1.Lay out your Stuff – before packing, lay out all items in your priority list before packing them in. Doing so saves you the trouble of last minute additions and subtractions, and worst of all, forgotten items.

Spread out your items on the bed and take an inventory of them before layering them into the suitcase.

2. Think Travel Friendly – a brilliant hack in cutting back time and saving space is to buy pre packed travel friendly items. For example, pre packed sample sized containers of shampoo, soap, conditioner and toothpaste in a waterproof toiletry bag. Use travel friendly containers for jewelries and other accessories like chargers, keys, cards, toothbrush and medications.

You can use transparent compartmentalized plastic bags. These bags are convenient and save time in the packing process.

4. Think Layers

Layering  items in your suitcase creates more space for you to pack more items efficiently. Layering is a skill that is mastered during repetition.

  1. Bottom Layer: the bottom layer typically consists of rolled up clothes. Roll up light clothes and layer them in such a way that you alternate the neck and helm of tops. This technique cuts down bulk and creates an even flat layer for you to layer more clothes.

To prevent wrinkling, you can place tissue paper between clothes.

Layer your clothes in such a way that the least worn clothes are layered first and the favourite clothes are layered last.

  1. Middle Layer – Fragile items such as perfume bottles, tea cups, mirror are cushioned in the middle layer. Utilize the sides of your middle layer by filling it in with tiny items like hair brushes, soap bars, and jewellery boxes.
  2. Top Most Layer – your top most layer is made up of items you need on arrival, for example your night clothes, tooth brushes, towels, bedsheets,hangers, make up bag, toiletry kit and so on.

As you get closer to the end of packing, place shoes heel to toe at the sides of your suitcase. Utilize the nooks and crannies of your shoes by storing smaller items like socks, sunglasses and trinkets in these spaces.

Finish up the top most layer with bulky clothes that take up more space when folded, for example towels, bedsheets, bath robes and blankets.

Spread them on the top most layer of your suitcase and tuck the corners in to create a flat surface that is easy to zip.

  1. Brilliant Hacks for Smaller Items – smaller unfoldable items easily pack space, if you don’t know the brilliant hacks in storing them. Check these out:
  • Roll up belts into a tight small circle and tuck them inside shirt collars.
  • Fold up panties and tuck them inside bra cups to free up some space.
  • Shoes are not just for storing socks but also for storing jewelry, foldable tank tops and t-shirts.
  • Wrap necklaces in seal plastic wraps to keep them scratch free, easy to find and of course save space.

5. Pack your Fun Bag

Packing a fun bag helps save space in your suitcase. A fun bag contains items to keep you entertained during the trip. They include books, ipods, earpieces, gameboys, chargers, diaries, headphones and mini laptops. Rather than pack these in your suitcase, pack them in a small school bag or satchel. Your fun bag is also ideal for storing credit cards, debit cards and cash.

Packing for a trip can be fun, if you know just what to do. Use these tips on how to pack a suitcase in thirty minutes and you will quickly become a pro in packing your suitcases in thirty minutes or less.

Whether you are traveling on a business trip or sightseeing on any of San Francisco tours, these tips have you covered. Just remember to practise, practise, practise.

Happy travelling!

Being more confident during that time of the month

By
Elizabeth Williams

It is that time of the month when you are experiencing the crimson tide and it has been taking its toll on you. From making you feel as if your world has just toppled over, you now realize that your self-confidence has taken a dip as well. You find yourself avoiding all sorts of social interactions so that you can stay tucked up in your blanket all day long and wear the red badge of courage while watching your favorite romantic movies online.

While this does feel like something we all would want to do, expecting to stay this way once a week every month is not very practical, to say the least. So, what are some of the many ways you can regain your lost confidence and carry on with your life, despite the routine setback, normally?

Wear makeup

Makeup is every woman’s best friend and it becomes even more special when you have Aunt Flo visiting. The eyes you would see are normally puffy and swollen during this time. You might even be experiencing pimples and acne breakouts on the skin. Use makeup to cover it all up. In fact, spend extra 5 minutes on your face to feel more special about yourself also for more information you can visit Babe Appeal.

Stay hydrated

The feeling of being bloated all the time can lead to you getting dehydrated. This further affects your mood and causes hormonal imbalance in the body. Staying hydrated and drinking lots of water during this time would not only keep your mood swings in check but would also make your skin look fresher and healthier.

Wear comfortable shoes

While it always helps to take on the world in your favorite stilettoes but during this time you might want to give your legs a break.  Wear shoes that are comfortable and won’t exhaust your legs or strain your back any more. Choosing dresses that might compliment your choice of shoes would be a good idea to complete your look for the day.

Dress appropriately

Wearing colors that are light especially when you would be out in the public for long agonizing hours would make you feel conscious for no reason at all. Select clothes that go in the darker tones so that you are more at ease and can walk around comfortable. In case of an accident, it would be easier for you to cover up the stains as well like. 

Invest in a good underwear

Going on periods without the right underwear is like taking on a war without adequate arsenal in your backpack. It just won’t work and would only bring you more trouble.  Invest in an underwear that will keep you comfortable, won’t cause undue strain on the legs and would be good at absorbing any leakage. From the fabric to the fit, everything needs to be just perfect. Check out the athletic underwear range offered by Knix that is designed just for those days so that you can continue performing your best without losing your self-confidence at all.

Periods are a normal part of every woman’s life but handling them sensibly by investing in the right clothes and accessories is a smart way to go about them.

Tips for staying fit and healthy

By
Elizabeth Williams

Given our busy lifestyles, it is no surprise to know that most of us cannot take time out for their own selves. Our bodies continue to stay under the same stressful situation day after day and we continue neglecting our mental and physical health to attend to the deadline at work or work overtime to get the promotion we have our eyes on. This cycle goes on till your body decides to give up one day and gets affected by some simple health complication that could have been avoided had you paid attention to the warning signs.

Our body is what keeps us going and taking care of it should be our prime duty. We, however, do not do that and often take it for granted. This is wrong and needs to be changed. We have prepared our list of 5 top most tips which if followed will get you moving on the right path.

Exercise regularly

Exercising regularly keeps the immune system strong and helps your stay healthy and focused. Taking just 30 minutes every day for exercising will help you maintain the body weight and take care of the bones that are aging with each passing day. It will also improve your blood circulation and help you distress as well.

Eat fresh

Eating from the cans is convenient but not a healthy option. Neither is the food fresh nor are you able to maintain a balanced diet this way. Making your own food will help you incorporate fresh vegetables and fruits in your diet. Apart from this, you can now choose to follow a balanced diet where you eat things that will help your body stay stronger and healthier. It might take some time initially to adapt but will prove to be a lot helpful in the coming years.

Adequate sleep

No matter how busy you are, try not to miss out on your sleep. In fact, maintain a regular sleep cycle is a sign of a healthy body and you should try to aim for one as well. Adequate sleep every day would allow your body to rest and replenish its energy and would also give a rest to your tired mind for a while. It is important if you want to maintain your energy levels, have well- balanced emotional and mental health too.

Take supplements

Supplements will make up for all the essential nutrients and vitamins that your food is not able to provide to your body. However, never take any supplements without discussing it with a doctor first. He would be able to write you one that would be most suitable to meet your body’s requirements. You can also chat to pharmacists and doctors online, for example through The Independent Pharmacy, if you’re struggling to attend a walk-in appointment, but need some quick, professional advice.

Maintaining a healthy lifestyle is not tough. You just need to take the right start and become more aware of your body and mind’s health. It will be something you will be thankful for in a few year’s time.

8 Gifts To Make Your Girlfriend Feel Happy All Day Long

By
Elizabeth Williams

Gifts make people feel loved and cared for and if you are in love, they take a more superior meaning as they pronounce your affection directly to your beloved. Although, greatest gift that you can give is thyself; there are certain things that can make your girlfriend a happy girl, all day long. That beautiful smirk will be on her face for whole day and her super busy day will become a little more bearable for her. Let’s see some easy and beautiful gifts that can make her cheery instantly.

1.Flowers, Nature’s Gifts

Considered as nature’s token of love, flowers can brighten her day like nothing else. You don’t need to go overboard with a thousand roses, instead, a simple bouquet with a cute love message will do the trick just fine.

2.Black and White T-shirt

If you are dating or married to a fashionista, then this might just be the best gift you could give. You don’t need to drive from mall to mall in search of a perfect dress. Just gift her a basic white or black t-shirt or both. These basic colors could be paired up with any bottoms and could be styled with layers or be worn, just like that. Nevertheless, it would be a pretty and ultra useful gift for her.

3. A Chunky Blanket

Everyone wished to finally comfortable in bed at night and have a good night sleep for a rejuvenated body and mind and a soft chunky blanket will do the job perfectly. They are not only in trend but they also look mesmerisingly beautiful. Perfect to end or start your day with, this one will let her think of you, each time she will snuggle in it.

4. Cake – A Sweet Treat

Moist, fluffy layers of her favourite cake will melt her heart as soon as she will devour the first bite. Trust me, by the end of the last bite , she will love you even more. You don’t have to go through the hassle for searching the perfect bakery. Just order cake online in Noida, Delhi, Gurgaon, Mumbai, Banglore or any other city where your girlfriend lives and see the contentment in her eyes.

5. A Spacious and Cute Tote

A girls is a creature with lots of things to carry. A cute yet spacious tote is a perfect fit for it. Chances are she might already have a one but there is nothing like “too much bags” ever.

6. Plants, Life Worth Caring For

Nothing can convey your feelings than the life itself. Indoor plants, which are low maintenance, are more than perfect gift in today’s environment with keeping the air breathable. She will actually feel responsible for the little one and keep thinking of you while caring for it.

7. Dry Shampoo For A Quick Fix

Life today is a hurry-cane. Everyone is in hurry and hardly there is time to stop. In a fast life pace like now a days, quick care products are high in demand and a dry shampoo bottle will help your girl to match the swiftness of her lifestyle.

8. Stationary To Build Up Creativity

A creative soul is an alive one. If she likes to doodle or maintain a journal or is just a stationary hoarder like me, a colourful pen set or any stationary item will make her feel delighted for wee hours of the day.

If you have nothing else in mind, go ahead with these idea; they are surely to be a hit. After all, she is all yours to please and take care of.

Being Alone Is Better Than Being With Someone Whose Soul Is Not Aligned With Yours

By
Riley Cooper

I’m sure you already know someone who constantly goes in and out of relationships just for the sake of being in a relationship.

Unfortunately, we live in a culture in which it’s really difficult to stay single. While we’re all used to hearing things like: “You should wait for the right person,” it seems that not many people take these words of wisdom into consideration.

What everyone needs to know is that dating someone just for the sake of being in a relationship is nothing else but a waste of precious time.

As much as we fantasize about having an amazing, stable, fulfilling relationship and about being loved by the person that could be our perfect match, the truth is that these things don’t happen when we want, but in their own time.

No matter how much you love someone, you can’t turn him or her into your soulmate if they are not meant to be with you. No matter how bad you want some relationship of yours to last a lifetime, it doesn’t mean the person you love is bound to be with you forever.

You shouldn’t invest your time and energy in people who don’t belong in your life. You should never settle for someone who doesn’t bring out the best in you and help you grow.

You should not be afraid of being single or enter relationships out of boredom or loneliness.  

I know that many people have a hard time accepting what I’m going to say next, but sometimes being single is the best thing you can do for yourself.

Being single is not a bad or scary thing. Being single doesn’t mean you’re lonely or miserable. It doesn’t mean you’re unable to love and build meaningful, lasting relationships. Instead, it means you’re well aware that it’s always better to wait for the right person for you.

It means you understand that it’s always better being single than going in and out of relationships just for the sake of being in a relationship.

The time and energy you’d spend being in a relationship with a person who is not meant for you could be better spent with you doing the things you enjoy doing with people who fill you with happiness and give you a sense of fulfillment and peace.

You could spend that time reflecting on your feelings and thoughts, thinking about your priorities and goals in life and about what kind of partner is most suitable for you.

You could also spend that time on gaining new experiences, learning new things, connecting with your true self, or just pampering yourself.

When you choose to remain single over entering the wrong relationship means that you get to spend all your energy, love, and time on yourself instead of spending all that on a person who either doesn’t want that or doesn’t deserve it.

However, we all make this mistake over and over again. We all make the mistake of falling in love with toxic people. The manipulator, the emotional abuser, the immature, the egoist, the narcissist, the psychopath, and the list goes on. We somehow always manage to convince ourselves (and we allow the toxic person to convince us too) that he/she is the love of our life.

We tend to think that our search for ‘the one’ is finally over and we happily let them enter our lives. Of course, we end up with a broken heart and bruises on our soul that take a lot of time to heal. And the only reason we end up this way is that we fail to understand that true love is sacred and more precious than anything, and therefore more difficult to find.

Good and valuable things are hard to find. And to most people, it’s easier to start a relationship with some guy or woman they’ve been hanging out with at the bar or met at work than remain single until they find the right person.

To conclude, whether we lack patience or we fear that we’ll never find someone to create a life with, we make wrong choices and enter wrong relationships. Therefore, it’s important for all of us to remember that when it comes to true love, there’s no place for irrational experiments.

You need to remember that you deserve better. You need to treat yourself like the worthy person that you are and value your emotions more.

Don’t throw them around and waste your time trying to find your ‘perfect match,’ but remain single until you find the person with whom you’ll feel a deep emotional, mental, and spiritual connection.

Be single until you find someone whose soul is aligned with yours. Because only when you feel that someone’s soul reflects yours, will you be able to experience true, pure, deep kind of love. And that’s the kind of love worth waiting for a lifetime.

10 Reasons Why It’s Difficult For Most Men To Handle A Female Empath

By
Riley Cooper

Female empaths want to love and be loved. They crave pure, honest, deep, unconditional love – love that transcends all boundaries. They want to be with someone with whom they’ll be able to connect on a deep emotional, mental, and spiritual level. They want to be with someone with whom they’ll feel free to be themselves and who will want to get to know them down to the core.

A female empath would never settle for a mediocre or one-sided relationship. When this woman loves, she loves wholeheartedly and unconditionally. She gives her all to her man and ensures he knows how much he means to her.

It sounds like she is the perfect person to be with, right? Well, then, how come many female empaths have a hard time finding love? Or maybe the real question is: Why it’s so hard for most men to handle a female empath?

For some, it may be their oversensitive nature and for others, the complexity, intensity, and depth of their love. Irrespective of the reason, dating a female empath can be quite challenging for some men.

Here are 10 reasons why this is so:

1. She is intense.

Empaths create deep, meaningful connections with the people around them. Whether it’s their family, friends, co-workers, or partner, they always form deep, intense relationships with them. However, some men find this intensity overwhelming.

2. She’s too honest.

While most people tend to tell white lies from time to time and prefer to be lied to rather than to be told the harsh truth, a female empath will never tell lies.

This woman talks to her partner about pretty much everything. She is always open with him and never bothers to sugarcoat her words, no matter how hard or painful they might be to her partner.

A lot of men who are dating a female empath and don’t know how to deal with her honesty, unfortunately, leave the relationship.

3. With her, it’s all or nothing.

She wants her man to give her the same amount of attention, love, and appreciation she gives him. She’d never settle for being in a one-sided relationship.

She’d never be with someone who doesn’t invest himself fully in the relationship. Because when this woman loves, she loves with every part of her being and she requires her partner to love her in the same way.

4. She’s more independent than the average woman.

A female empath knows what she wants in life and how to get it. When she’s going through rough time, she doesn’t wait for her guy to solve her problems and make all her worries magically disappear. Instead, she does her best to find a way to deal with them on her own.

The fact that she doesn’t rely much on others for help sometimes makes her partner feel useless.

5. She can be quite persistent.

Once she sets her mind on something, she won’t stop until she gets it. She never quits. She’s a real fighter. Men who like to be the ones in control can’t handle this.

However, female empaths’ persistency can be a really good thing when it comes to their love life. When they like a guy, they go after him. They don’t wait for him to make the first move. And when they’re in a relationship with someone, they fight for him with every fiber of their being.

The guy who is already dating this kind of woman should know he’s lucky because she’ll never let go of him.

6. She guards her heart.

She’s been through many bad, toxic relationships and got her heart broken too many times. Therefore, she’s built high walls around her heart and it takes her time to open up about her feelings.

However, this doesn’t mean she’ll never be able to love again since only the man who will be patient with and kind to her will manage to break those walls and make her believe in love again.

7. She values consistency a lot.

A female empath wants to be with someone who is a man of integrity and always keeps his word. So, when her partner promises her something, he’s supposed to fulfill it. When he tells her that she means the world to him, he has to prove he truly means it and always behave that way.

Men who are fickle, irresponsible, and show their woman affection only once in a while can never stand a chance of being with a female empath.

8. She questions everything.

She never accepts things as they are. She always tries to find a deeper meaning behind everything. This habit of questioning everything is overwhelming for some men and they don’t know how to handle it.

9. She can see a person’s true personality and intentions.

Female empaths are able to sense other people’s feelings, energy, and thoughts. They can easily detect someone’s true intentions and they can spot lies from a mile.

So, if they notice that their partner is manipulating, lying to, or, let alone, cheating on them, they won’t hesitate to show him the door. Lying, selfish, dishonest people deserve no place in their lives.

10. She knows what she wants and doesn’t want.

A female empath knows what she wants in life and, most importantly, she knows what type of man she wants to be with. Love has burned her heart many times so she makes sure she stays away from immature, phony, manipulative, toxic people.

She knows how she deserves to be treated and she’d never let her guy play little mind games with her, take her for granted, or play with her feelings. Period.

10 Curious Facts About Coffee You Probably Didn’t Know

By
Ana Miller

For many people, coffee is something that they start their day off with so they can be as alert as possible for what they need to do. Some people like to drink coffee all day long. Whatever time they enjoy their coffee, it becomes second nature for them to do so. They do not have to be curious about why they like it because most coffee drinkers have been fans of this beverage for the majority of their lives.

Some People Are Curious About Coffee

There are all kinds of flavours of coffee that people can choose from like a vanilla cold brew coffee. They usually try several different ones before they settle on a favourite of theirs. Once they settle on a specific one, they will generally stick with it until they find something that tastes better to them.

Here Are 10 Curious Facts About Coffee

No matter why a person drinks coffee, they know that it has caffeine in it. This is why it makes them more alert than they would be if they didn’t drink it. Here are 10 curious facts that you might not know about coffee:

1. Seeds – Coffee beans are really seeds. They are the pits of berries found on the coffee plant. They call them beans because they resemble legumes.

2. Robusta and Arabica-Robusta and Arabica are the two types of coffee. Robusta has more caffeine in it. People that drink coffee a lot can tell the difference between the two kinds right away.

3. Brazil – Brazil is where the most coffee is grown. Second is Vietnam, they also produce quite a bit of coffee.

4. Two States – Only two states grow coffee plants in the US. They are California and Hawaii. This is because most coffee plants are grown near the equator because of the climate in those areas.

5. Most Expensive – According to Daily Cupo, the most expensive coffee that was sold went for $600 a pound. That is a lot of money for the taste of a favourite beverage.

6. Can Overdose – People can overdose on coffee. It would take about 30 cups in a short amount of time to do so. Most people would never consume that much coffee at any given time.

7. Long Life – Coffee drinkers live longer than people who do not drink this beverage. They tend to be healthier also. This gives coffee drinkers more reasons to enjoy it.

8. Starbucks – The Starbucks Corporation opens two stores per day. Their first store opened 47 years ago in Seattle. Now, there are stores all over the place that coffee drinkers can patronize when they want to. It is a popular place that is a common spot for coffee lovers to gravitate towards. Coffee drinkers can also take advantage of discounts that the chain provides for their customers.

9. Low in Calories – There is only one calorie per cup of black coffee. More calories add up with sugar and cream added to the mixture. If a person is watching their calorie intake, they should make sure that they drink it black.

10. Boston Tea Party – The Boston Tea Party popularized coffee in America. It was common to drink it during that time. Drinking Coffee is Common in America, many people drink coffee. They love how it tastes, and it makes them feel good. People have all kinds of choices for the types of coffee that they want to drink. It is a choice that they love to have.

Since many people are curious about coffee, they now know that it is healthy for them to drink it. Knowing this can give a person more reasons to add it to their shopping list on a regular basis. They should remember to take advantage of any savings they can come across when they are purchasing coffee. Coupons come in handy for coffee drinkers all over the globe, as well as special promotions and coffee clubs. Ordering a coffee in quantities can also bring in savings. In whatever ways people get their coffee, they will continue to enjoy it well into the future. It is a beverage that will not lose its popularity any time soon.

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