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Is Your Soul Exhausted? Here Are The Reasons For It And 5 Ways To Fix It

By
Riley Cooper
I Am Tired Of Everything

Soul tiredness is an inseparable part of the journey called life. It’s a part of our lives as we all go through difficulties, pains, and break downs.

We all have times in our lives when we’re feeling down in the dumps. Times when we’re feeling mentally and emotionally exhausted although the day has just started. Times when we’re feeling a strong, dire need for rest. Times when we simply stop loving the things which once used to fill our hearts with pure happiness and joy.

Well, this is exactly how you know that your soul is exhausted and needs to be healed. But, the main question is: What deprives your soul of its energy?

Here are 8 of the most common reasons behind soul tiredness:

1. Not practicing self-care and self-love

2. Not being sincere to yourself

3. Constantly feeling like you can’t achieve happiness because you’re missing something in your life

4. Allowing the burdens of your past to stand in the way to your happiness and success

5. Demotivating yourself

6. Having trouble saying NO

7. Participating in gossip and meaningless conversations

8. Surrounding yourself with individuals that are robbing you of your happiness and that aren’t encouraging you to work on and better yourself

Although the reasons mentioned above may appear irrelevant, know that they are worthy of attention. They’re not something you can easily get over, especially when you feel this way for such a long period of time that you get used to it.

Ignoring these “small” and “unimportant” issues can lead to more serious ones, such as anxiety and depression.

So, if any of the above-mentioned issues sound familiar to you, don’t ignore them and wait for your soul to mend by itself.

Here are 6 ways you can fix your soul on your own:

1. Practice positive self-talk.

Try to discover the hidden optimism, joy, and hope in any given situation. Think about and talk to yourself positively.  Make your inner dialogue to be more uplifting and stimulating.

2. Think positively about the world around you as well.

The world is full of beautiful things – you just need to be willing enough to see them.

3. Do things which bring happiness and a sense of fulfillment into your life.

Whether it’s reading books, watching movies, listening to music, walking in nature, cycling, spending time with your loved ones, or you name it, make sure you spend enough time doing it.

4. Begin practicing meditation.

Doing meditation exercises will not only bring peace to your mind and soul, but it’ll also help you explore the depths of your being. It’ll allow you to find out a lot of amazing things about yourself you didn’t know before.

5. Last but not least, love yourself.

Treat yourself with kindness, compassion, and patience. Treat yourself with respect and dignity. Take good care of yourself. And never settle for anything less than you deserve.

8 Red Flags You Are In A Relationship Which Is No Longer Worth Your Time And Energy

By
Riley Cooper

Let’s face it: It’s not difficult at all to stay in a relationship even when you feel in the depths of your being that it isn’t going to last forever. So, the question is: Why is this so?

The answer – at the beginning of your relationship, you tend to look at your partner’s weaknesses and imperfections through rose-tinted glasses. You too easily ignore any flaw you spot in your partner and the relationship as well, cherishing hopes that things will change and get better over time.

However, once you consider your relationship for all that it really is as well as isn’t, there’re some things which are simply too important and too serious to ignore.

Here are 8 telltale signs you are in a relationship which is wrong for you:

1. Your partner is constantly criticizing you.

Your significant other should be your biggest cheerleader, your best friend, and your partner in crime all rolled into one person.

So, if they make jokes at your expense, criticize you, and judge you when you make a mistake or fail to achieve a goal, instead of offering you moral support, comforting you, and cheering you up, then this is a red flag you are in a relationship with the wrong person.

2. You feel the need to change to make your significant other like you more.

Of course, there will always be something you and your partner don’t like about each other. But if your significant other makes you feel like you have to change so as to keep them happy and make them like you more, then you are undoubtedly in a relationship with the wrong person.

If you can’t be who you are when you’re around your partner and if you’re not accepted and cherished exactly the way you are, then what’s the point of staying in the relationship?

3. You’re in a relationship with your partner since you’re scared of being alone.

If you truly want to build a healthy, happy, and successful relationship, then you have to be honest with yourself. When you start dating someone, you always need to ask yourself whether you’re in a relationship with this person because they make you feel happy and emotionally and intellectually fulfilled or because you have simply grown comfortable being around them, or maybe even, you’re scared of rolling solo.

If your answer doesn’t include the first reason mentioned above, then you should consider doing both yourself and your partner favor and leave them.

4. You love more the image of who your significant other could be rather than who they truly are.

The truth is that when you’re head over heels in love with someone, it is easy to disregard any differences between you two and fantasize about who this person could be someday.

For instance, he/she’s not interested in having children now, but perhaps someday they are going to change their mind. Or yes, he/she has a tendency to leave their clothes scattered around the house, but perhaps someday they’ll become more organized.

Make sure you never fall into this trap. Yes, fantasy is better than reality, but the latter is the one you should live in and build your relationships.

5. You can’t remember the last time you and your partner laughed together.

This may appear like a small, unimportant problem, but if your significant other doesn’t find your jokes amusing and if they don’t laugh with you when you share funny or dirty jokes with them, it may be quite problematic.

The thing is that it’s not exciting at all being around someone that is always taking things too seriously or sulking, especially when you’re going through a rough phase in your life.

When you feel down in the dumps or when life tries to knock you down, you’ll need someone by your side who will cheer you up and help you face and overcome the punches more easily with their sense of humor.

6. Your goals aren’t compatible at all.

Of course, it’s impossible for two people to want the same things and have the same goals in life. But, when you’re genuinely in love with someone, you should know, respect, and believe in each other’s goals and dreams.

And when it comes to your relationship, both of you should want the same outcome, and that is to stay together and love each other forever.

7. You don’t really like your partner’s family or they don’t really like you.

If this sounds familiar to you, or even worse – if your significant other regularly takes his/her family’s side in misunderstandings and quarrels and if they don’t appear to stand up for you, then chances are you are in a relationship with the wrong person.  

What you should remember is that if your partner doesn’t seem to bother to help you get along with their family and if they appear to be more attached to their family than they’re to you, you’re definitely in a relationship which is wrong for you.

8. You find yourself wondering what your life would be like if you were alone again.

If you often find yourself thinking about whether you’d have been happier with your ex or whether you’d lead a more fulfilling life if you rolled solo again, then you either don’t love the person you’re with or you need to search for within yourself the reason why you are not content with what you already have.

Just ask yourself why you are searching for things outside of your relationship and once you figure out the answers, you can either decide to make things work between you and your partner again or leave them for good.

8 Reasons Why Teenagers Are Suffering From So Much Anxiety These Days

By
Riley Cooper

Anxiety is a widespread health problem among teenagers and due to certain cultural shifts and societal changes that have occurred over the past three decades, the number of teens that are struggling with anxiety appears to be increasing.

Some teenagers are absolute perfectionists and have a fear of failure. Other teens are concerned so much about the way they appear in the eyes of other people that they feel stressed on a daily basis.

So, why is this so? Why are more teens than ever struggling with anxiety?

Here are the reasons:

1. Our culture puts too much emphasis on happiness.

Our culture places such great stress on happiness that some parents believe that it is their duty to make their children feel happy 24/7. When a kid is down in the dumps, his or her parents cheer them up. Or when a child is angry, his/her parents calm them down.

This way, children grow up believing that if they’re not happy all the time, then something isn’t right. Not only does this idea arouse feelings of confusion, uncertainty and worry, but it also prevents children from understanding that it is healthy and normal to feel worried, disappointed, afraid, angry, and sad sometimes as well.  

2. Children aren’t learning how to manage their emotions.

Parents put such great stress on academic preparation that it seems they forget to teach children the emotional skills they need to take care of their feelings, manage stress, deal with uncomfortable, difficult situations, and of course, succeed in life.

3. Digital devices provide an unhealthy escape.

Computer games and social media let children escape negative emotions such as sadness, boredom, or loneliness. But, the thing is that using digital devices to avoid sadness or discomfort actually prevents children from developing the coping skills and mental strength they need to deal with everyday challenges.

4. Parents are showering children with unrealistic praise.

Telling a kid things like: “You are the most intelligent child in the class,” or “You are the best football player on the team,” doesn’t boost self-esteem. Instead, it places pressure on children to measure up to these labels. And more often than not, this can lead to great fear of failure.

5. Parents feel the need to protect their kids rather than guide them.

A lot of parents believe that their role is to ensure their children grow up and mature with as few physical, mental, and emotional scars as possible. They protect their kids so much that the latter hardly ever handle challenges on their own. As a result of this, these children grow up to believe that they are too weak to manage life by themselves.

6. Parents allow their own fears to affect the way they raise their kids.

Parenting creates fear and guilt. But, instead of allowing themselves to feel these uncomfortable emotions, a lot of parents are changing the way they raise their kids.

For example, they don’t let their children out since this triggers their anxiety. Or they’re overwhelmed by feelings of guilt saying no to their children so much that they allow them to do everything they want. As a result of this, they teach their children that uncomfortable feelings are unbearable.

7. Parents don’t know how to help children face their fears the proper way.

Some parents tend to force their kids to do things they’re afraid of. And other parents do not push their children at all. Such parents simply allow their children not to do anything that causes them to feel anxious or afraid.

Exposing a child to the thing he/she is afraid of is an effective coping strategy, but only when it is done gradually. Without proper guidance and practice, children never develop confidence that they can overcome their fears directly.

8. Children are not being given enough free time to play with other kids or on their own.

Whether kids play with their peers or alone, both unstructured and solitary play are important for them as they teach them how to be creative, think on their own, handle disagreements without the help of an adult, and of course, feel comfortable in their own skin.

Why There Is A Great Need For Grief And Loss Therapy

By
Elizabeth Williams

The greatest argument against grief and loss therapy today is that, if it wasn’t around decades ago, why would anyone need it today? This argument depends on the assumption that it was never needed before so shouldn’t be needed now. PTSD, or Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, has been dismissed by some for the same reason, but the thinking here is specious.

The idea that something like grief therapy is new is like saying that PTSD is new, but the truth is that it’s always been there just like grief. Soldiers who returned from World War I and II usually experienced what was then called “shell shock”, but that was rarely talked about, even amongst family members. The result was that veterans had terrible mental health issues because of that repression. Today, the world of psychiatry knows when people experience PTSD and they know how to treat it. It’s always been there, it was just under a different name and hidden from view.

The same thing is true of grief and loss therapy. Grief and loss were always there in the past, they were just repressed more often or kept out of view rather than appropriately dealt with, which also resulted in poor mental health for the people affected.

If there’s one thing that’s become clear in recent years is that not dealing with one’s own grief, especially when it involves losing someone, can result in serious mental, and even physical, consequences for the individual in question. Thankfully, the psychiatric world has recognized this and created grief therapy.

For some, the process of grief is something that everyone goes through and eventually, they move on. Here are the normal stages of grief:

First, people tend to go into denial over the loss of a loved one. This means that the first reaction to such a tragic event is to deny that it’s happening to the person at all. In other words, people will literally say something along the lines of “This isn’t happening to me.” This reaction is usually pretty brief and is a temporary coping mechanism for such a surge of emotion in a short period of time.

Next is a tendency to resort to anger. This is really the consequence of the feeling of not having any control over what has occurred. This can be one of the more dangerous stages of grief in just how it manifests itself.

Bargaining is the third stage of grief where people will try to make a deal with a higher power to “get them out” of their current circumstances. This can also involve people wondering what they could have done to have avoided the person’s death.

After bargaining comes depression. This is the most well known, and usually the longest stage of grief where a deep sadness takes hold of a person. There is no set rule as to exactly how long this stage of grief should last, but it can be weeks, months, and in some extreme cases, years. This is the stage where everyone knows what happens. There can be a lack of appetite, a lack of sleep, and a lot of tears.

Finally, most people then come to the final stage of grief where they accept what has happened and move on with their lives.

It is also this last stage of grief that can be the most difficult to achieve. Most people will go through the first few stages of grief fairly quickly, but it’s when people get into a lasting depression over the loss of a loved one that there can be serious consequences.

This is where depression can cause major problems in a person’s life. It can affect them physically because they can’t eat and/or can’t sleep. Their professional lives can suffer as well if they start missing work or are unable to concentrate on their jobs. Some people can even lose their jobs as a result of grief. Not only that, but people’s mental health can also begin to disintegrate if they don’t seek help for these extended periods of grief that don’t seem to stop.

This is where grief therapy becomes the most important tool for these people to use. When a person finds themselves unable to move on from a loss in their lives, they need outside help to guide them through the process of grief so that they too can move on to a happy, productive life.

There are a few different methods that therapists use, but many start with allowing the grieving person to simply talk about their loss and what they’re going through. It may appear to be a simple solution, but for many people just talking out their problems really helps.

The need for grief and loss therapy has become a major requirement and resource to people today and is something that the modern world can’t do without.

Health Benefits Of CBD Oil

By
Elizabeth Williams

Never has there been a more current and exciting addition to the world of health and wellness as CBD. The natural, plant-derived herb is being favoured by more people nowadays for its ability to treat a variety of ailments in humans and animals, including arthritis, anxiety and depression, and several neurological conditions.

Although many people choose to take CBD oil for medicinal purposes, there’s no reason why you can’t enjoy it purely for the health benefits it provides, as a daily supplement. If you’re interested to know exactly how CBD oil can be beneficial to your health and wellbeing, read on.

What is CBD oil?

Derived from the cannabis plant, CBD is a non-psychoactive compound that delivers all of marijuana’s beneficial properties without giving the user an unwanted high. CBD works by communicating with receptors in our endocannabinoid system, which trigger receptors all around the body to improve the functioning of everything from our brain cells to our immune systems.

CBD comes in many different forms, but CBD oil is one of the most popular, favoured for its versatility and accessibility in the market. Sometimes, CBD oil is infused into foods and drinks, known as edibles. It can be taken on its own, or you can add it to your own meals and snacks for a more subtle overall taste.

What are the health benefits of CBD oil?

Scientific research has only recently uncovered the main health benefits of CBD, and even today’s studies are revealing new remedial properties that the herb was previously not known to be linked to.  The most prominent health benefits of CBD are:

General pain relief

We all experience aches and pains from time to time, and taking CBD is an effective way to prevent soreness or stiffness from impacting on your overall wellbeing. Its proven anti-inflammatory properties make it ideal for treating muscle and joint pain linked to arthritis and other chronic pain disorders. 

Treats anxiety and stress

Stress is, unfortunately, a big part of life, and there’s normally no avoiding it. However, taking CBD can help you respond much more positively to stressful situations, and prevent you from letting something worry you to unnecessary levels. It reacts with the receptors in the brain and prevents them from associating with the stress hormone, cortisol, while encouraging them to respond to mood-boosting hormones like serotonin and endorphins.  

Fights nausea

Sickness and nausea are never nice to experience, and it can often be hard to successfully numb those sensations when they are present. Luckily, CBD has been found to naturally decrease nausea and vomiting, with studies finding that it can be effective in treating cancer patients who are suffering the unpleasant side-effects of chemotherapy.

Promotes better sleep

How much we do or don’t sleep on a daily basis can easily effect our health, not just our overall temperament- it has been found that a prolonged period of sleepless nights can lower your life expectancy and put you at risk of serious medical conditions, including obesity, heart disease and diabetes. The relaxation properties of CBD make it an effective remedy for sleeping problems, and can help to recover a natural sleeping pattern.

How to Make Your Bones Grow Healthier & Stronger?

By
Elizabeth Williams

The National Institute of Health which is a US-run agency that focuses on biomedical and public health issues, as well as research, proclaims that around 53 million people of the nation are either suffering from osteoporosis or likely to develop the risk of bone disease. This is due to the fact that in this current day and age we have chosen for ourselves an unhealthy lifestyle that deteriorates our bone health considerably. Poor diet & nutrition, sedentary lifestyles, and even our modes of entertainment are killing our bones without us even knowing about it. It is time that we wake up and realize how our bone health is being neglected and what can we do to prevent this from happening in the first place. So in this post, we would like to offer you some great suggestions that can help you regain your bone mass and continuously strive to achieve healthier bones in the future. Let’s begin:

Active Lifestyle

Binge-watching shows, spending hours and hours on social media, online gaming, internet surfing, and online video streaming have made our lives sedentary. All of this causes our bones and muscles to grow weaker with time. What we need is an active lifestyle that promotes physical excursions that can make our bones stronger. Here is what you can do to rectify the current problem:

  • Consider walking or using a bicycle to get to your place of work rather than using a mode of transportation that keeps you seated and immobile.
  • Develop a daily regimen that is built around everyday workouts or going to the gym.
  • Best exercises to promote stronger and healthier bones include yoga, tai-chi, dancing, jogging/running, hiking, and racket sports.

Super Foods for Stronger Bones

First thing first, the primary source of dealing with bone problems is correcting our diet and nutrition options. Junk food, fast food, hydrogenated oils, alcohol, tobacco, processed meat, inorganic edibles, and even caffeine are what cause our bones to become weaker at times. Hence to compensate for our past mistakes, let us actively work to create a diet that includes the following superfoods to help grow stronger and healthier bones:

  • Green and leafy vegetables preferably from an organic source such as broccoli, cabbage, okra, however spinach aren’t included since it is heavily endorsed with iron that blocks calcium absorption within the body. All of these organic vegetables offer you a good source of calcium that is required by our bodies to grow stronger bones.
  • Selected fishes including tuna, salmon, and sardines. Tuna offers you a good source of vitamin D, 3 ounces of canned tuna comprises of 154 IU which is about 39% of your daily requirement of the sunshine vitamin. Salmons have omega-3 fatty acids, plus 3 ounces of red salmon a.k.a. blueback or kokanee salmon offers you 100% of vitamin D that is essential for calcium absorption in our bodies. Sardines offer you both calcium and vitamin D at high levels. Try them out in pasta and salads. Even mackerels and pilchards are great for bones as they are great sources for vitamin D and calcium respectively.
  • Eggs and especially the yolk of theirs are rich in Vitamin D.
  • Dairy products such as cheese, milk, and yogurt. Cheese of just 1.5 ounces is more than enough to have 30% of your daily value of calcium so there is no need to eat it excessively. 8 ounces of fat-free milk does contain 90 calories but offers you 30% of your daily dose of calcium. Fortified milk is better since it adds in the benefits of vitamin D as well. Lastly, one cup of yogurt offers you 30% of your daily requirement of calcium with 20% of your daily requirement of vitamin D.

 Some Home Remedies for You to Try Out    

  • Avoid losing sleep, as a study suggest that men and women over the age of 50 years old become more prone to bone diseases if they slept less than 6 hours at night. As an adult, you require at least 7 to 8 hours of sleep every night.
  • Stock up on items in your cupboard such as beans, peanut butter, and vinegar. Beans are rich in minerals such as magnesium and help prevent osteoporosis. Similarly, 2 tablespoons of peanut butter offer you 50 mg of magnesium. Lastly, a splash of vinegar when cooking a soup or preparing a green salad is great for your bones.
  • Fruits like apple and bananas are also terrific when it comes to bone health. Apples have a trace of boron in them that holds calcium within the body. Bananas contribute to making your hips and spine bones to become stronger as they are rich in potassium and keep your blood clean.
  • Tofu is a great source of iron and calcium plus it doesn’t contain cholesterol which makes it an excellent delight for your homes. For vegans and vegetarians, it is a great source for healthy protein as well. Tofu contains isoflavones such as phytoestrogens that can offer you protection against cancer, heart diseases, and osteoporosis. Tofu is made from soybeans curd and is naturally gluten-free as well as low in calories. 122 grams of tofu offers you 421 mg of calcium, 65 mg of magnesium, 3.35 mg of iron, 282 mg of phosphorus, 178 mg of potassium, 2 mg of zinc, and 27 micrograms of folate & DFE.
  • Flowers like the Black Cohosh and the Red Clover. The Black Cohosh is commonly used to treat premenstrual syndrome, menopause, and painful menstruation, as well as acne. They are great for women going into the starting stages of labor as well. Red Clover, on the other hand, is a powerful herb with estrogen-like effects. Supplements of Red Clover can lower the chances of bone loss in women especially. However, one should completely avoid mixing them with prescribed medicine and always speak with a professional doctor before using them.

We hope this post was able to offer you some great insights as to how you can consciously make better decisions in your life to promote stronger and healthier bones. However if earlier problems persist and conditions prove to be unfavorable then it is best for you to contact chiropractic services immediately for help. For any further questions and queries regarding the topic, please feel free to let us know of your views and opinions in the comment section below.  

Everything you always wanted to know about the keto diet

By
Elizabeth Williams

“The keto diet seems to be en vogue these days.  I have heard of it often, but I am still not completely sure what it is exactly.”  Many people, maybe even you, have asked this question when the keto diet is mentioned to them.  This article will attempt to answer this question in sufficient enough detailed information by acting as a ketogenic diet guide for readers (and you) to make a solid decision regarding following the keto diet.

What is the keto diet

“Ok I have heard of this ‘keto diet,’ but what is it exactly?  I have not gotten comprehensive enough information to decide if it is worth it for me to follow it!”  If you are finding yourself saying this, it is likely because the media has not given you comprehensive enough information about the keto diet, let alone its benefits.  The first thing to know is that the keto diet is not new – it is almost 100 years old.  It has recently gained popularity largely because celebrities are embracing and endorsing it.  If you decide to follow the keto diet, you will be consuming foods which are primarily low in carbs and high in healthy fats.  Good examples of these types of foods are fish (high in omega3 fats), and beans (low in carbs).  The omega3 fats in fish are good for developing and repairing brain tissue and neuron connections. The fiber and low carbs in beans will help keep you regular while allowing your body to burn fat even as you eat.

Good examples of foods to eat when on the keto diet

You want to eat foods in the meat, fish, legumes, nuts, and vegetable groups.  Good examples would be salmon, chicken, almonds and walnuts, any kind of bean imaginable, and broccoli and avocados.  These foods are high in the good fats which your body needs to function at its best and repair body tissue.  The low carbs in these foods ensure that your body will be storing the vitamins and minerals present and not the calories.  Any kind of carb – complex or simple – is full of calories which your body will store as sugar.  This sugar is eventually converted into and stored as body fat.  This is why eating processed foods like cakes, white bread, and some canned foods makes you gain a great deal of weight in a relatively short period of time. These foods are full of simple and complex carbs.

What you may not have heard about the keto diet

You eat foods high in good fat when on the keto diet.  Your liver will break this fat down into a molecule called ketone which is full of energy.  This energy allows your body to function, sometimes on overdrive.  It also allows your body to burn fat even when you are reading a book in your recliner or when you are sleeping.  If you have type two diabetes or hypertension (high blood pressure) you should seek medical advice from a doctor before starting the keto diet.  Because the keto diet will alter the effects of the medicines you need to take for either condition, it may make taking these medicines entirely unnecessary for you with time.  You will, therefore, need to follow a trained physician to adjust your medications over the course of the keto diet.  Pregnant and nursing women should not follow this diet because it may deprive them of the nutrients they need to keep their babies healthy.

Now it’s time for you to decide

Now that you understand more about the keto diet, what to eat when on it, and how to follow it, it’s time to decide if it is the right diet for you!  Hopefully, you will decide that it is!

Should I Send a Gift? 6 Essential Tips About Wedding Etiquette

By
Elizabeth Williams

Whether you’re the bride or a guest, there are strict social rules when there is a wedding. Read on to learn all about wedding etiquette.

We hear wedding bells in the air! To engaged couples and their loved ones, that means a celebration is on the horizon.

As unfortunate as it is, a wedding is also full of opportunities to offend or fight with the people you love most. For couples and guests alike, those conflicts often start with mistakes you don’t know you’re making.

To help you make sure the next wedding on your calendar is a joyful occasion, follow these wedding etiquette tips for couples and guests.

  1. Handling Registry Information

A gift registry is a touchy part of the wedding process. They make life easier for couples and guests alike, but advertising them makes a couple look greedy. So what do you do?

If you’re the one getting married, don’t include your registry information on your wedding invitation.

After you register, spread to the word to your immediate family. This way, if anyone asks them where you’re registered, they can let them know. You can also include registry information on your wedding website.

If you’re a guest, don’t assume a couple doesn’t have a registry if it isn’t on their invitation. If the couple doesn’t have a wedding website, call the couple or call their parents if you’re closer to them.

  1. Accurate RSVPs

If you’re a wedding guest who has planned your own wedding or someone else’s wedding, you know how important numbers are. Extend the courtesy that your past guests may or may not have shown you: RSVP with care.

If you RSVP “yes,” set aside the date on your calendar and consider it a commitment. If something unavoidable arises and you can’t attend the wedding, tell the couple as soon as possible.

Both a last-minute “yes” and a last-minute “no” will cost the couple money and stress. If the RSVP deadline is drawing near and you don’t know if you can make it, talk to the couple and explain why. Let them know when you expect to have a definitive answer.

  1. Dietary Restrictions

Serving food is a customary part of any wedding, but that comes with complications including dietary restrictions.

If you’re an engaged couple, ask about dietary restrictions on your guests’ RSVP cards. Make sure you set the RSVP deadline early enough to make arrangements for those restrictions with your caterer.

If you’re following one of the popular wedding trends of serving food buffet-style, label all foods clearly with their dietary limits.

If you’re a guest who has a dietary restriction or allergy, let the couple know. Don’t assume they know or assume they’ll have options available. Planning a wedding is a complicated journey, so don’t assume your dietary needs are the couple’s top priority.

What do you do if you forget to tell the couple about your dietary needs? Don’t spring it on them at the last minute. Be prepared to choose from what is available and bring stacks in case you need to supplement your meal.

  1. Leaving Room for the Pros

When you’re a guest at a couple’s wedding, you’re just that: a guest. The couple invited you so you could enjoy their special day, not so you could document it for them.

Instead of trying to get pictures of all the special moments in the day, let the photographers and videographers do their job.

Snapping selfies during the reception is great. When it comes to the ceremony, sit back and relax so the photographers can get the best views possible.

  1. Save the Dates

As a couple planning a wedding, you know your loved ones have busy schedules. It’s traditional to send out invitations a month or two before the big day, but what if your guests need more time?

That’s why more and more guests are sending out “Save the Dates.” These are less formal than invitations and you can send them as soon as you confirm the wedding date.

Save the dates are especially helpful if many of your guests will need to travel to your wedding. They give the guests time to book flights, request time off work, or make other arrangements.

It’s also a good idea to send save the dates if your wedding will be during a busy part of the year like the summer or around the holidays.

Be sure to send your save the dates to everyone you will invite to your wedding: not just those who will be traveling. You don’t want any locals to hear about the save the dates and, if they don’t receive one, assume they won’t be invited to the wedding.

  1. Minding the Schedule

This one is for the guests and the couple alike: be on time.

If you’re a guest, remember that a wedding is a carefully planned event. The last thing you want to do is put a wrench in the festivities, so watch the time and be on schedule.

If you’re the couple getting married, remember that your guests are taking time out of their busy lives to celebrate with you. Respect that by starting your ceremony, reception, and other events on time.

It’s also a good idea to be clear about that schedule from the beginning. Tell guests how the day will proceed so they can plan accordingly if they need to.

This rule goes for all events associated with the wedding. We’re talking about the rehearsal, bridal shower, post-wedding brunch, and more.

Wedding Etiquette Basics

No one who’s preparing for a wedding expects it to cause a rift in a treasured relationship. It’s supposed to be a day for celebration and joy. Following the wedding etiquette tips above can make sure that’s the case.

Whether you’re a guest or an engaged couple, check out other articles on our site for more helpful tips and tricks.

 

Can Stress Make You Sick? Understanding the Physical Signs of Stress

By
Elizabeth Williams

Stress is something you feel all over your body, but can stress make you sick? Here’s what you need to know about the impact of stress on your body.

Did you know that 44% of Americans reported higher stress levels in the last five years? That includes children, too, with almost a third experiences physical results of that stress.

But can stress make you sick? Read on to learn about the relationship between stress and illness.

Can Stress Make You Sick?

Some stress can, but some stress is good for you.

There are two main types of stress: acute and chronic stress. There are also two sub-types of stress: eustress and distress. It is important to understand each type of stress and its impact on your health.

Types of Stress

Acute stress is a typical fight or flight response.

Your response, for example, when a fire alarm goes off. Your heart rate increases and your metabolism increases. Typically, the effects of this response go away after about an hour and a half. 

Chronic stress is the stress we experience on a regular basis. This is the stress we often discount as just life. This stress, left unchecked, can have a negative impact on your health.

There are two other sub-types of stress. Eustress is the stress of daily life that is positive, such as having a baby. Distress is the stress of daily life that is negative, such as divorce or an injury.

Signs and Symptoms of Stress

Below are some things that may indicate that you are experiencing chronic stress that is affecting your health. 

Acne

If you experience a sudden appearance of acne, this can be a sign of stress.

It is a combination of your body’s physical response, but individuals who are stressed often touch their face, too. This touching tends to spread the bacteria found in acne.

Headaches

Often times, a stressful event will precede a headache. If you notice that you are experiencing more frequent headaches, start a journal—you may just notice that stress is the culprit. 

Frequent Sickness

Stress can lower your immune function. Frequent colds and illnesses are often the first sign of chronic stress.  

Difficulty Sleeping or Grinding Your Teeth 

It is easy to identify chronic stress as the cause of your sleepless nights. The challenge is that lack of sleep causes chronic fatigue and increases your stress levels. 

If you wake up with tooth or jaw pain, chronic stress may also be the cause. If you do find yourself grinding your teeth, a Brux Teeth Grinding Night Guard will protect your teeth as you work to resolve the stress itself. 

Depression

Stress and depression are also linked. If you are constantly feeling overwhelmed, this can lead to symptoms of mild or moderate depression.

What’s Next?

Can stress make you sick?

Yes, but you can learn to manage the stress and work to improve your overall health. If you take time to learn self-care, such as meditation, you can learn to better respond to the stress you experience.

If you are curious about other ways to manage stress or improve your life, then the Curious Mind Magazine will not only inspire you but also offer other suggestions on life improvement. 

 

Zodiac Love Facts 101: What Your Sign Says About Your Love Life

By
Elizabeth Williams

Our horoscopes speak a lot about our lives, particularly our love lives. Discover right here what your sign says about your love life.

Love and romance may end up as a battlefield with a lot of factors involved. There are a lot of variables that come to play. If you put it in that perspective, it helps when you know what you are up against.

Your signs can help in this matter. As they shed light into what you are as a person and how it interacts with the other signs and the heavens. 

Those born in cusps have a complicated situation, being born in between two signs. If you don’t know what that means or what your zodiac signifies, the following will show what your sign says about your love life.

Gemini

Communication and charm are your great points. It is because of you being social that you also approach people. Great conversationalists and people with quick wit attract your attention.

You also have a knack at analyzing everything that happens. You might end up overthinking things. Which may end up being a stressful thing for you and your love interest. 

Consider a productive distraction to help you refocus your energy and attention. You might find up reconnecting and rediscovering your lover in the process.

You can check out more on your Gemini love horoscope for an in-depth look.

Libra

Connection and social relationships are your strong points. This brings about opportunities for possible romantic relationships, surrounded by friends and other people.

The idea of love excites you. You are at your happiest when in love.

You become sensitive and sweet to your partners. As well as being stalwart with your commitments.

Though the downside is your avoidance of confrontation. Consider adding a bit of logic in your partner choices, and also listen to your friends.

Aquarius

You can be quirky and nothing short of being a visionary. You can come off as mysterious and alluring due to how careful you are with showing deep feelings. This attracts people to you, all curious of what lies behind your expression.

Your strength rises in being a problem-solver in your relationships. The capability to run things in your head without emotion allows for excellent decisions. Though you might seem unsympathetic.

If you like someone, make efforts to share some of your feelings. This is the time you take the risk to let you gain a deeper connection with someone.

Taurus

You can be a physically affectionate person. Something that you can use to make your partner feel loved and cared for. This works to your advantage when your partner is also just as tactile in showing affection.

You can also be luxurious and extravagant when it comes to material things. You also exude sensuality, making you highly appealing. You can easily jump into the relationship when you find someone without being afraid of commitments.

You may end up having this tendency of being a bit clingy. Take your time to let your partner ease in.

Virgo

You have traits that make you one of the best partners anyone could have. Being laid-back in love and not making unreasonable demands to your partner. 

Put those traits and with a logical mind into the mix. These help in resolving conflicts without erupting into fights.

Your sensitivity to your partner’s needs also acts as a boon to your relationship. While appearing as closed off to others when it comes to emotions, you go all out when you pursue romantic attractions. 

Capricorn

You have high standards when it comes to your love life. Winning your heart would require giving you precisely what you want. This capability of identifying your needs can work as an asset for you.

You also have patience and you can be rather steady as well. This helps when you are in a relationship, being able to negotiate and not throw a fit.

While your high standards can make you seem inflexible, your patience lets you opt for waiting on the right person to come along. Consider giving one or two dates then gauge from there.

Aries

Energetic and impulsive, you move on instinct when it comes to love. Independence and strong-mindedness are also your hallmarks, making you the person that keeps their hobbies even after finding someone to date. This provides no compromise with how you want to live. 

This lets you move on past rejection. You are also alright with the prospect of being perpetually single. As for facing problems, you tackle it head-on and swiftly. 

Having a like-minded partner can spell harmony for your love life. This means you don’t trample on each other’s freedoms. 

Leo

You enjoy being the center of attention, especially to your lover. You’re the type of person who needs to know what your sign says about your love life.

The attention and affirmation they give you stand as highlights for your relationship. You have the charisma and confidence to approach someone you’re interested in, taking the opportunity when it shows up.

Take pride in being a genuine romantic. But also know that you gain respect by giving respect.

Sagittarius

Craving for new experiences carries over to all aspects of your life. This includes your love life. You aim for a dynamic and as such, you also desire freedom.

You have the capability to leave a relationship without any hesitation if it isn’t working. But when you have found love, you would know.

You also value freedom, independence, and honesty. Finding these qualities in a person draws you closer, making them the ideal partner. 

Cancer

Mature in the realm of emotions, you also bear a caring instinct. This makes you a wonderful partner and you have the potential of being a good parent. Due to this nature, you build a nurturing atmosphere for yourself and your partner.

When your partner tells you something, check what they really mean before assuming the existence of a veiled insult. Also, while you have a caring nature, be wary of those who would take advantage of it.

You have the disposition fitting of starting a family.

Scorpio

You tend to be wary and cautious, ensuring that no one takes advantage of you. You can spot an insincere person even from afar, making sure they do not win your heart.

Though this form of cynicism keeps people away, know that a lot of individuals out there have a good heart. Consider making the first move towards your love interest.

When you do get to a romantic relationship, you bring wonders to your partner. You always find something to please your lover. Or even find the source of the conflict and be able to stop it there.

Pisces

Compassionate and humble, you do everything you can to make your partner happy. You also have the empathy to understand your partner. When it comes to attracting or courting your partner, sensitivity becomes your asset.

You may also come off as selfless, but be wary that your good nature may end up abused. Look for someone who cherishes you. Also, learn to defend yourself when someone disrespects you.

Know What Your Sign Says About Your Love Life

Once you know what your sign says about your love life, you have an idea of what you should do and improve. Consider learning more of your signs and from there, make use of your strengths to improve on your romance.

Did you find this useful? We also have other guides and tips that you can check out today.

 

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