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Why Modern Dating Makes Me Want To Give Up On Everything And Leave For Good

By
Stephanie Reeds

Let’s face it. We’re living in a world of a sick dating culture.

Modern dating requires you to master the art of seducing someone without letting them know you really feel because god forbid someone actually cracks the code and find out that you’re attracted to them.

We’re existing in a society where emotions are underrated, and people are constantly taken for granted. A cruel and ignorant place where pretending to be something you’re not, instead of being yourself is likely to get more people to love you.

Everywhere I turn, there are thousands of confused people wondering whether someone wants to date them or not, contemplating perplexing text messages or Instagram stories, and figuring out just how subtle should their next move be.

Hello, it is time to wake up!

We are the generation of emotionally handicapped people.

And, I’m sorry, but I don’t want to be a part of this wretched, depressed world anymore!

I’ve been around enough to realize that we cannot keep doing this if we want to grow. We simply cannot allow ourselves to drown in the ocean of apathy.

While I was taken, I couldn’t help but wonder why everyone around me complained about the struggle of finding the real thing. I just couldn’t believe it was that hard to come across someone who will be worth it. If I could have found a loving and caring partner, everyone could.

But, it was not until I got out of my relationship that I actually realized how twisted modern dating is. I had to fully experience the chronicles of single life to realize that it is freaking minefield out there.

People are too afraid to accept what they feel. They are terrified to show how they feel. They act like they don’t care in order to make people more interested in them. Every conversation must consist of carefully chosen words indicating that you’re okay with something, even if you’re not. Oh, be careful with that. Someone might find out that you actually have a heart.

Texting is the new way of communicating. But still, you cannot let yourself cross the line of neediness. If you were the one who texted the last time, that means this time you have to wait for them to text you first. Phone calls? If you want to hang out with someone, it’s better to wait for them to set a date, otherwise, you’ll seem too interested, borderline overly attached.

People don’t dare to ask where their relationships are going, for asking would only indicate that they’re needy. They suppress their anger, they bottle up their feelings, they lock all of their emotions in a box and throw the key away. Everything is better when it’s labeled as casual. Oh, you spent a nice evening having dinner and then you made love? It’s time to ignore them for days and make them wonder if you even care for them. That will do trick!

Well, I’ve had it! To hell with this sickness!

If I want to meet someone, I won’t be afraid to approach them and introduce myself. If I like someone, I will hang out with them. If I care about a person, I will let them know how much I love them. If someone inspires me, I’ll tell them. If I someone hurts me, I’ll leave them. If someone makes me angry, I will fight them, even if that makes me look a crazy bitch.

Why would showing those genuine emotions make me overly attached, needy, weird or naive when I am just being myself?

I refuse to stand idly by and let someone define my life for me. I will never let anyone have that power over me. In fact, we should never let others control our feelings. I’m tired of fighting for someone to love me and forcing someone to show me what they really feel. I’m tired of living in a world where indifference is a major turn on, and honesty is something we try to avoid at all cost.

Let’s just stop acting like little sissies. Let’s start behaving as normal human beings should behave. Let’s open our hearts and let our emotions show us the real way.

If someone makes you happy, tell them. If someone makes you frustrated, for the love of god, tell them. If you are not interested in a serious relationship, don’t string people along. Respect everyone around you enough to tell them the truth, no matter how bitter it is.

We’re all trying to make it here. We’re all imperfect humans who are fighting the same battle. So please, cut the crap and go straight to your point. Learn to treat people the way you want to be treated.

When A Strong Woman Decides To Say Goodbye, She’s Gone Forever

By
Stephanie Reeds

A strong woman will be your support. She will hold your hand tightly and run through the hailstorm. She will endure the hardest tests that life is giving her. She will embrace every obstacle as a way to learn a new lesson. She will give herself completely to you.

She will believe in you, especially when you find it hard to believe in yourself. She will accept every part of your flawed self, just because she loves you more than words can say. She will go out of her way to be there for you… but, only if she’s certain that your feelings about her are real.

Once a strong woman realizes that she has been wasting her time with the wrong person, she’ll be gone forever. She will leave, and you will never find a way to bring her back.

You see, a woman in love will be your everything. She will give both her heart and soul to you as long as she knows that your feelings are mutual. But, once she sees that she’s wasting her love on someone who simply isn’t worth it, she will leave in the blink of an eye.

You may think that she’s going to regret her decision, cry her heart out, beg you to come back, and blame herself for making a mistake, but you’ll be terribly wrong.

Because a strong woman says her goodbyes in her own unique way.

She is the kind of woman who won’t waste her tears on something she decided to put an end to. If she already made a decision to let you go, she must have had a pretty good reason to do so. She must have felt that there’s nothing left for her in this relationship.

Be advised. A strong woman won’t have a hard time abandoning someone or something that hurts her. She will appreciate the good moments, the love you’ve given her and the lesson’s you’ve taught her, but once she’s finally ready to say goodbye, you won’t be able to stop her.

I am not saying that it won’t be heavy on her heart, but she will find a way to find her find herself and get back on her feet. She will survive without you, trust me.

She’s bold and fearless when it comes to her own happiness. She knows that wherever life takes her, and no matter how hard hits her, she will be strong enough to survive the storm, and she will be brave enough to let her heart feel again.

A strong woman won’t mourn her loss of you, she won’t let her disappointment get to her. Instead, she will rise up like the sun and she will try her best to keep moving forward.

She won’t let her pain weigh her heart down. On the contrary, she will use her disappointment as a motivation to grow stronger than she was and learn the most valuable lessons that life gave her.

One thing is definite. When a strong woman decides to bid farewell to you, she is gone forever.

Either Choose Him Everyday Or Let Him Go Forever

By
Riley Cooper

I spent 4 years emotionally torturing a good man by staying with him and telling him I love you, but never fully choosing him.

And what exactly is choosing about?

Choosing is about telling yourself why you’re with him/her currently, what made you fall in love with in the first place and why is it that you can’t even imagine the two of you not being together.

Choosing is about knowing that whatever problems and pain you’re going through, you’ll always have that one person to rely on.

Choosing is what tells you that you love to have the person you’re with by your side. That you love their face to be the first thing you see in the morning and the last one before you go to sleep.

Choosing is about loving someone and about never stopping irrespective of how many years pass.

But I wasn’t aware of this then.

But you know, I really wanted to be with him. He possessed all the qualities I’ve always looked for in a man. He was smart, beautiful, and with a great sense of humor. He was kind, compassionate, and patient. He treated me with lots of love, affection, and respect.

He could make my eyes beam with happiness and my entire body tremble at his touch. When he looked at me, my heart filled with warmth and joy I can find no words to explain.

He was all I needed.

And I loved him. Oh, I loved him intensely. But…

Well, you know, when you’re young and not that experienced, you don’t know how to love truly and properly. When you’re young, you easily get tired of things or even people. And that was my fault.

I didn’t know how to love him the right way. I acted immaturely. Although I knew what a brilliant, loving, and devoted man he was, I would often think to myself if there was another man out there who would love me better and who would be easier to love as well. And as time passed and that thought ran more and more through my head, I started to appreciate him less and less.

I chose him less and less. I stayed with him, but I didn’t choose him every day. It was a torture for both of us.

And not choosing him turned into my habit and I wasn’t even aware of it.

Instead of focusing on his virtues and merits, I only saw his weaknesses and faults. I saw his insecurities, fears, demands, jealousy, anger. And the more I focused on his bad sides, the more I saw of them and the more the gap between us widened.

And choosing him would have meant focusing and appreciating all his qualities that were the greatest gifts someone has ever given to me: his kindness and compassion, his laughter and sense of humor, his passion and comforting hugs, his companionship and loyalty.

But I wasn’t grateful for these gifts. I let his bad sides outweigh the good ones and the latter were greater in number and more important. But, I was blind, I was stupid for not seeing that.

And now I realize, however, that he was angry because he felt I wasn’t choosing him. He felt that in my words and actions. He feared I would abandon him.

In fact, that’s exactly what I did. I abandoned him by not fully choosing him every day for four years and by focusing on his faults rather than on what I loved about him.

I abandoned him in countless ways. I made the relationship a torture for both of us.

But I promised myself that I’ll never make the same mistake again. When I fall in love with another man, I’ll choose him every day.

And you, if you’re in a relationship, please, make sure you don’t make the mistake I made. I suggest you ask yourself why you’re choosing him/her. If you can’t find a satisfactory answer right away, wait. Don’t make hasty decisions. Dig deeper inside.

Ask yourself the same question again the following day. And if too many days pass and you still can’t tell why you’re choosing him/her then you know what you have to do – let them go!

Let them go and create an opportunity for another person to appear and see them with a yearning heart. Show them that you’re willing to put in the effort and maintain the relationship.

Choose them enthusiastically every single day because they deserve it. You deserve the same as well.

7 Things You Don’t Realize You’re Doing Because You’re An Overthinker

By
Riley Cooper

We all tend to overthink from time to time and that’s normal. But for those who tend to overanalyze everything on a daily basis, overthinking is not an experience that comes and goes occasionally, it’s just how their mind works.

Overthinking isn’t just asking yourself whether you left the stove on. It’s constantly overanalyzing your every thought, action, and decision. It’s constantly overthinking even minor worries and problems. It’s creating fantastical hypothetical scenarios in your mind, and sometimes, even getting lost in them.

Overthinking takes a lot of time and energy and it can be quite exhausting struggling with all those racing thoughts that refuse to allow your mind to rest.

On one hand, overthinking is a good thing because it enables you to analyze situations from all aspects and solve problems more quickly and easily. On the other hand, it can be a problem if you are not aware you’re an overthinker because this will prevent you from controlling your racing thoughts.

As a result, this can affect your ability to be productive at work, to maintain healthy, meaningful relationships, and to take care of your overall health.  

If you’ve always had a feeling that there’s something off about the way you think and analyze situations, but haven’t been able to pinpoint the cause, chances are you’re not aware that you belong in the group of overthinkers. So what exactly makes a person an overthinker?

Here are 7 things you’re doing that show you’re an overthinker:

1. You seek meaning in everything.

If someone takes an hour to reply to your message, you start creating thousands of scenarios in your head about the reasons. Or if someone makes eye contact with you in the restaurant, again, you can’t stop thinking about it. No matter what someone does, you always think there’s a hidden meaning behind their actions.

It can be quite exhausting running through all those “WHY” questions in your mind. So, why don’t you just let things be as they are? Not all things have to be complex and some simply happen on a surface level. But, no, you’ll do your best to find some meaning behind them, won’t you?

2. Solving problems makes you feel thrilled.

It’s not overthinking that makes you feel excited, but the moment when you reach a solution to a certain problem. For example, maybe you’ve been stressing over some problem at your work and when the most appropriate solution hits you out of the blue, you feel like you could jump over the moon.

Once you solve one problem, it doesn’t take you too long before you move on to the next one. You analyze the problem from every possible aspect and use all your knowledge and experience to solve it.  

3. You’re thinking more and doing less.

It takes you so much time and energy to make decisions and choices that you end up doing nothing. You tend to weigh your options and feel the need to think about every possible thing that could go wrong.

And even when you decide what the best choice or outcome might be, then you start comparing that outcome with another one which, in your view, might also be the best one.

But how about taking just one option and testing it out so as to see if it’s the right one? Remember, thinking is important, but so is putting your thoughts into action.

4. You analyze everyone.

You love analyzing people because you want to uncover the secrets that lie behind their façade. You want to know what the purpose of their life is and what defines and inspires them.

Therefore, you analyze the things people do and the way they behave and treat others and try to find the reasons behind this.

5. You have an insatiable thirst for new information.

Your curious mind always makes you want to learn something new. Once you hear a bit of new information, you feel an intense need to learn everything about it.

With each new day, you have a new opportunity to learn new, interesting information about whatever topic you’re interested in. Whether it’s through books, or online, or talking with others, you make sure you use every opportunity to satisfy your thirst for knowledge.

6. You can’t stand small talk.

Talking about ordinary, unimportant things, such as the weather, or what someone had for lunch or how they’re going to spend the next weekend is out of the question. If a topic is not intellectually stimulating and interesting, you don’t engage in the conversation.

Talking about superficial things is useless and a complete waste of time. You don’t care about how someone spent his or her day. What interests you is the purpose of their life, what inspires them, and the reasons why they do what they do.

It’s having meaningful, deep conversations that makes you feel satisfied and keep your attention.

7. You like doing things that calm your mind.

Struggling with all those racing thoughts and questions can be really draining, which is why you enjoy activities that help you relax and focus on other things rather than thinking.

Jogging, doing exercises, meditating, writing, practicing your favorite hobbies, or just going for a walk are some of the activities that prevent you from thinking and they also help you restore your peace of mind and recharge your batteries.

Don’t Be Afraid To Fail – Failure Is The Biggest Stepping Stone To Success

By
Stephanie Reeds

“What if I fail?” – The most common, the most painful and the most terrifying question that has ever crossed the mind of every living being.

If there’s something we’re the most terrified of, that’s failure, for sure.

People are afraid to fail. It is the truth.

They’re afraid to make a mistake. They’re afraid of what others might think about them. Even worse, they’re afraid of what others might say behind their backs.

They are afraid to be different. They are afraid to get out of the closet. They are afraid to confront the possible risk of not succeeding. They are afraid to stand up and go confidently in the direction of their dreams.

They stop short of realizing their visions, or they don’t even take action in the first place. Because somehow the accent is always put on what would others say, instead of what would we eventually learn from our mistakes.

And it is exactly those insecurities that make people paralyzed. It is the daunting fear of not having the strength to endure the pain of failing that eventually makes their worst nightmares come true.

Little do they know that… Failure is and will always be the best teacher.

I know that this is a cliché thing to say, but it is true.

The main factor that separates the entrepreneurs, geniuses and business magnates from everyone else is not just talent. It’s not just work ethic. A lot of people work hard. It’s not better life opportunities or better training either.

The essential difference that determines how successful you will be in life is FAILURE.

Yes, you read it right.

How you handle your mistakes, setbacks, downs, and failures will eventually determine your journey. Your behavior will determine whether you’ll end up gobbling with the chickens or soar with the mighty eagles.

Failure is the mother of success. It is the stepping stone to your desired goal. It is what crush us, but at the same time makes us ten times stronger than before.

Every single one of us has heard that “you learn from your mistakes”. We’re well aware of that. Intellectually, we understand it. We constantly write it, advice others with it, share it as a motivation, but when it comes to helping ourselves, we suddenly go mute.

Why is it that we cannot emotionally comprehend that failure is not embarrassing or scary, but rather it is what makes us stronger in the long run?

Instead of dreading failure, we need to welcome it as a chariot that arrives to take us to our wildest dreams. Failure is an integral part of our lives. Without it, we could never learn the most important lessons out there.

Think of it like a delayed success. Like a feedback. Failure is painful, but at the same time it also provides us with the essential information about where we did wrong and what can we do to correct ourselves for the next time.

This is why we shouldn’t be afraid to fail. Failure shouldn’t be dreaded, nor avoided. We should be curious about it. We should pick it up, no matter how ugly it looks, and we should carefully analyze it.

We should find a way to understand the reasons for our setbacks.

What part of our plan didn’t work out, how can we better ourselves and what can we change to make things work the next time we try?  

Failure shouldn’t scare you. It should motivate you to stand up and continue fighting.

So, don’t go hard on yourself. Don’t be afraid to fail. Don’t be embarrassed to speak up even if you don’t know what you’re going to say. Don’t get angry for messing things up.

Pick yourself up and keep going!

Women and sleep: 8 simple steps to a better night’s rest

By
Elizabeth Williams

A comfortable sleep is a must not only for a healthy skin but also for healthy mind and soul. Poor sleeping pattern and sleep hours have an adverse effect on an entire day and your energy.  A study reveals that women need to sleep for more hours than men but the unfortunate truth is that most of the women tend to ignore this fact and have lesser sleep hours. It not only affects their health but also leaves them exhausted and frustrated.

At Verisana they provide various tips and suggestion that is aimed at improving the health condition. Better living is based on good health and sound sleep is a must for it. Sleeping has a direct impact on physical and mental health and so here are some tips that will help you have a better sleep. We bring you the following tips for women to follow, these tips will help in setting the right sleep pattern and cycle which will make you feel relaxed and wake up afresh every day.

  • Make sure you maintain a sleeping cycle– Its true that an adult must have proper 7-8 hours of sleep, but setting a sleeping cycle makes sure that you will have a sound sleep. For example, you must go to bed the same time every day. let’s say if you want to sleep for 8 hours then you must go to bed at 10 PM and wake up by 6 AM. Following this routine, every day will help you maintain a healthy sleeping cycle.
  • Get rid of mobile and wi-fi- Well, mobile phones and social media have become an addiction. People often tend to indulge in social media especially before they go to sleep. In order to have a good sleep its important that one must banish television, smartphone, computer or tablets an hour before sleeping. It helps to keep your mind cool and also relax. You may choose some relaxing recovery software to get rid of the tension of important documents and have a sound sleep.
  • Hot water bath– Ladies you have been working day in and day out. After such a tiring routine, having a hot water bath will help your body relax and will make you feel refreshed. Moreover, it helps you sleep better.
  • Avoid caffeine– Most of us have the habit of consuming coffee or tea after dinner. Well, caffeine is the biggest hinderer of sleep. So, if you want to have a good night sleep make sure that you avoid caffeine or reduce the caffeine consumption. Alcohol might act as a sedative but at the same time, it doesn’t guarantee a good sleep.
  • Exercise– Health is Wealth and for ladies, it becomes even more important. Exercise not only improves physical health but at the same it also helps the heart to pump more oxygen which eventually enhances body metabolism and helps the muscles to relax. Thus, if you are willing to have a good sleep make sure that you exercise as it acts as a short-term stimulant.
  • Sleep only when necessary- Sleeping in the afternoon can act a supplement to your sleep missed at night. But these naps in the afternoon can adversely affect your sleeping pattern. If you feel like sleeping in the daytime, then you must restrict it to 20-30 minutes in the day or a maximum of an hour.
  • Relaxation technique for better sleep- Apart from exercising you can also practice relaxation technique to make you sleep better. Follow deep creating. For this, you need to close your eyes and take a deep breath. Keep on doing this till your mind relaxes. You can also meditate an hour before sleeping. For example, you can create a small space in your house where you can sit and meditate in peace and silence. It helps you relax and sleep better.
  • Create a perfect sleeping ecosystem– A comfortable bed and good lighting arrangement ensure that you have the right sleeping ecosystem. You can also have a light music that helps your mind and body relax. Music plays an important role in relaxation and introducing positive vibes. So make sure that you have the right ambience in your room. Changing the colour of your room to soothing pastel shades also helps in creating a peaceful ambience. Lighting should not be too bright, add incense diffuser, make use of lavender oil, it works as a sleep stimulant and stress-reliever. Adding all these elements to your room creates a perfect ecosystem for sleeping.
  • Keep your bed comfortable and change sheets before you sleep– Adding new bed sheet before you go to sleep. Make sure that you slip in the right clothes and your bed should be comfortable so that you get a sound sleep.

Following these tips on a regular basis makes sure that your sleeping pattern is healthy and also in sync with your daily work. You can find more such health-related tips and suggestions at Verisana.

What You Must Know about Choosing the Right Coffee Enema Kit

By
Elizabeth Williams

Are you looking to start taking coffee enemas in a bid to improve and maintain your health? If so, then you would want to pay attention to using the right tools and ingredients for the treatment. After all, you will use it to inject a caffeinated solution straight into your colon, so you have to be more discerning with the enema equipment and supplies that you use.

In this post, we go over some suggestions that people can reference when shopping for enema tools. Such information can be helpful especially if you are new to coffee enemas.

What benefits does a coffee enema have to offer?

Before you even think about buying your first enema kit, it is essential to learn as much as you can about the treatment first. Know just what to expect from the procedure and choose the equipment and supplies that will deliver the results you seek.

Consider the following benefits when you start taking coffee enemas at home:

  • Detoxing with coffee reinforces the colon by eliminating pollutants and toxin deposits that have accumulated over the years.
  • Regular enemas can help you lose weight almost instantly by eliminating traces of waste and faecal matter in the liver and colon. More importantly, enemas also help the body to shed more kilos by easing the strain on the digestive processes.
  • Enemas offer a natural way to relieve constipation and other digestive problems.
  • People struggling with cancer and other debilitating diseases can take regular enemas to detoxify their body which helps eases symptoms and paves the way for recovery.

A few tips to keep in mind when picking your first enema kit

Choose  Coffee enema kits  that have everything you need in one package. While you can always purchase your enema equipment and supplies separately, doing so is not a good experience for first-time users. Hence it is better to opt for an organised set of equipment and supplies that you know works well together and gives you good results from the treatment.

A basic coffee enema kit consists of an enema bag or container, nozzle, tubing, and clamp. There are coffee enema sets that include one pack of ground coffee for beginners or provide instructions on how you can make your own.

A full coffee enema treatment will require about five litres of caffeinated solution. Thus you need to choose an enema bag that can accommodate that much and perhaps more. This way, you will not have to purchase another enema bag should you decide to use more in the future.

Regardless of what Enema kits you choose, it is essential to take steps to maintain them in a reasonable and sterile condition. For one thing, always keep your enema kit in a dry place away from humidity. You would also want to make sure that you wash and sterilise everything after every use.

Last but not the least, make sure that you are using organic coffee beans for your coffee enema. Keep in mind that regular coffee often contains additives that will only cause more harm than good and will keep you from achieving the desired results.

So there you have it — a few important factors to keep in mind before buying your first coffee enema kit. Considering the many options available in the market, it would be helpful to know just what to look out for in the selection process.

I Am A Proud Feminist, But I Will Always Cherish These Old Fashioned Habits

By
Stephanie Reeds

I am a proud feminist. I stand for women’s rights. I am an independent woman who knows how to take care of herself and doesn’t need saving. But, when it comes to love and dating, I am a total sucker for those old-fashioned dating traditions.

I want to experience love in its purest form. I love men who can proudly show their intentions. But, most of all, I genuinely respect people who are not afraid to open their hearts and go the extra mile for the one they love.

I know. We’re living in a modern-dating society of the 21st century where romance is slowly fading away. People barely have any manners left.

But, why should that stop me from respecting the real values and searching for the real thing?

Here are some old-fashioned dating habits that make my heart go crazy:

1.BEING PICKED UP FOR A DATE

I’m perfectly capable of walking or driving up to the place that I am meeting my date, but there’s something truly irresistible and thoughtful in being picked up for a date. You have to admit it. It’s a sweet gesture that shows a great deal of respect and care.

2. BEING WALKED TO HOME

There’s nothing more beautiful than dating a guy who is thrilled to spend more time with you by walking you all the way to your home. When someone changes their schedule or stays late to spend more time with you, it means that not only this person genuinely cares for you, but they also like you.

3. BEING SURPRISED WITH FLOWERS OR A CUTE CARD

No one can resist a big, beautiful, fresh bouquet, especially if the flowers were handpicked from a local garden. I am a person who pays a great attention to details and likes to express her emotions openly. That is exactly why rare gestures like these make me genuinely excited and happy.

4. DRESSING NICELY FOR DATES

As I said, aesthetics are important to me. That is why it takes forever to get ready for a date. And that is why I truly respect men who take care of their style. Men who know exactly who they are, what they want and men who put as much effort in their appearance as they put in their behavior.

5. BEING SHOWERED WITH FULL ATTENTION FROM MY DATE

We live in a world where social media activity is more important than the real relationships with the people around us. It is truly sad to see so many young people staring at their phones instead of actually talking to each other.  

So, in a world where people don’t bother to pay attention to anyone but themselves, I am more than happy to be with someone who enjoys giving me his full attention.

6. BEING EXPLICITLY ASKED OUT ON A DATE

Tell me, where did the good, old-fashioned dates go? Where is the romance, people? Where is the spontaneity?

I’m tired of these new Tinder generations. People need to realize that wondering whether to scroll left or right is not the proper way to date and messenger is not the proper way to meet someone.

If you ask me, I prefer a straight-forward approach. No mixed emotions, no stupid messages, only the truth.

5 Things He Does That Show He’s Truly In Love With You

By
Riley Cooper

While men are not that good at voicing their emotions, they’re excellent when it comes to putting them into action. That’s why many women have a hard time determining whether their guy is really into them or he’s just having some good time before he disappears into thin air.

But the truth is, when you’re with a man who is truly in love with you, you’ll never have to decipher his feelings for you. It’ll be all clear. Because when a man is honestly and deeply in love, he shows that through his actions.

He does many things that show his love for you, but here we’ve compiled a list of 5 things that women usually overlook. No matter how surprising they may appear to you, remember that guys think in the opposite direction.

So here are 5 things a man does that show he’s truly in love with you and wants to stick around in your life for good:

1. He attentively listens to your stories and remembers details from them.

It’s not that we’re always interested in every story our partner shares with us. Let’s be honest, sometimes when they’re talking to us about some trivial, ordinary things, we just nod our heads while our mind is wandering off who knows where. Yeah, we’re all guilty of that.

But if your guy attentively listens to your stories and remembers details from them, such as things you did when you were a child, the names of your colleagues,  or information about your family, know he really cares about you.

Irrespective of the topic you talk about, he pays attention to what you have to say because he wants to know everything about you and be closer to you.

2. He likes spending time with your loved ones.

Accompanying you on family gatherings and celebrations may not be an appealing idea to men. It makes them feel uncomfortable and they fear they might find themselves in awkward situations when, let’s say, your aunt starts asking them questions about their life, and especially about you two.

But, to the guy who is really into you, hanging out with your friends and family is not a problem at all. In fact, he wants to get to know them and enjoys spending time with them. Chances are he already sees them as his in-laws, so he wants to make sure he gets along with them.

3. He takes an interest in running errands with you.

Whether it’s waiting in lines in supermarkets, paying bills, or shopping for groceries or clothes, your man often joins you. And this is not because he loves these mundane activities, but because he enjoys playing house with you and he wants to spend more time with you. When he’s around you, there’s no such thing as a boring activity.

4. He likes cooking for you.

He may not be the best chef in the world, but if you often catch him follow recipes to make you a special meal, know he’s really into you. No matter what kind of dish he makes for you, he prepares it with lots of love (even if it’s not that tasty and doesn’t look impressive).

He simply enjoys making surprises for you and those that come in the form of food are undeniably the best. This shows he cares about those seemingly unimportant things which actually mean a lot to you.

He may not even enjoy cooking that much, but he’s willing to do anything to make you happy and to show he’s really worth having him around, even if that means becoming Jamie Oliver’s greatest fan.

5. He enjoys planning special dates and trips with you.

While most guys prefer to do things that just pop up in their mind at the moment and don’t require any planning, the man who is honestly and deeply in love knows that this doesn’t always satisfy his lady’s hopes and desires.

That’s why he plans your dates and trips in advance and carefully plans every detail because he wants to make the moment special. He wants you to enjoy every second you spend with him and make you feel like you’re the most loved, cherished, and important person in the world.

What Makes Someone a Good Candidate for Invisalign

By
Ana Miller

You now have every reason to consider getting braces to provide a solution to a dental problem without fearing the pain and clunky looks of traditional metal braces. Invisible braces that are comfortable to wear are widely available in most areas. Below are a few things to consider in deciding whether you are a good candidate for Invisalign. You can also look online at dental websites like The Dentist at Framingham for videos and more information.

Perfect for Anyone Wanting Invisible Braces

Braces are dental devices that are useful in correcting many types of problems like overbites, underbites, crooked teeth, crowding, and more. The metal contraptions most people are familiar with were thought to be the only way to resolve these issues before the invention of Invisalign. Clear trays that you fit over your teeth provide the same type of results without the cumbersome feel and gaudy looks of metal braces. It’s the perfect solution for teens and adults that are uncomfortable with standing out from the crowd. No one will know you are wearing them unless you show the device.

Limited Time for Numerous Dental Visits

A good candidate for Invisalign is one that has a busy schedule and cannot be bothered by numerous visits to the dentist for checkups and adjustments. The trays are custom fit for each patient and you simply change the device as needed as you progress towards straight teeth and a perfect smile. Other than remembering to follow each part of the treatment plan, there is little in the way of the cumbersome and possibly painful dental visits of traditional braces.

Anyone Actively Involved In Sports

Playing team sports, especially full contact varieties, carry a bit of risk with the presence of metal braces. Getting hit in the mouth by a ball, equipment, or bumping into players can cause injury without braces, but adding the metal to the equation is a setup for nasty injuries. Invisalign is smooth and offers no parts and pieces that can prove harmful to your lips and mouth.

Anyone Using Musical Instruments Like Flutes or Trombones

You will love the convenience of Invisalign if you are a musician that plays the flutes, clarinets, trombones, and any other form of wind instrument. You don’t have to set your love of music aside and wait out the months and years it takes to correct dental problems. All you have to do is pop out the liner and replace it when you are done playing.

Individuals Enjoying Fewer Dietary Restrictions

One of the more depressing aspects of metal braces are the huge restrictions it can place on your love for a variety of sticky foods. Trying to clean the leftover gunk from the metal structure can seem like a nightmare. You can still eat most foods with Invisalign. It’s important to thoroughly brush your teeth and floss after you eat. You only have to remove the tray for the period of eating and hygiene care.

Braces Providing Easier Daily Oral Hygiene Care

Invisalign is hands-down the easiest way to correct dental problems and keep your teeth clean. All you have to do is remove the tray and care for your teeth as you would normally. You need nothing more than the basic toothbrush and dental floss. The food particles that get caught up in metal braces can set you up for permanent stains or tooth decay.

Willing to commit to the Treatment Plan

Depending on your particular dental problem, you might have to use Invisalign for a year or two. It is the perfect choice for people that are willing to commit to the length of time it takes to see positive results. It takes real discipline since they are not attached to the teeth. You have to keep them in and replace the size manually.

Anyone Disciplined to Wear the Invisalign the Required Hours Each Day

In order for Invisalign to work, it requires wearing the trays 20 to 22 hours each and every day. It slowly and subtly brings resolution to your problem.

Willingness to Use a Nighttime Retainer to Maintain the Results

Even though your teeth might seem to be anchored firmly in the jaw, they are moveable to some degree. It will require the use of some type of nighttime retaining device to maintain great results. As the improvements happened slowly, they can revert if not given a firm reminder each night of proper position.

Now is the time to check into Invisalign if you’ve been dealing with a dental problem that makes it difficult to smile. The results are stunning and the ability to cleverly hide the use makes it a win-win proposition.

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