Whatever you think the reasons are for him not paying enough attention to you, they aren’t. If you, the one who is reading this article, are confused, disappointed and exhausted from deciphering his actions and you desperately need answers for his behavior, I’m really glad you knocked on this door.
Welcome and make yourself at home.
The things you’re about to read in the following paragraphs might be a tough pill for you to swallow, but I’ve always figured that in life, it’s “better to get hurt by the truth than comforted with a lie”.
I know that it’s probably hard for you to explain the reality in which you live in. I know that it’s really difficult to go back to that initial moment and try to find the reason for falling in love with him. But, it is fine.
Don’t beat yourself up. It’s true, you and only you are responsible for that mistake. But, it is also you who are responsible for correcting that mistake. You are the only person who can help yourself.
So, listen to me.
If a man truly wants you in his life, he will do everything in his power to keep you. If he really wants you as he says, he will pursue you. He will bend over backward, he will face many obstacles, he will get rid of the things that bother you, he will change, but he will do the necessary to keep you in his life.
Because men love the chase. Especially when the woman they’re after is the woman of their dreams. In that case, they are unstoppable. They would never give up on pursuing you.
It’s really that simple. When men want something, they go after it.
But, when they’re not that into you, well… They make plenty of excuses as to why they’re not right there beside you, but rather somewhere else.
They’re busy, they’re swamped with work, they’re tired, they already have a guy’s night planned, they fell asleep and forgot to call you, they’re taking a shower, their car is broken, they have a family dinner, they…
There’s always something. And it’s always something urgent, something that needs to be done exactly in those rare moments when they are supposed to spend some quality time with you. Everything seems like it’s more important than you.
And let me tell you the truth. Everything is probably more important than you.
Because if you were his top priority, and he was completely into you, he would have done everything to pursue you and keep you beside him. If he was really in love with you like he says, he wouldn’t have misled you with his confusing messages. If he was truly devoted to you, he wouldn’t have made stupid excuses. He would have done everything to be with you and pay attention only to you.
So, please don’t be that woman who lets him get away with this. Don’t be just another notch in his bedpost. Don’t be a part of his game. Don’t get carried away by his sugar-coated lies.
HE is just NOT THAT into YOU. Get that through your head and accept the bitter truth.
He’s simply not the one for you. Let him go.
A better person will come along and recognize your pure soul and beauty. He will show you what it feels to be loved and he will choose you each and every day, all over again. That day may seem like it’s far away, but I promise you, it will come.
In the meantime, you have to learn to love and respect yourself. You have to find the strength within you to let go of everything and everyone that hurts you and focus on your wellbeing. Be alone and make time for yourself. Take good care of yourself, and let everything else will take care of itself.
When two people are meant to be together – it is the greatest force in the universe. It’s a magical power. It’s the purest, deepest, and most intense feeling. It has the power to turn the ugliest thing into the most beautiful one, and yet, it can destroy us at any given time. (1)
It’s unbelievable how a single emotion can show itself in so many different ways. It’s difficult to understand how something so pure and amazing can either make us the happiest or the most disconsolate person in the world.
When we think of love, we imagine it like a fairytale about two people who are madly in love with each other and who are destined to stay together forever. We think of love as being all about sunshine, butterflies, boxes of chocolates, romantic surprises, and true happiness.
And this is the kind of love we all want to experience, right?
We all want to experience the kind of love that leads to happiness and the lifelong union of two souls that are destined to be together.
What If We Are Not Meant To Be Together?
However, not all couples are blessed to experience this kind of love. Not all love stories have the “…and, they lived happily ever after” end. Because there’s another type of love that is not bright and happy. Instead, it’s gloomy and sad. It’s the kind of love one feels when they love someone, they’re not meant to be with.
It’s the kind of love that’s not about sunshine and butterflies but about darkness and pain: tears and despair.
It’s the kind of love that’s not soothing or fulfilling but damaging and painful.
Such love doesn’t present itself as a beautiful, blissful beginning but as something that won’t even begin.
Such love can never blossom and thrive. Such love can never bring happiness and fulfillment to those involved.
Such couples are forced to part ways.
And that’s how some people discover the painful, dark side of love. They discover the pain of being so deeply and madly in love with someone but not being able and lucky enough to enjoy that kind of love with that person. They discover the pain of truly loving someone they can never have.
They discover that you can love someone with every part of yourself and still never get the chance to be together with that person. You can give your heart and soul to someone and still not be loved back.
Because the ugly truth is that sometimes love simply isn’t enough. Call it destiny, faith, magic, or the universe, but there are plenty of other factors that prevent two people in love from being together. (2)
How do you know if you’re not meant to be together?
You know, there comes the point in your life when you realize that real-life love is nothing like the love you read about and see in fairy tales and romantic movies. Love is something that you need to work really hard both to achieve and maintain.
Just like you need to water a flower every day so as to stay alive and grow, you need to “water” love with hard work. And that means fully committing yourself to your partner and the relationship; accepting and cherishing the other person the way they are; treating them with kindness, compassion, patience, and affection every single day; being there for them in both their good and bad days.
You need to understand that love is irrational and that there’s no such thing as a smooth, perfect relationship. All couples go through ups and downs in their relationship. They’re faced with difficult challenges, obstacles, and tests every single day.
But, you also need to understand that you can’t leave at the first sign of trouble. You can’t leave without a fight. You can’t give up on your loved one before exhausting all the possible means of saving the relationship.
Because that’s what real love feels like. It’s hard. It requires effort, hard work, and commitment. One more thing you always need to bear in mind is that we’re all unique individuals with different traits, beliefs, and behaviors. We all have quirks, annoying habits, and awkward preferences.
At the beginning of the relationship, we may fall in love with the flaws and quirks of the other person or even think that we love them. But, as I said, love is an irrational feeling and living in a world that is governed by logic, it’s only a matter of time until the painful reality hits us.
And when this happens, we start to see things as they really are. We realize that the faults and weaknesses we thought we loved about the other person, in fact, bothered us and made us gradually distance ourselves from our partner.
But, the truth is that you’ll never find someone that you’ll be 100 percent compatible with. There’ll always be some habit or behavior of theirs that you’ll find annoying or even unacceptable. And the only thing you can do to maintain both the love and the relationship is to be willing to compromise.
You always have the choice to compromise and make the relationship work. It’s up to you to decide whether you’ll accept your partner’s flaws, past mistakes, and failures or not.
Yet, there’re some mistakes that you’ll never be able to accept and forget. They will be like wounds that leave deep emotional scars on your soul. Because once the person you loved and trusted the most hurts you, this breaks your trust in them and ruins your hopes for your future together.
And the ugly truth is that it’s not these scars that will make your soul burn forever, but the excruciating feeling of loving the other person although you know that you’ll never be together.
Because sometimes, you love someone till your last breath, even when you know you’re not meant to be together.
And sometimes, red flags present in a relationship indicate that you and your partner are not meant to be together. In what follows, we’ll explain what a red flag in a relationship is as well as present some most common relationship red flags and signs which show you’re forcing yourself to love someone.
What Is A Red Flag In A Relationship?
You have probably heard the expression “red flags in a relationship” many times before. But, have you ever wondered what the term “red flags” means? Or are they a sign that you should put an end to the relationship or stay and do everything in your power to make it work?
A red flag in a relationship is a sign that the relationship is not happy or healthy and that staying in that relationship can negatively affect both partners.
In what follows, we’ve presented the 9 most common relationship red flags. If some or all of these red flags are present in your relationship, take this as a sign that you should put an end to it and move on.
9 Most Common Red Flags In Relationships You Need To Look Out For
1. Lack Of Trust And Constant Jealousy
Mutual trust is the foundation upon which any healthy, meaningful, and successful relationship is built. But, if your relationship is characterized by distrust and constant, irrational jealousy instead of trust, this is a sure sign that your relationship is not headed in the right direction.
If your partner doesn’t trust you if they constantly insist that you inform them about your whereabouts, and if they often accuse you of cheating on them or flirting with others, this is a telltale sign that they’re insecure.
2. Constant Fighting
Disagreements and arguments are an inseparable part of any healthy and strong relationship. But if you and your partner are constantly fighting about insignificant things or serious matters or if you often have trouble resolving conflict, this indicates that something is wrong with your relationship. Frequent fights and an inability to resolve a dispute can lead to passive aggression and resentment.
3. Different Relationship Goals
It’s normal for you and your partner to have different goals when it comes to your career or relationships with others, but when it comes to your relationship, your goals should be the same, otherwise, the relationship is bound to fail.
You and your partner need to have the same goals concerning certain aspects of your relationship, such as how you plan to deal with finances, whether you want to have kids, and where you want to live.
4. Highly Controlling Behavior
If your partner tries to control your beliefs, desires, decisions, or movements, this is a clear sign that they prioritize their feelings, needs, and desires over your own.
No one has the right to control who you make friends with or hang out with, how you spend your money, who you talk to on social media, or what you wear. In a healthy relationship, both partners understand their differences and are willing to compromise.
5.Lack Of Emotional Intimacy
If your partner has trouble opening up about their feelings and connecting genuinely and deeply with you, what’s the point of staying in that relationship?
If there’s no closeness between your partner and you in which both of you feel loved, appreciated, and secure and open communication abounds, and there’s mutual respect and trust, this may be a sign that it’s time for you to walk away.
6. Drug Or Alcoholism Addiction
If substances, such as drugs or alcohol, are adversely affecting your partner’s life in their health, work, or relationship, this is a clear sign of addiction. In addition, if they rely on alcohol or drugs to cope with problems, this is also a sign of addiction, and it indicates that they haven’t found a way to deal with tough situations yet without changing their mental state.
Finally, if your partner’s addiction leads them to be emotionally or physically abusive, this is a sure sign that you should put an end to the relationship.
7. Gaslighting
Gaslighting is a manipulation technique that a person may use to create a false narrative and make you doubt your judgments and perception of reality. Gaslighting can undermine your self-esteem over time and make you become dependent on the person who is using this form of manipulation.
So, if your partner shows the following behaviors, this is a telltale sign that you’re a victim of gaslighting:
They accuse you of saying or doing things that you know you never did
They call you “needy” or “too sensitive” when you complain about something or express your needs
They deny that certain events or agreements happened
They often complain that you don’t love or care about them as much as you say you do
They avoid admitting their mistakes and taking responsibility for their actions, and they lay the blame at your door
They often disregard your opinions and think they’re always right
8. Inability To Build Relationships With Other People
If your partner has trouble building and maintaining relationships with other people, chances are they’ll struggle to create a close, emotional bond with you as well.
If your partner has this type of problem, try to understand why this is so. If you discover that they tend to criticize and blame others rather than accept responsibility, criticism, or blame for their own actions or that there’s a lack of drive in their relationships with others, this could be a sign that you’ll face the same problems in your relationship.
9. Violence
If your partner is violent towards you or someone else, including strangers, this is a major warning sign. Not only can this be a sign that they can’t healthily channel their emotions, but it can also be a sign that they’re incapable of feeling empathy for other people.
How Do You Know If You’re Forcing Yourself To Love Someone?
If you’re currently in a relationship and can often catch yourself asking yourself these two questions: “Do I really love him/her?” or “Am I trying to force a relationship?” it’s likely that you’re forcing yourself to love your partner.
The thing is that people get into relationships for various reasons. Some people do that because they want to be with someone they’ll love and care about and who will reciprocate the same feelings. Others enter relationships out of fear of feeling lonely and because they think this will bring a sense of fulfillment and happiness into their lives. However, whatever the reason a person may get into a relationship, when there’s no pure and unconditional love in a relationship as well as a close, genuine, and deep bond between the partners, the relationship is bound to fail.
So, if you can often catch yourself thinking that you do the most in your relationship and wondering whether your partner loves you as much as you love them, this could be a sign that you’re forcing yourself to love them. In what follows, we’ve presented 10 signs that indicate you’re forcing yourself to love your partner.
You feel like you’re more invested in the relationship than your partner.
You wonder whether you’ll ever have the chance to be in a happy, meaningful relationship.
You sometimes wonder whether it’s the relationship you want more than your partner.
You often catch yourself thinking, “He/She would be perfect if he/she changed X about him/her.” When you truly love someone, you don’t expect them to change. Instead, you love them for who they are.
There’s no spark between you and your partner.
You pretend to be interested in your partner’s hobbies and likes.
You only feel happy around your partner in certain environments, such as during date nights, but you don’t like spending time with them on a Sunday afternoon.
You question your partner’s loyalty.
You don’t feel your partner respects you the way they should.
You can imagine you two living together, but this idea doesn’t excite you at all.
When you hear the word introvert, I guess the first thought that comes to your mind is a person who prefers to live inside their personal bubble and who doesn’t like socializing with other people. You imagine a person who is quiet, shy, and reserved. But, there is so much more to this type of people than just being “quiet” and “aloof.”
Being an introvert in a world which seems perfectly made for extroverts is not easy at all. It’s constantly feeling like you’re the odd one out. Like you’re weird. It’s enduring the way others look at you – like you can’t stand, or I should better say, hate being in the company of other people.
The only way you can love an introverted person is by understanding their need for space and fully accepting them as they are, with all their quirks, unusual habits, and peculiar preferences. You need to understand that many things you find interesting and you’re okay with may actually appear foreign, annoying, and even unacceptable to the introvert.
So, if you have an introvert in your life, make sure you know what things will never make sense to them and suit their temperament.
Here are 8 of them:
1. Large gatherings and loud places.
It’s not that introverts aren’t interested in socializing – they simply prefer the company of their close friends, which usually vary from 2 to 5 people, rather than a room full of strangers.
Attending parties and going to crowded, noisy places, such as clubs, restaurants, and malls, make them feel uncomfortable and drain their energy.
2. Small talk.
What’s the point of talking with someone about the weather or about what their plans for the weekend are, or about their cousin’s husband who just bought a new house?
Introverts can’t stand superficial, idle, dull talk. Unless a subject is meaningful, intellectually stimulating, and interesting, they won’t even think about participating in the conversation.
3. The “shy” etiquette.
You probably think, too, that introverts are shy. But, just because they avoid crowded, loud places and they don’t feel comfortable being surrounded by many people, it doesn’t mean they’re timid.
These people are neither shy nor afraid to speak their mind. They’re simply careful and quite picky when it comes to choosing the people they want to hang out with.
4. Answering the phone.
Don’t expect an introvert to answer when you call. And this is not because they’re rude or they don’t want to talk to you. It’s because they want to do that in their own time and when they feel ready.
Introverts prefer to have a nice, long phone call and talk about meaningful stuff rather than having a short call during which they won’t share any valuable information with you.
5. Hugging with acquaintances.
If there’s anything that introverts value the most, that’s their space, both physical and mental. Hugging with someone they meet for the first time is the horror of all horrors.
So, don’t be surprised next time when you try to hug an introvert and they keep a distance from you. Introverted people will do whatever it takes to protect their boundaries.
6. Sharing a place with roommates.
Their home is the only place where they can recharge their batteries and be alone with their thoughts. Moreover, it always sounds better to an introvert watching a good movie on Netflix or curling up with a good book after a long, busy day than hanging out with others.
7. Loud, chaotic office.
Introverts need peace both in their mind and around them. That’s why it’s impossible for them to be productive and feel comfortable in a crowded, loud office.
Working in such environment distracts them and makes it difficult for them to concentrate on the task at hand.
8. Someone rolling eyes at them.
You may think that introverts don’t notice when someone looks at them like they’re the greatest weirdos on the planet, but you’re wrong. Introverts are, in fact, highly observant.
They notice and feel everything which surrounds them and there’s nothing more irritating to them than when they notice someone is rolling eyes at them. Just because they’re different, it doesn’t mean they’re weird.
You’re a person who’ve always dreamt of true love. You are someone who’ve always followed their heart and never accepted anything less than the real thing.
You’ve always fought for the things you truly deserved.
So, I know it’s been hard for you, especially when it comes to love and romantic affairs. I know that you’ve struggled to actually find someone decent. Someone who would genuinely love you and really be that for you. Someone whose soul matches yours.
This society is turning into a greedy, heartless monster who only cares about pleasure and profit. The traditional, genuine values are slowly dying. People are desperate for love but too afraid to give it. Most of the people have no other choice, but to crack under the pressure and follow the masses.
But, you… why would you give everything up for someone who simply isn’t worthy of your love?
I see that you’re too tired to keep searching. And I see that you’re about to make that mistake and throw away everything you’ve fought for. But, I just know that you’re stronger than this. I know that you have so much love to give.
So, tell me… Why would you settle for an immature boy who simply isn’t ready to be a man?
You deserve so much more than him. You deserve someone who won’t be afraid to love you. Someone who will let you love him with all of your heart. Someone who will leave all his inhibitions, fears, insecurities and traumas aside and give in to your love.
Don’t make the foolish mistake to settle for an immature boy.
You don’t need a baby, you need a grown man. You don’t need someone who is too afraid of commitment. You don’t need someone who will run for the hills the second you express your genuine feelings.
You don’t need someone who will constantly mind-f*ck you and manipulate you with their vicious lies. You don’t need a person who will try to shut you down just because they’re too intimated by your strength.
What you need is a mature, grown man who knows what he wants and knows exactly how to get it.
A person with real values who will love you the way you deserve to be loved. A good, kind and loving man who will accept you, support you and inspire you to become the best version of yourself.
That’s what you’ve been fighting for entire life. That’s what you’ve been dreaming of since you were a little girl. That is your definition of love. So, you shouldn’t give up on that, ever.
Time is ticking away, years go by, we grow older… but regrets are always here to haunt us.
Don’t make that mistake that you’ll likely regret 10 years from now.
Don’t settle for a boy who simply isn’t ready to become a man.
You deserve someone who won’t be afraid of your greatness. You deserve a real man who will love you like there’s no tomorrow. Someone who will choose you each and every day all over again, for all eternity.
They say the eyes are the window to the soul. If you look a little bit deeper in the eyes of the beautiful, broken girl, you’ll see two things: beauty that comes from her soul and sadness because she dated men whom she wholeheartedly loved and trusted and they broke her heart. She loved men who took her for granted and told her that she wasn’t good enough.
And all these past relationships have left deep emotional scars – scars that are still not fully healed and she’s doing her best to hide. Yet, she wears them proudly.
But, this girl has fought off heartbreak and pain to get where she is today. And although her scars may not yet be fully healed, she’s still able to love deeply and unconditionally. This rare gem is something to be treasured because she loves differently compared to the rest … and this is how she does that:
1. She’s aware of her strength.
If there’s one thing she learned in her life (although the hard way), that is how to be strong. This girl was ignored, humiliated, and hurt so many times. Yet, she managed to find the strength within herself to pick herself up after each time.
As a result, today she’s tougher and more resilient than ever before. Today she’s more aware of her courage and abilities, and she knows that if she believes in and fights for herself, she’ll be able to overcome any difficult challenge and pain life sends her way.
2. She keeps her guard up.
This girl understands well how bad it hurts when the person you love the most betrays your trust. She gave her heart away too easily and quickly only to see it getting broken into countless tiny pieces.
That’s why it’ll take her a while before she feels comfortable enough to let her guard down and open up to you. And trust me, when she does that, you’ll realize she was worth the wait.
3. Once she begins to trust you, she’ll share her story with you.
Once you gain her trust and let her know that you care about her, she’ll tell you everything about the heavy burden she’s been carrying all this time. She’ll tell you all about the hell she went through and about the times she felt desperate and lost and thought that she’d never be able to love and be loved again.
She’ll feel free and comfortable to tell you what she had to go through to become the strong, confident woman she is today.
4. She’s challenging.
Being in a relationship with this kind of girl will definitely not be a smooth ride, you should always bear that in mind. You may feel like each new day is a new battle and you may often think about giving up on her.
But, if you decide to be there for her on the bad days and lift her up when she’s at her lowest, you’ll realize the ways this woman is capable of loving. You’ll realize how tender, compassionate, and committed she is and how hard she can fight for you. You’ll realize that this woman is a real keeper.
5. She knows what extreme happiness feels like.
A girl like this knows what it feels like to hit rock bottom and feel hopeless. She knows what it’s like to cry all night long and desperately wish to see, touch, or just hear the voice of the person you love the most, but who didn’t bother breaking your heart.
But, thanks to these hard times, she’s learned to recognize genuine happiness. She’s able to find joy even in the most ordinary moments of everyday life. She wakes up with a smile on her face every morning and feels thrilled to start the day ahead of her.
This girl knows how to look into your eyes and see beauty and feel happy and peaceful at the same time. And she definitely knows the joy of sharing her happiness with the person who means the world to her.
6. She needs little to feel happy.
Just a smile, a hug, a kiss, a flower, or hearing those three powerful words I love you can make her feel happy. She doesn’t need you to take her to stylish restaurants or buy her expensive gifts to feel good and emotionally fulfilled. She doesn’t need you to post selfies of you two on Facebook, showing everyone how happy you’re together so that she feels loved.
This girl understands that it is through those seemingly unimportant, little things in everyday life that you show you truly love and care about someone.
7. She knows how to fight for you.
Quitting is a term that doesn’t exist in her vocabulary. This girl is a warrior and she’ll do her best to protect you from anyone and anything in every way she can. She’ll go out of her way to make you happy, even if that means sacrificing her needs and happiness.
This woman is not afraid to stand up for those who occupy a special place in her heart – and you’re one of them.
8. She’s not afraid of love.
Although her heart was broken many times, she still believes in love. She’s not afraid to love and be loved. She doesn’t fear to wear her heart on her sleeve and undress her soul in front of the man she truly loves and trusts.
The only thing she’s afraid of is that you will not love her back.
The funny thing about us humans and our interpersonal relationships is the fact that we often tend to overlook people’s actions because we simply care too much for them.
Cupid’s arrow strikes us, we fall madly in love with someone, and we suddenly find it hard to perceive the truth about them, so we make excuses for their actions.
Whatever they do, however they behave, we constantly look for different ways to justify their shitty behavior. Because, deep inside, we care too much.
“Oh, they’re just too tired”; “It’s not that they don’t care, they just don’t have time from all that work” and the good, old-fashioned “I swear to you, this time is different”.
I swear to you, If I had a penny every single time I heard this story from someone, I’d be rich by now. A billionaire, to be exact.
People are constantly getting involved in toxic relationships. It’s sad to hear about this, but that is the truth. I keep hearing about people who decide to stay together, despite the hell they’re experiencing while being in a harmful relationship.
I keep hearing about women who are hopeful that they could actually change something in their partners who clearly don’t give a damn about anything at all.
And, it’s the same thing with you and him. From the very first moment you met him, you knew that this guy would never give you what you wanted.
Admit it, you immediately sensed what kind of a guy he was. Yet, you decided that you’re going to ignore your gut feeling and give into that burning sensation inside your chest.
You wanted him. You wanted all of him. You craved love. That passionate, mad, all-consuming kind of love. The one that turns your world upside down and changes you to the very core.
And so, you fell hard for him. You surrendered to him completely. Body and fu*cking soul.
You were there for him. You sacrificed yourself for you. You went out of your way to make him happy. You put up with everything you disliked about him. You made it clear that you are about to commit to this relationship.
Yet, he never reciprocated. He never even made an effort to show you what he felt about you. He only defended himself with his foolish excuses that he’s been hurt and too emotionally damaged to open up so soon.
But, you knew about all of this. And you took no precautions whatsoever. Deep inside of you, you expected this, and you let it happen. You feared that your doubts will come true, and finally they did.
So, tell me, why did you do that to yourself?
More importantly, why are you still doing this to yourself?
I really hate to be the one to break it to you, but this man will never love you the way you deserve to be loved. This man is toxic. Incapable of expressing his emotions. He is emotionally handicapped. No, not, emotionally damaged. He’s emotionally dead.
Don’t buy into his bullshit. Don’t let his words trick you. He’s not broken, and he’s certainly not traumatized by a previous experience. He’s just an immature jerk who’s too self-absorbed to care about anyone besides himself.
I know that this is all too painful for you to comprehend, but you have to realize that this man doesn’t love you. He never did. He might have shown some interest for you, but that was at the beginning. And believe me, it wasn’t real.
I’m very familiar with this type of behavior. So, I really don’t want you to think that he’s just a fragile, broken man, whose heart is too damaged to love. I don’t want you to fall for that old trick. He’s not the vulnerable boy he’s presenting himself to be.
This person is only using you. He is taking advantage of your kindness and he will continue doing that until you speak up and take the matter into your own hands.
Stop justifying his behavior. It’s time for you to open your eyes and accept the ugly truth.
With the rising medical ailments are the rising medical costs which an average person finds difficult to meet. In this expensive medical market, technology use may be seen as an unaffordable luxury. But the key is that the use of RIGHT technology actually can reduce the overall cost of medical treatments. With the use of technology, we can easily get a doctor appointment. Technology also helps the patient in learning about medicines such as they can search for Avil Composition.
Acceptance of Technology in Medicine
With the present sedentary lifestyle and bad choices, chronic diseases, heart ailments, and Alzheimer’s are on the rise.
For these long-term ailments, the patients will need to bear a cost burden. This burden can be significantly reduced if the doctors diagnose, prevent or treat these conditions as early as possible. And this requires R and D technology.
Acceptance of new technology in the healthcare market too will take time. Healthcare providers need to justify the high costs against the benefits to patients’ health. Breakthrough in technology not only takes time to deliver but savings for the patient are spread over the whole course of treatment.
Providing efficient savings through high technology is a challenge in healthcare, but the advantage is that these savings can be transferred to another healthcare provider if the patient moves under his care.
Healthcare today runs mostly on digital technology. Medical equipment’s run on digital platforms. There is various software used in hospitals to store and access information.
Another add-on of technology in Medicare is that patients taking medicines can know about the medicines. For example, if someone is prescribed Montairlc, they can search for Montairlc Composition, uses and more.
Technology in Healthcare- A Boon
The following are the few ways in which technology can offset the healthcare costs drastically:
Reduce time spent in the hospital through improved surgical procedures
Surgical procedures are becoming minimally invasive with the help of battery-operated ultrasonic, laser and RFID enabled tools. Smaller, low and self-powered electronics are less invasive, have better results and potential to control infections.
With the help of these instruments, treatments can be done in a clinic instead of a hospital. Although the initial cost of instruments is high, the savings will be high in the long run. These instruments reduce the time spent by patients in the hospital and for postoperative care.
Expedited and Accurate Diagnosis
The procedures for pathology and diagnosis are fast changing. Currently, the time-consuming biopsy procedure tool has been replaced by visualization and virtual pathology that is done in real-time to the patients.
OCT (optical coherence tomography) is a 3D imaging system that uses only light instead of sound. This was earlier only used in ophthalmology, but it has found its application in cancer detection and vascular disease imaging.
Invasive colonoscopy and endoscopy have been replaced by advanced processing technology. Virtual MRI and CT scans have proved useful for easier and patient-friendly disease detection. Also, the PACS system can lead to a faster and more accurate diagnosis by allowing medical images to be stored, accessed, and shared digitally, improving efficiency, reducing the risk of errors, and enabling remote consultations with specialists.
Facilitate Remote Patient Monitoring
Managing a patient’s condition from a remote place is highly convenient for the physician and the doctor. e-Health or Connected Health are the terms describing this technology. There are online doctors free available for advice and consultation at any time needed by the patient.
Other than smartphones and gadgets, the enablers for this technology are smart sensors, advanced user interface, analytics and data processing. These e-health apps can reduce hospital visits to a large extent and enable patient compliance.
One example of a remote monitoring device is the glucose monitoring system developed by Senseonics that works with a wireless transmitter, a sensor, and a smartphone app. This setup helps in the detection of blood sugar level every few minutes and give alerts to the patient and the physician.
The second example is the Smarthaler, a system developed by Sagentia for asthma patients. This uses acoustic detection technology along with a cloud-based server operable from a mobile app. This helps to monitor if the patient is administering his medicines properly or not. This system gives the patient warnings in case of incorrect dosage and provides the doctor with the whole treatment report.
Technology for advanced disease prevention
An advanced technology that is in the early stages is 3rd generation DNA sequencing. This technique has the capability of reducing the overall expenditure of treating the patient through more personalized therapies and treatments, reducing drug wastage, time and cost.
A groundbreaking technology such as single-molecule detection combined with data analytics has helped in converting raw data into useful information with only marginal errors.
Automation of Administrative tasks
Administrative expenses constitute most of the expenses in any hospital. Doctors spend over 30% of their time entering patient details. This leads to ineffective use of the physician’s time and quickly burnout.
Digitization of patients’ health records using tools like artificial intelligence helps minimize and automate physicians work. For instance tasks like retrieving test results and updating patent, records can be automatically programmed. Prescription advise, as well as reminders, can also be atomized to ease the burden on doctors so that they can make more time for patients.
Administrative tasks such as appointment fixing and reminders can be digitized to improve clinical efficiency and reduce administrative staff’s paperwork.
Use of Scheduling apps to lower staffing costs
Scheduling apps can help efficiently allocate existing human resources without resorting to expensive alternatives like temp hires, overtime staff and so on.
Proper scheduling of staff has a direct impact on the costs and patient intake. Currently, hospitals enforce voluntary overtime and forceful filling of gaps between shifts. These turn out expensive for the hospital as well as overload for the staff.
To combat such problems, the administration needs to use technology that integrates information of earlier shifts, current patient requirements and use the existing staff to their maximum potential without overworking them.
Some scheduling apps also allow nurses and other staff to circulate these schedules on their mobile devices so that they get real-time updates.
With the more complex program and AI, these apps can provide information about future staff demands while addressing current needs simultaneously.
Digital marketing to target more patients
Digital Marketing helps to reach out to more patients on a one to one basis rather than traditional marketing techniques.
With skyrocketing health care costs, patients are more than willing to shop around online until they find the best hospital or doctor. Unlike previous decades, today’s millennials do not hesitate to switch their care provider if they find a more suitable one.
Digital marketing targets potential niche patients online who are looking for healthcare to treat specific conditions. Since most people are online for most of the time, online marketing will cost significantly lesser than traditional methods and will have a greater impact.
Information about online doctor free services is also made known to patients via digital marketing.
Digitization of insurance processing
Claims processing in insurance is the most time-consuming operation for both the insurance companies and the clinics.
Digitizing insurance information processing can save 90% of the time and cut costs significantly. Automation of claims processing and management of disputes can reduce labour costs, increase customer satisfaction and improve payment efficiency.
Automation of Supply Chain
New supply chain analytical and software tools have helped in smooth inventory tracking, allocation of resources and reduction in wastage.
Expensive inventory such as hospital equipment has RFID tags similar to barcodes that help providers to track the equipment throughout its use and obtain location information, manufacturer, expiration date, shipping data and so on.
Digital information can also be used to track disposable supplies which are otherwise piled away in a corner leading to wastage of space, time and resources.
Data analytics and tools for automation play a significant role in managing the entire medical supply in a better manner. This helps medical staff spend more time on patient care rather than supply management.
Early detection of Fatal Diseases
Machine Learning and Data Analytics have contributed immensely to the early detection of diseases. The patients can benefit from decreased mortality rate as well as lower costs if early detection is successful.
Machine learning uses advanced algorithms and analytics for prediction purposes. This has been used in other industries for many years, has now found its way into the medical arena.
The scope of Technological Innovation in Medicine
Private and Public sectors in medicine want to lower health care costs. All providers are under pressure to show performance for fear of increasing their insurance premiums and possible penalties. This has created opportunities for industries to create new products and technology to help patients in long-term health management.
The health of the population is a by-product of various things like policies, health care practices, medical research, disease prevention and so on. Big data, Artificial Intelligence, Advanced Analytics, Machine Learning, have taken giant leaps in improving the health of the overall population and cutting costs of healthcare.
Robotics have also made their way into hospitals. They can choose pills via barcode, prepare medication and solutions even more accurately than a pharmacist or a technician. They can also transport the medicine to the appropriate unit via wireless technology. This allows for the pharmacist to concentrate on other important functions such as dosage, compounding, a drug to drug interactions and so on.
The cost and value obtained must not be an obstacle to technological innovations in the field of medicine.
It is a proven fact that technology only helps healthcare providers to provide cheaper, quicker and more effective treatments to patients. There must be structured methodologies and an eye for new innovative approaches to adapt to new technology.
The death of a loved one is one of the painful moments in life that one will face in time. It brings forth mixed emotions – sadness, joy while reminiscing your happy memories together, emptiness, etc. There are phases that one will go through in moving on and most of the time, a lot of us tend to cope with the sadness of their loss in various ways such as paying tribute to them through memorial plaques for benches.
A memorial plaque can be an ideal gift to honor a loved one or someone who already passed away. A plain bench may just be merely a place where people can sit and take a rest for a while but memorial plaques for benches can make a real difference. Benches can be found anywhere – in parks, on the grounds of hospitals, near bus stops, outside a local business, in the garden, etc.
Share the memories through memorial plaques for benches
A picture tells a thousand words and so is memorial plaques. Memorial plaques for benches tell individual stories; each holds a story of the person being honored while at the same time providing spiritual and physical relief. They are an effective and tangible way to remember, recollect, reminisce and honor the person being memorialized. While resting on the bench, they can heal spiritually and mentally while remembering the good times together.
Things to think about when planning for a memorial bench
You can incorporate your creativity when it comes to memorial plaques for benches. You can have it personalized according to the design, style, content, and material of the plaque. Aside from the memorial plaque, there are also other things that you must take into considerations such as the following:
The location of the bench
The style of the bench
Your budget
If you opt for a new bench or a refurbished bench
Memorial plaques for benches are usually placed in the center of the memorial bench’s backrest. They are very easy to purchase and install but to ensure that the plaque will last long, make sure that the plaque that you will choose should be durable and will look smart and brand new for a long time. Benches come in a variety of styles and materials and the design and style of the memorial plaque must look well with the bench.
The loss of a loved one is painful and what’s left are their memories that we can reminisce and cherish. They may be gone physically but with memorial plaques for benches, their legacy lives on.
Teeth can be lost to gum ailment, rot or damage. Dentures are adjustable machines that can supplant missing teeth and advantage your appearance and your wellbeing. They can be made to nearly look like your regular teeth and enable round to out the presence of your display. Dentures enhance your smile too.
Demonstration
The Attachment System is intended for utilizing with the extra dentures or fractional dentures, held in entire or to some degree by end osseous embeds in the maxilla or mandible
Caution
Not proper where an absolutely unbending association is needed
Sanitization
All parts and tools are provided sterilized. Ball implants and metal instruments might be cleaned by going through the standard clinical strategies before use.
Solo use instruments
Nylon Males: because of wear from past utilization or harm amid evacuation, the incidental re-utilization of nylon guys could cause loss of maintenance for the over denture.
Use of Projections: The incidental re-utilization of Abutments could contain quiet tainting develop and resulting wear of the maintenance groups. This would result in the gadget to perform with inappropriate fit and perform in a way which would result in loss of maintenance of prosthesis.
Low Vertical Height: The aggregate stature of the connection is 4.0mm
Capable of being heard Click: the mating of the male and female segments give a patient-satisfying capable of being heard snap every time they are seated.
Use with non-parallel inserts: Female lodging permits simple redress of different inserts.
Rotating activity: with no subsequent loss of maintenance, the nylon male permits a versatile association for the prosthesis.
Versatile projection securing plan.
Your oral wellbeing is subject to the wellbeing and status of your teeth. Missing teeth make an odd impact of moving your jaw arrangement, making issues with your discourse, decay happening with your bone, and gum tissue and the powerlessness to eat nourishments that you once delighted in. Lake Gibson Dental Center can supplant your teeth utilizing insert held dentures.
Bar-held and ball-held: There are two sorts of ball implant dentures. In the two cases, the denture will be made of an acrylic base that will look like gums. Porcelain or acrylic teeth that resemble characteristic teeth are connected to the base. The most straightforward alternative for ball implant dentures when the majority of the lower teeth are missing is the ball connection denture.
This framework is the position of two dental embeds in your lower jaw that enables you to adjust the denture properly. This alternative is extensively more agreeable than free dentures and gives a great deal of dependability. The solidness and usefulness of the ball connection denture give patients roughly 60% of what they had with their characteristic teeth, contradicted to 10% of the usefulness of free dentures.
Advantages of Ball Attachment Dentures
Higher beginning maintenance contrasted with different frameworks
Ball implants are Financially savvy
Simple to clean
Substitution parts indistinguishable so natural to supplant if there should be an occurrence of disappointment
Call Lake Gibson Dental Center at 863-858-1424 for an interview about ball connection dentures for missing lower teeth.
It is almost that time of the year again, Christmas is just around the corner and there are a lot of reasons to be jolly. It’s when you meet up with all your friends and family, exchange presents and spend some quality time together.
Safety in your own home is generally the last thing you worry about during this time, given all the fun, frolicking, and festivities that are going on. But, the important thing to consider is while you are busy having fun, it probably is the busiest time of the year as well, for thieves with Grinch-like intentions. And we all know how much the Grinch hates Christmas.
Thankfully, home insurance can help you relax during the holidays by adequately covering against any mishaps or losses. Here are a few ways how insuring your house might allow you to get that much-needed peace of mind.
Christmas Gift From Your Insurer
Christmas is the time of the year when there is an excess of contents in your house. Keeping in tune with the festive season, most insurers generally increase the cover offered by their plans to account for things that might go wrong.
Having said that, these kinds of policies generally differ from insurer to insurer. It is better if you get in touch with your provider and ask about them. Further, you can read through the terms and conditions to know the extent of cover you receive during the festive period.
What if the “Grinch” Steals Your Gifts?
Every year you spend a lot of money to buy gifts and other essentials for your loved ones. So generally during this time, there are a lot of gifts in your home under the Christmas tree. If a burglar decides to break into your house and walk away with all the presents, Christmas is not going to be so jolly anymore.
Fortunately, most insurers usually have provisions for gifts or any other items that may get stolen during this festive time. You can make an insurance claim and get covered adequately to prepare for any untoward incident like this, in case it does happen.
It is a good idea to keep the bills of all the gifts you bought as proof of purchase, in case they get stolen. Further, you can always take pictures of the gifts as additional proof, just to be safe.
What if Someone Hurts Themselves While Putting up Decorations?
Installing lights and putting up decorations on the roof is one of the most important aspects of holiday preparations. Climbing up on the roof and installing lights is a much riskier affair than most people consider it to be. So, what happens if someone falls off the roof in the process?
In case something happens to you or anyone else while putting up decoration, it will automatically be covered under the guest medical policy of your existing home insurance. While we sincerely hope nothing like this ever happens to you, in case it does, you know you are covered. So go ahead and put those lights up on the roof!
Be Covered Against Jealous Vandals
Decorate your house with snowmen and Rudolph the reindeer, and you may become the envy of the neighborhood. These festive decorations can become the target of vandals who may damage the decorations.
If someone does any kind of damage or steals your decorations kept outside your home, this should generally be covered by your home insurance policy. Just like with your gifts, it is preferable if you keep the bills of these decorations to prove how much they cost.
Christmas is a time to be merry and relax with your family and friends. Getting insured during the holiday season allows you to afford a sense of security and peace of mind. There are a number of situations you can be covered against. By protecting yourself with home insurance, you can possibly avoid being burdened by the costs that are associated with losing or damaging your possessions.
Having said that, it is advisable to talk to your insurance providers and read the terms and conditions of your policy to exactly know how you are covered for these situations.
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