This one goes out to all of you ladies. I’m sure at some point in your life you’ve been a part of a disastrous relationship and eventually lost hope that men, in general, can be sincere and actually loving.

Some of us will often say “real men don’t exist anymore” and will be very wrong indeed. Chivalry and good manners are very much alive, but the thing is, not everyone out there had the luck and chance to come across a person with such qualities or ‘the perfect guy;’ our ‘prince on the white horse.’

If you’re still looking for your prince charming, here are 12 qualities a good man possesses that will help you recognize him whenever you meet him.

1. When a man loves a woman, he will never let her forget just how much he treasures and appreciates her. We’ve all heard about those couples who couldn’t make it because of that serious lack of effort in the relationship.

Showing your deepest, most profound feelings is an essential part of a healthy relationship. A good-hearted, pure man will never leave you wondering about his true intentions.

2. A good man will be always here to support your goals and dreams even if they sometimes sound foolish.

Regardless of whether you want to pursue a new career different from your education background, take that Chinese language course you’ve always wanted, or challenge your body and mind of a one-week hiking expedition, a good man will be your biggest moral support and encouragement.

3. You know those small tiny gestures that rarely anyone understands, but mean the world to you? Like buying that book he knows you love and surprising you.

Finding a man who will care enough for you and enjoy making you happy is the most beautiful thing. No matter how meaningless something might look, a good man knows that it’s the little things that make life wonderful.

4. Honesty and sincerity are long-forgotten virtues these days. But luckily there are still some last survivors who embrace these qualities as a way of life.

A good, honorable man will open his heart and soul to you. He knows that the key to a healthy and prosperous relationship lies in honesty.

5. He genuinely cares about your relationship with your closest circle of friends and family.

A good, trustworthy gentleman will do his best to make them feel comfortable around him and he’ll always manage to be in great terms with the people you care about.

6. He makes you feel special and safe whenever you are around him. If there is one thing that people search the hardest in a person, it’s that profound, calm feeling when you find shelter and safety in a person.

I’m talking about that special little nook – that ‘safe place’ that makes us feel invincible no matter how tragic life can sometimes be. If your guy wakes this feeling in you, never let him go!

7. A good man will never allow himself to be abusive toward you. No action of yours will ever justify that kind of harmful and destructive behavior.

So, no matter if it’s mentally, emotionally, or in the worst case physically, a good pure-hearted man will never even imagine being abusive in any way possible.

8. A true gentleman will love you for your soul long before he falls in love with your looks.

He’s been through good and bad with you, knows your best qualities as well as every little flaw, and adores the person you truly are. He is driven and motivated by your intelligence and respects your vivid individuality.

9. A good base of a relationship lies in the comfort to be sincere and upfront with your closest person about all your deepest desires and fears.

A good man will always encourage you to be honest with him by first opening his very soul to you. This means being a truly comfortable and uncensored version of yourself around him.

10. How can someone stay indifferent to that sweet unexpected affection? A good man knows how to surprise you with his tender words and romantic gestures every now and then.

Although he’s always loving and considerate of your feelings, he understands the importance and beauty of spontaneity.

11. He’s compassionate and treats other people with patience and respect. A real sign of a man is shown by how he treats those who can do nothing for him.

If your man is a genuine, compassionate person that doesn’t selfishly put his needs before others and actually cares about people’s feeling in general, he’s a keeper.

12. He’ll stay by your side no matter what. With life being this unpredictable journey, besides those bright, happy days, there will also be hard situations and unexpected outcomes.

The measure of a good, reliable man lies in the willingness to put up with every obstacle life brings. A good man will make sure to always be right there for you through all of your best days as well your worst nightmares.

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It’s really not difficult to show a person that you care about them. We can feel the affection in those wonderful small gestures that make our lives whole.

Because it’s the little things that show us that our partner cares deeply for us without having any special occasion at the moment.

It’s a well-known fact that, after a while, couples can get a bit distant and forget the essential meaning of those small things. That’s when we need to work on our imagination and give our best to keep the relationship alive.

A good husband or boyfriend knows that while big impressive gestures are great, it’s the little things that mean the most to us!

Here are 12 small gestures that actually mean the world to her:

1. Always listen to her

Relationships are based on mutual respect and support. No matter how busy you are, always take the time to listen to her whenever she needs to say something.

You may not always have the perfect solution to everything she says, but sometimes only listening will do more for her than any word ever could. When she chooses to confide in you, it means that she put 100% of her trust in you. Don’t betray it.

2. When she looks beautiful, don’t hesitate to let her know 

No matter how much we deny, every one of us wants and needs a special kind of attention. Take the time and words to compliment her whenever she changes her hairstyle or wears that sexy little black dress that leaves very little to the imagination.

3. Say ‘I’m sorry’ when you make a mistake

Don’t ever forget to say, “I’m sorry” whenever you are wrong. These words would mean a lot to her and no matter if it was something trivial and small, she’ll know you care about her feelings. She’ll respect you more and be apologetic as well.

 4. Learn how to cook

This is thoughtful and sexy at the same time. Take time and hit the kitchen while she’s waiting for you with a fine bottle of wine. It doesn’t have to be a special gourmet dinner, it’s the thought and effort put into making something for her that counts the most. Besides, men that cook are extremely sexy. 

5. Send her cute good morning texts

Reminding her just how much you love her over a text message will instantly make her day better. A simple “Can’t wait to see you after work!” on a bad day can make wonders for some people. When you finally come home from work, she’ll not only be happy to see you, but she’ll know you were thinking about her the whole day.

 6. Avoid bad-mouthing your ex(es)

No matter what, please avoid gossiping and talking trash about your ex-girlfriends. It’s disrespectful and it can reflect you more than the person you are talking about. This kind of attitude can give her the wrong impression that you might do the same with her.  

 7. Kiss her when she least expects it

Whatever you do, please don’t ever forget to do the hair-kiss-hug move! You know, when you come up to her from behind, move her hair, pull her close to you, hug her tight, kiss her on the neck and hold her tight. Enjoy every moment. The beauty of life lies in those small moments. Cherish them!

8. Remember the names of her closest friends

Remember the people close to her, but also remember their names as well. This way whenever she tells you about her friend Anna- the loud mouth, you can let her know that you remember who she is referring to. Besides that, show interest in meeting and spending time with them. It’ll make her very happy.

9. Take her on dates

It doesn’t matter if you two are three, five or ten years in a relationship. Casual dating should never stop. Take some time off your daily responsibilities and take her on a night out.

It can be a quiet dinner at her favorite restaurant, casual cinema night or just an ordinary coffee date. Also trying something new like a visit to the local amusement park will always be a good idea.

10. Give her massages. A lot of them.

If you ask me, I’d do anything to have my man giving me a massage right now. After a long workday, don’t forget to give her a little sensual treatment. Pleasure her with that much-needed massage, cuddle with her, or even better, surprise her with a warm, scented, bubble bath. She’ll be very thankful.

11. Do the thing she likes for a change

This is very important. Despite your own music or movie taste, learn to respect her preferences as well. Even if you don’t really like that new documentary she’s hooked on, sit with her and give that episode a try. You might actually like it at the end. And at the same time, your girl will appreciate you more for respecting the things she finds amusing and inspiring.

12. Always tell her how you feel

Be honest with her. Always. If you ever feel like something is bothering you, don’t hesitate to share. She’ll take care of you and genuinely listen to you, the same way you supported her when she needed you the most. Being open and honest about your feelings will show her that you respect her and love her enough to open your soul to her.

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There is so much more to beauty than just good genes. Actually, there are some scientifically-proven factors that can make you instantly attractive.

Because being attractive is more than just being physically appealing. The attraction lies in the way you treat others, the way you carry yourself, and also in the kind of people you associate yourself with.

Here are 12 scientifically-proven ways on how you can make yourself more attractive immediately.

1. WEAR RED

Red is the color that symbolizes love and passion more than any other color. By wearing this color, you automatically become more attractive to the other gender.

This color is so powerful that you will naturally get the attention of everyone. So, go and buy yourself that red dress you’ve been admiring for days!

2. KEEP YOUR CHIN UP

People who keep their chin up are seen as more confident and more assertive. Plus, this position is more appealing to your face because it will define your jawline and slim down your neck region.

3. SHOW OFF YOUR PEARLY WHITES

Don’t skip your visits to the dentist because a wonderful smile is a key to attractiveness. Your smile is one of the first things that people notice when they meet you, so keep your teeth perfectly white and take good care of them.

4. CONSIDER WEARING SUNGLASSES

There are many reasons why people who wear sunglasses are generally seen as more attractive. First, we are curious human beings, so hiding your eyes behind sunglasses creates an aura of mystery.

Second, sunglasses will add more symmetry to your face. Lastly, we associate them with glamour because we see Hollywood stars wearing them constantly.

5. BOOST YOUR ADRENALINE LEVEL

Adrenaline is a natural aphrodisiac, so next time you go on a date, choose an exciting activity. Maybe watching a horror movie? Or, bungee-jumping? Anyone?

6. RED LIPSTICK IS A MUST

Red lipstick has been used as an attention-grabbing technique by women for centuries. One study from the University of Manchester found that men stare at women’s lips longer when they are wearing a red lipstick.

So, ladies, put your red lipstick on and get ready for turning heads. Literally.   

7. THINK ANDROGYNY

People who have that androgynous voice or look are found to be more attractive because it is a great mix of both feminine and masculine qualities. So, ladies, go ahead and get that short haircut that you’ve always wanted. And gentlemen, try wearing pink for a change.

8. STICK WITH A GROUP

People are generally perceived to be more attractive when they are among a group of people. This is also known as the ‘cheerleader effect.’ This is because people tend to analyze faces in groups and make an ‘average’ of all the faces they see.

9. EAT FRUITS AND VEGETABLES

We’ve been told this since we were kids, and yes, the truth is that eating fruits and vegetables really does wonders for your health and attractiveness.

Your hair will become stronger and brighter, your skin will start glowing, and you’ll lose weight as well. Plus, it’s very important for you to take your daily dose of vitamins.

10. GET A DOG

Researchers found that dog-owners are 3 times more likely to get a phone number from the other sex than those who don’t own a dog.

They believe this is because they were seen as more caring and nurturing which are great qualities for a potential romantic partner. Plus, dogs are great for using them as pickup lines.

11. DON’T OVERDO THE PERFUME/COLOGNE

Yes, it is really important to smell good in order to feel confident and attractive.

However, be careful not to leave a cloud of perfume behind you because others may be more sensitive to odors than you, so you don’t want to give them an asthma attack. Your natural scent is also sexy and appealing.

12. AVERAGE ISN’T ALWAYS A BAD THING

Many people falsely think that they would be more attractive if they had bigger lips or smaller noses.

In fact, researchers have found that when it comes to attractiveness, the most attractive people are those whose faces are symmetrical, and whose facial features are neither too big or thick nor too small or thin. 

It’s strange how growing up with a sister can make you an all-around better man. Even though you might not have had a brother to wrestle with, you can’t deny that your sister helped you to become the gentleman that you are today.

And while you have probably argued a lot while growing up – you can’t deny that your sister taught you that conflicts should not be about winning because the more important thing is understanding.  

And, because of her, you now better understand women. Here are 11 things that you learned while growing up with your sister.

1. You Comply With “LADIES FIRST”

Growing up with your sister you learned to be patient. You let her have the last piece of the chocolate or let her decide what movie should you watch. This gives you a better perspective on how to treat the ladies because you grew-up with ‘ladies first’ rule.

2. You Know When To Keep Your Mouth Shut

Living with your sister for most of your young years has made you able to understand the women’s language of grudges and battles fought in silence. So, now you know when to bite your tongue and shut up.

3. You Know How To Shop

You practiced shopping ever since you were waiting in front of a women’s boutique for your sister and your mom to finish shopping. And maybe it annoyed you when you had to go to the mall to keep your sister company, but this made it easier for you to adjust to your girlfriend’s shopping spree.

4. …And You Give Better Presents Too

Because of your sister’s eagerness to give something special to your parents, you have mastered the art of giving presents.

5. You Know How To Argue With Women

You understand now that you probably wouldn’t have the last word in the argument, and you learned to be okay with that. Because of your arguments with your sister, you realized that the best way to get out of an argument is to let her “be right” and go with it.

6. Plus, You Learned How To Apologize

Your growing up with your sister has taught you to value relationships more. You realize now that a simple apology goes a long way and it is a number one key to keeping your relationships healthy and progressive.

7. You Don’t Find Tampons Disgusting

… Never mind.

8. You Had To Sleep On The Sofa Long Before You Ever Got In Trouble

Whenever you were on vacations or in situations where there was only one bed available – you just knew that you would be getting the couch treatment because your sister always got the princess treatment. This prepared you for your future fights with your girlfriend/wife.

9. … And You Grasp The Importance Of The ‘First Shower’ Regarding Bathroom Priority

While you can go along with sleeping on the couch from time to time, your bathroom privilege is something that you won’t give up. Even more so, that ladies can take an hour to shower and get ready, while you would be finished in just 5 minutes or so.  

10. You Have Become An Expert At Staying Preoccupied During 2-Hour Chick Flicks

Because when your sister made you watch “The Notebook” five times in one month, you probably have learned around the second time to lose yourself in your own thoughts as an effective means of distraction.  

11. You Understand What It Means To Be Protective Of The People You Love

You were always your little sister’s protector. This taught you to be always respectful and protective of the ladies because you never allowed anybody to cross any lines with your sister either.

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I believe we were once a part of the same story. Whether you were the one who made the mistake of taking it all for granted or the one that got away, we’ve all seen it. The sad story of how the nice guy loses the girl for being exactly himself.

Speaking for the sake of all nice guys out there who were a part of something so heart-wrenching, this goes to the girl who unconsciously let go of the best thing in her life.

Dear Girl Who Walked Away,

I’ll allow myself to be brutally honest with you. Trust me, it’s for your own good. It’s not that you weren’t aware of the consequence this might bring to you. He was the nicest guy you’ve met in your life. You knew him. You knew he gave you everything your heart asked for and yet, you pushed him away. It was as if he wasn’t good enough for you.

And he felt it. He felt your cold touch and your distance. But no matter how painful it was, he risked his heart to be right there for you and made sure you always knew just how much you mean to him. But that just wasn’t enough for you, was it? You wanted something else. Something thrilling, yet so exhausting.

We think that playing hard-to-get makes us more attractive in the eyes of people.We’re hooked on some kind of a twisted game that’s just becoming more and more harmful. We’re a part of the generation that grew with the lack of all the right moral values.

Bonds based on true love are among the rarest these days. Nobody cares enough to give you ALL. We like quotes on Instagram that say how much care and nurturing we seek from relationships, but when we receive it, we take it for granted.

And when that perfect someone knocks on our door, we completely ignore them.

But why would you do that?

Is it the challenge of hunting someone seemingly more important rather than having a person who you can rely on at any given moment?

I keep listening to girls constantly regretting their choice to be with a ‘player.’ You know what I mean. Douchebag or jerk would be a more compatible word. 

I keep hearing “There’s something so irresistible about him.” However, they always end up highly disappointed as if they didn’t already know that from the beginning.

And for once, you met a nice perfect guy who loved you no matter what. Someone who stood by your side when you were at your most vulnerable self, someone who wiped your tears and forced you to grow.

He fought hard for you no matter the obstacles… and then you had to walk out on him just because he was too nice for you. The sad thing is, he wasn’t interesting enough as the self-centered douchebag who entered your life and smashed your heart into pieces.

He was too safe for you. He didn’t reflect the hardship and heartache you were used to, and suddenly life got so easy. With him, there were no hurricanes – only smooth sailing. But the only thing he was guilty of was giving you that much. That was his curse. So you left him. And no matter how devastating this was for him, he let you walk away.

But the thing you didn’t realize is that he’ll eventually be fine. Time will pass, his wounds will get better and he’ll find someone who won’t take him for granted the way you did. Someone who’ll cherish his love and affection and will give him twice the love you couldn’t even bring yourself to give.

And when you finally do realize that… Oh my darling, it will be too late.

And people like him don’t step into your life every day. He was the one who would love you forever. That guy was the one you were supposed to end up with. But no matter the circumstances, I truly hope you’ll realize this soon enough before someone else does and make the right choice for yourself.

Sincerely,

The Girl Who Was Too Late

While the majority of people still confuses sarcasm with rudeness and bitchiness, the truth is that sarcasm is a trait that only sharp, savvy individuals possess. 

A sarcastic woman is a diamond in the rough: there’s treasure hiding beneath the surface that’s riddled with shrewdness and sarcasm.

However, sarcastic women usually get a bad rap because they are not afraid to speak their mind with their sharp tongue. And even though many think that sarcasm is incredibly sexy, many men actually don’t prefer dating sarcastic women.  

Here are 12 things that sarcastic women do that blew their chances to find true love.

1. They Reason That Their Mean-Spirited Humor Is Their Way Of Showing Affection. DUH!

Sarcastic women can get really uncomfortable with the touchy-feely displays of affections, so they would start insulting their partner as their way of bonding with them. However, many men don’t appreciate a loving jab. So, ladies, be careful when you decide to mock your partner’s new car.  

2. They May Sardonically Laugh At Their Partner’s Fumbled Advances Even Though They Find Them Endearing.

They are likely to laugh at their partner’s clumsiness because they find themselves too nervous and too into their partner to do anything else.

3. Their ‘I Love You’ May Sound Insincere To Their Partner.

This usually happens when a woman’s sarcasm is so strong that others cease to take her seriously or understand her (sarcastic) language.

4. Their Way Of Making Fun Of Their Partner’s Girly Drink.

Let’s face it, sarcastic women are terrible at flirting. Their way of showing admiration and adoration is through mocking and insulting everything their partner does and everything they are. They are lucky if their partner can see the passion beneath their insults.  

5. They Are Likely To Imply Their Partner’s College Degree Has Made Them Stupid.

They may take things a little too far when they comment something like this to their partner. Sure, they would regret it later, but their partner, who even though was smart enough to graduate from Yale, may not have the same sense of humor.

6. They Would Rather Skip Listening To Their Partner’s Birth Saga.

No, they are just kidding. Or, are they?

7. They Can Pretty Much Emasculate Their Man Before He Even Takes His Clothes Off.

No matter how eloquent they are when they speak their sarcastic language, when it comes to having a normal communication, they get stuck. Their teasing and sarcastic comments are their way to protect themselves from vulnerability.

8. They (Sometimes) Insist They Are The Most Amazing Human Beings On The Planet.

With this, they are just trying to be funny, charming, and cute because deep down they are insecure. So, by describing their strengths, they feign their confidence. However, this can be quite annoying for their partners because they could easily mistake them for being egotistic.

9. They Would Blatantly Ignore Their Partner Just For Fun.

This is some twisted high-school logic, but sarcastic women would intentionally ignore their partner because they feel nervous, insecure, and deep down they believe that this tactic will work.

10. They Are Prone To Make Fun Of Their Partner’s Job In Finance.

But what else are they supposed to do? Be impressed that their partner is able to count the money of others? Hell, no. Just kidding, of course.

11. They Say ‘I Hate You’ To Their Partner.

This means ‘I love you’ in sarcastic language. Also, ‘Go away’ means ‘Please stay.’ Easy, right? Only if their partners could learn to speak their language.

12. They May Accidentally-For-Real Call 911.

They tried to make a joke.